became argumentive and emotionally abusive when drinking. Is a cheater and a liar but I am addicted to him like being addicted to crack coccaine.
2006-08-30 16:11:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to realize that you can't help either of you by staying in the relationship. An alcoholic learns to depend on you for their emotional outbursts, and you are fighting a losing battle until this person decides for himself that he's tired of being a drunken, mean idiot. Believe me, you can love him all you want from afar, but right now your love is not being returned. Leaving him might cause him to turn his life around, but more importantly, it will show you that there is life without the drinking, screaming, name calling, lying, and cheating going on. Most likely he'll find another co-dependant woman who will take his crap. Personal experience, dear. It's time for you to tear yourself away and love yourself just a little bit more than you love him.
2006-08-30 16:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
an alcoholic should be no the position close to a courting!!! If he cant figure his personal sh*t out how is he think to figure a courting out? Now in case you want him i doesn't say you should depart him, yet when he doesn't conform to initiate going to some variety of counseling(AA or something else) than i visit actually depart him! Your success you under no circumstances married him like this. you opt to imagine about your destiny. How would he take care of a kinfolk? Is he waiting to carry a interest? i'm answering this question because i understand first hand about this my husband is an alcoholic we do not drink in any respect now and we are satisfied. strong success with each and every thing!
2016-10-15 22:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have recently been in the same position that u r in. Except the abuse will get worse it will turn to physical abuse after he see the emotional abuse get to you. I love my ex to death and it still hurts not being able to be with him. But I had to think about me like you have to think about you. He is no good for you and you will only end up getting hurt more in the long run. You have to accept that what he does to you is wrong and that you deserve better. Time will heal your pain and knowing that you are okay will help. Pray to God to give you the strength to get threw the hard times and to help ease your pain. He is the only man that you can truly trust. It's not worth putting yourself threw the pain....men like that don't care about the people that truly love them all they worry about is drinking and doing whatever they want.It doesn't matter who get hurt in the process. Go while you can and do better for yourself. Good Luck Hope that you listen to me.. Have been there more than once.
2006-08-30 16:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you start dating someone that treats you decently, you'll wonder what took you so long.
You owe to yourself not to settle.
2006-08-31 04:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by raysny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always go out and have a couple of drinks!
2006-08-30 16:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by xcpedaler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL IF THAT'S WHAT YOU FEEL YOU DESERVE,THEN YOU WILL PROBABLY BECOME A STATISTIC SOMEDAY. TELEPHONE BOOKS ARE FULL OF PSYCHIATRIC HELP,I SUGGEST YOU FIND SOME.
2006-08-30 16:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by mewho? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u dont like how he behaves
2006-08-30 16:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by M.A.R.K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know about crack why are you worried about aloholic? they are both drugs
2006-08-30 16:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by TERRY P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to stay away. at all costs
2006-08-30 16:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill him
2006-08-30 16:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by sadsdsa 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋