There's this girl. So beautiful. I can't keep my eyes off her, and she is always on my mind. There's just something about her I love. She's my friend, but I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel about her. I get so nervous. I'm very shy. What should I do.
2006-08-30 16:10:56 · 26 answers · asked by makaveli1788 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your closer then most shy guy are most shy have never even talk to the girls they like. be glade you don't have to talk to a total stranger. girl think shy is so cute that's two up ask her if she want to hang with you then tell her what you told us she so beautiful that touch me and i not her give it a shot
2006-08-30 17:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds really juvenile but have a mutual friend bring the subject up when you're not around. It sounds like you really care for her and truthfully if your feelings aren't reflected in hers it can ruin your friendship. Keep in mind though that honesty is the best policy and if you feel that strongly about it she may appreciate it more if you are completely forthright.
2006-08-30 23:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by jae3646 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you think that she likes you back? Or is she showing you hints that she likes you too?
It won't hurt to tell her, but that'd mean you'll have to take your friendship to a risk.. because if she doesn't feel the same way as you do, then it'd be awkward for her and yourself from the day that you tell her how you feel.
Maybe wait for the right time, or if you'd like to take the risk.. then you could go for it :) Some girls like guys who makes moves, yknoe ;] ..
2006-08-30 23:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by HNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just start slowly and just ask her out to see a movie and maybe just a casual meal at Subway. Take it slow. Do that a couple times and then maybe tell her how you feel about her. But take it slow! You can get close to her but do it slow and this way you will both be more comfortable.
2006-08-30 23:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by kountrykat2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't keep your eyes off her, in all liklyhood she has noticed your stares.... Now is the time to come clean and tell her you find her beautiful and intriguing and want to get to know her better... If you don't and you continue to stare it may be misconstrued as something creepy... Tell her how you feel...
2006-08-30 23:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for clues. If a girl wants you to be more than a friend, she will make it pretty obvious. If she doesn't, nothing you can say will change her mind and by telling her you may end up wrecking your friendship.
2006-08-30 23:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and me buddy are so similar. If you dont tell her you will always ask yourself "what if". If you do tell her, maybe she feels the same way, if she doesnt you can still be friends, or at least you can continue to look!!!
2006-08-30 23:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by jeri_nunez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you feel. Even if she isn't interested in dating you, yeah that will sting a little, but she will respect you for talking to her about it and you will score major in the whole sensitive sweet guy department. I say tell her how you feel but don't start it out by asking her out, talk to her about what she thinks first, it takes out all the confusion and weirdness.
2006-08-30 23:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot just tell her, then try writing a letter, I know it sounds a little silly, but by writing you will be able to tell her everything. No, don't send an email, actually write a letter, it is more personal.
2006-08-30 23:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem as u man same thing i cant tell the girl who i love that i love her it just does'nt come out of my mouth but i think the more u talk to her the easy u will feel thats what i do i talk to her go read my question in my profile believe me i have the same problem
2006-08-30 23:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by lil hands 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋