Family & Relationships - 28 August 2006

I'm been living with my partner for 8½ years and 99% of our relationship is wonderful. We have the same interests, we laugh all the time, we enjoy the same activities, the same food etc. However, there is that 1% that really annoys me. He sponges off me a lot, he hardly ever helps out and the thing that really annoys me is that he can NEVER say he is sorry. How can the bad 1% outweigh the great 99%?

2006-08-28 04:42:45 · 11 answers · asked by sarah071267 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend brandon who i've been with since our freshman year and he told me last night that his mom hits him and he also told me that she is always kicking him and leaving marks on him to where people can see and he ask me to help him.

2006-08-28 04:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 04:41:57 · 46 answers · asked by che_lumen 1 in Friends

my crush is a guy named james but he only wants to be friends, we email each other and he has written me back a letter because i wrote him before shool let out last year. im still in love with the boyfriend i have now and i do want to marry him but i have had these feelings for james ever since i met him at the beginning of last school year. what should i do?

2006-08-28 04:41:51 · 25 answers · asked by wilsonsispickme 1 in Singles & Dating

There is just something exciting about checking into a motel in the middle of the day with your lover.

2006-08-28 04:41:20 · 17 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

looking for ladyindacut

2006-08-28 04:41:16 · 2 answers · asked by Wesley S 1 in Friends

Would you prefer to be newlyweds again, or where are you right now in your marriage?

2006-08-28 04:40:57 · 32 answers · asked by mutt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-28 04:40:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, I am in major like with this guy (who apparently has a major like on me 2). I am so not complaining but.... I have this friend who likes him too, she was the one who introduced us to each other. AND NOW BECAUSE the guy is falling in love with me, and I think I am also falling for the guy. She threatend to hurt me if I don't "dump" the guy and "surrender" the guy to her. AND, this other guy who is apperently MY stalker is also teaming up with that biatch of a girl, so they could split me and the guy up!

This guy is really special. He made me feel so nice inside and he treats me normally. He's like a big brother for me.... something that happens only once in a lifetime.

Help Me Guys!

2006-08-28 04:39:53 · 5 answers · asked by Mrz.Fabz21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

In a woman's mind, sex is a TV game show, and a vagina is the grand prize. Men are the contestants, and they have to earn points by performing various stunts to please the hostess. If they fail to perform the stunts properly, they are given a peck on the cheek as a consolation prize. If they adequately perform the stunts, they are given a chance at the "lightning round" to actually get into the girl's pants. If they succeed, they are given the almighty poosy. If not, they are given a year's supply of turtle wax.

In some (admittetly) weird way, that's how I see dating. I'm wondering if you women are openminded enough to see the games you all play with men.

2006-08-28 04:39:20 · 14 answers · asked by *I CURED My Yellow Teeth* 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has pictures of her ex in her closet... Her ex is now her friend and they don't talk very much... but I am very jealous of the other ex girlfriend... I don't know why...? My girlfriend was so in love with her and I am not sure she feels the same way about me and it kinda' hurts my feelings a little...
anyways.. question is how should i approche her about this or should i say anything at all to her about it... and if i do say something and she says i don't have anything to worrie about and it don't make me feel any better what should i do then?

i saw them this morning when she was getting dressed for work... i asked her and she told me that they where no big deal she was just putting her back in the closet where she belongs... but she has her pic all over and what makes me jealouse is i just dont feel like she is as into me as she was her ex or as much as i am her

2006-08-28 04:39:19 · 4 answers · asked by notsurewhoiam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is very lazy and sleeps to much.

2006-08-28 04:38:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For those who do not know the song, these are the lyrics:
(Eurovision Song Contest 2006 :: Greece)

I can hear my heart breaking
As I open the door
I can feel the tears
On my face burn like fire
As I look in your eyes
And I know
I'm still in love

With everything I hate
Everything you do
Everything I fear
Everything on you

to view the video, click here: http://www.youtube.com/p.swf?video_id=ykieAsZsvOE&eurl=http%3A//video.yahoo.com/video/play%3Fp%3Danna%2Bvissi%2Beverything%26toggle%3D1%26cop%3D%26ei%3DUTF-8%26b%3D8%26oid%3D2feffe66a&iurl=http%3A//sjl-static10.sjl.youtube.com/vi/ykieAsZsvOE/2.jpg&t=OEgsToPDskKU5UMsYJMx7gl3s5WI6Iyr

2006-08-28 04:38:39 · 1 answers · asked by trushka 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf had been going out for a long time
he promised me everything and told me he would love me forever
but last night i saw him with another girl
and after i confronted him
he just told me to eff off
how do i get over him
he was my everything

2006-08-28 04:38:31 · 8 answers · asked by x3holdaloverclose 2 in Singles & Dating

i am dating an older woman she is 40 and im 28 i have never been with a older woman and we are starting to move toward sex she has had a full historectomy should i expect anything different than with a younger girl

2006-08-28 04:38:09 · 8 answers · asked by james p 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend told me that someone told her that she shouldn't be looking for men on Match.com because she's not willing to sleep with someone until she's in a committed relationship. He told her that if she had put that on her profile no one would have contacted her. Do most men assume that women they meet on-line will have sex with them right away. Is that mainly what most men are looking for when they go to on-line dating sites? Just curious.

2006-08-28 04:37:53 · 8 answers · asked by GirlfromUncle 3 in Singles & Dating

Any advice much appreciated. I started going out with a guy recently and i really like him. Only problem is i don't find him sexually attractive whatsoever. That whole side of the relationship is a disaster really. I know its so shallow but he isn't very well endowed at all. He is the type also that would get so embarrassed if i mentioned sex. I do believe it is big part of a relationship but this guy is perfect otherwise. My friends say to end it but i don't know. Any advice? Or is there anybody out there who has the same prob??

2006-08-28 04:37:31 · 31 answers · asked by sarah h 1 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be husband wants me to be a freak in the bed, I want to know what is a freak and what do guys like in the bedroom I have only been with him so I do not know!!! Please help me!!

2006-08-28 04:37:26 · 5 answers · asked by onesexyg18 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-28 04:37:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My gf is always complaining that Im not with her enought.
I go to her house 1 day in the midweek, cause I have a job from 9:30 am to 7:30-8pm (my boss is a workaholic). so I get to her home around 8:30 and I stay till 10pm cause it takes 1 hour to return to my home.
fridays I get to her house around same time, but i stay till 1-2am.
On saturday I stay there from 5-5:30pm to 1-2-am and and sunday I same "arrival time" but i leave around 10pm.
My gf says that her cousin's boyfriends visit their cousins everyday.
One is a loser that is afraid to say no to her gf and the other is not in good relations with his family so he prefers to stay out of his house.
Im a right? should i visit her or what i do is enough?
I hardly see my family on weekends and i get really tired from work, and is a long way back home.

2006-08-28 04:36:59 · 33 answers · asked by Mr. E 3 in Singles & Dating

This year I got stuck with a random roomate in college. We have absolutly NOTHING in common. She stays in on the weekends, she watches tv shows that my parents used to watch, she is a total neat freak, she wakes up at the crack of dawn even though she doesnt have class till 11. And as much as I try to get along with her she is very moody. So now its only been a week since school started and i already dont like her. what should I do please help me!!!

2006-08-28 04:36:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-28 04:36:07 · 1 answers · asked by brutalA 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

3 years of a serious relationship, we were getting engaged this summer, he suddently became very cold. After many discussions we splitted up becasuse he said i was too possessive and that we were like married. I was blaming myself and ask forgiveness but he never came back. 3 days after i have been told that he was cheating with another girl when we were together. He doesn`t know that i know. But he will tell me that it was my fault cos i pushed him to do that (because in his opinion we were seeing each-other too much and he got bored). Was it my fault that we had smth serious and we did things together? Why didn`t i get bored with him? Is a mistake to wanna hold the one you love?

2006-08-28 04:35:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it is a very bad situation what would you do this has happened to me and i am clueless

2006-08-28 04:35:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-girlfriend and I been dating for four years. In those four years we have had a on and off again relationship. I know I havent been the ideal boyfriend. But I tried to be a better person. For a while she was saying this long distance relationship she couldnt handle. A month ago she broke up with me saying that she no longer wanted to be in a relationship. Shortly after that she told me that she was seeing someone else and it was getting serious. I dont know how to get over her because she is still in my heart.

2006-08-28 04:34:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl, but she was giving me some confusing signals, so i emailed her this ( read details)?
can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

Additional Details

3 hours ago
i emailed this last night, and i dont think shes had a chance to check her mail yet, was this a bad thing to do? what will she think?

3 hours ago
I mean its not like a one time thing, the situation is she totally used to like me, well she has really backed off, over the past few months, and i have no clue why, wellim 15, and shes 13, and i talked with her mom, cause they are really close. and she said i need to talk to her, to find out what goin on. its not like she didnt talk to me one time and i freakd out, it like weve talked a total of 2 sentences to each other over the past month.

2006-08-28 04:34:23 · 4 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

My step sun is going to be 15 and he is always asking to drive my car?

2006-08-28 04:34:01 · 25 answers · asked by Melissa T 1 in Family

ok so i had a best friend in 8th grade lets say her name was ( mary) and then when we went to high school we sort of stopped being friends because we did not have any classes together, different friends, different things, jobs, families and all.... any way then in 10th grade i found out that she went to paris to live with her dad with out even telling me.....ok well i pretended i did not care i mean we werent that good friends anyway.... then in the summer of 10th grade my friend ( catty) saw her in this book store and i was hurt, we were bestest friend in 8th grade, people used to call us twins. and she did not even bother saying hi when she came down here...... Any way its best for me to pretend not to care cuz then i sort of just forget about it on top of my mind.... call me crazy! now i am in 12th grade and i have been having weird dreams....What should i do? am i wrong to be mad at her?

2006-08-28 04:33:58 · 23 answers · asked by Love Exists? 6 in Friends

2006-08-28 04:33:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 04:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships