Family & Relationships - 28 August 2006

How do I tell someone I've been w/ for five years that I need to leave. I'm going to pack my stuff while he's at work b/c I know if he's there when I do it I won't be able to do it, but know that I need to. He will destroy all of my things important or not. I know they're just things but he'll try to destroy stuff that has sentimental value to me. How do I tell him? Should I tell him? Should I just leave? He'll be at work and I'm suppose to pick him up after work. Should I show up or not?

2006-08-28 05:05:41 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Honey's Mom 1 in Singles & Dating

I have only one friend in the net. Now she is away for some days. This has made me like I entered in a cave in the night.

2006-08-28 05:05:38 · 9 answers · asked by N O 2 in Friends

You don't get to touch, you don't see them fully naked, so why do men like going. What actually goes on when you sit there and have a dance? just interested to know please.

2006-08-28 05:05:27 · 20 answers · asked by radiant 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

They are price guides for baseball cards, those are hidden too. I've also got comic books. I say these will be valuable, my wife would start a bonfire with them. Do you have any secrets you keep from your significant other?

2006-08-28 05:04:47 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If u r ignorant and rude, u need not answer. I just ant 2 know 4 personal information.

2006-08-28 05:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by peachy keen 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm expecting my 3rd child, i'm experiencing mild morning sickness, alot of nausea but not vomiting, I know I should be ecstatic, but i'm concerned with it hurting my baby....please advice

2006-08-28 05:04:44 · 25 answers · asked by Michie 1 in Family

Do you lie to get more?

2006-08-28 05:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by anitababy.brainwash 6 in Singles & Dating

the things is that , when we are all really drunk , my friend is like brushing up againts me like wanting to do stuff, and now shes feeling all weird ! what is her problem? oh , and then she says , next time we should include the our men ?? im confused what the hell she wants to do ! ? help!

2006-08-28 05:04:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there aniversary is in two weeks and i havent bought nothin yet cus i dony noe wat to get so can someone help me?!?

2006-08-28 05:04:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

From the pitfalls you experienced, what have you learnt and applied to avoid such pitfalls in future? Are there any axioms which 1. husbands 2. wives can follow right from the begining so that their marriage will last until death of a spouse in reasonably happy peaceful and harmonius relationship?Let your answers cover every stage (eg honeymoon, early settlement, period of adjustment, begetting a child, division of labour, settling children, theit education, growing old gracefully) and every conceivable situation ( joys, sorrows, shifting to a new house or city, in-law problems, finance division) of married life. Answer whereever you found that the solution you arrived at can equally be applied to all the marriages.

2006-08-28 05:03:53 · 46 answers · asked by cheyuta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-28 05:03:17 · 6 answers · asked by Arpit S 1 in Friends

2006-08-28 05:03:12 · 15 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

Please, no lame answers like "because men are jerks and women are princesses." What I'm asking about is the use of the word "DESERVE." In casual conversation (among women), the use of the word "deserve" is applied differently to men and women. women "deserve" rewards, men "deserve" consequences.

Do any of you see my point? You'll never hear a woman say to her boyfriend, "honey, you DESERVE a ski trip with the boys" and you'll never hear a woman say to one of her girlfriends "well, he dumped you, and you DESERVED it."

comments?

2006-08-28 05:02:36 · 13 answers · asked by *I CURED My Yellow Teeth* 3 in Singles & Dating

Please this is serious. My fiance, though a wonderful person, very often seems to suggest that i have no life! This is affecting my self-esteem gradually... i had no problem with my way of life earlier and never viewed it as worthless. But since i realized that he's not very happy with the way i am , i feel unworthy of just anything. I must say he's a nice person who initially made me feel extremely valued. I know love changes.... but that early ??

2006-08-28 05:02:28 · 16 answers · asked by smorgan 1 in Weddings

When she undressess, I am completely and totally turned off by this. I have seriously considered looking elsewhere for sex. I've dropped hints that being grossly overweight is unhealthy, but she refuses to do anything about it. What am I to think other than she doesn't care enough to shape up?

2006-08-28 05:01:30 · 116 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to start dating out of my race and its been really hard because it doesnt appear that the opposite race is attracted to me, its almost like their scared of me!!! What can I do??

2006-08-28 05:00:57 · 23 answers · asked by DSPARKLE 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm about a year or so out of a 10 year marriage. My previous marriage ended in an affair (my wife met someone else). I currently have a live-in GF, who I love dearly, and who would like for me to propose. We've been living together for 3 months. Thus far, things are wonderful, but I still feel a bit hurt by the previous break up, and I'm not really ready to "jump in" again. How long should I give myself to "recover" from this sense of betrayal? I really don't want my GF to feel like she's waiting in vain...

Thnx in advance - SF

2006-08-28 05:00:22 · 11 answers · asked by sandspur_321 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how would you know his sincerity if you've just known each other thru the net? then he tells you he loves you?can that be real?

2006-08-28 05:00:20 · 8 answers · asked by amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

I do it just before my inlaws come over to visit.

The dog lets out some wretched bad air.
They don't stay long.

The dog is okay afterwards and I have my house to myself again.

Am I hurting the dog?

2006-08-28 04:59:48 · 12 answers · asked by beento5consonants 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My in-laws hate me and don't call the house they call his cell phone and they knew I was going away for the day they called the house it was on the caller id and he planned it to go there with my son and lied about where he was going until I called in to see how my son was doing he told me where he was.

2006-08-28 04:59:30 · 15 answers · asked by fungirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is so upset b/c his grandma is in the hosptial and i really want to help him out and he just isn't himself and i keep asking him what is up? and he doesn't answer me and it makes me mad b/c i can't figure out what his beef is. Brandon knows i really love him and will never leave him for anyone else and he loves me back in return and i just want to see him happy again when i try to help him when i figure out whats up with his grandma.

2006-08-28 04:59:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 04:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 04:58:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The reason i ask is, one of my best friends is a real womaniser, we go out together usually once a week for a laugh and to really chill out, while we're out he (Not Me) does occasionally chat up other women. My Partner hates these nights out with my mate and this is a source of constant argument between us.
Should i give up these nights out? am i being unreasonable? I really enjoy these nights out, which are nothing more than a chance to relax and unwind, or should i forget the amateur psychology here, adopt the caveman mentality and just slap her into line?
Should women influence men in their choice of friends in order
to ensure a man's loyalty? Do women ever really trust Men or do we really need guidence?

2006-08-28 04:58:07 · 22 answers · asked by Stephen 2 in Friends

say wasnt it,!!! please dont mess around, its cost me 5 points to ask this question and im trying my best to get to level 3, lol

2006-08-28 04:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 04:56:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats the deal guys? Your all so worried about how your wife cleans the house? One of you even said it's a women's job? Please, your making me sick...You all whine about not enough sex and she doesn't clean the house to your satisfaction...Do yourself and her a favor. Get her a cleaning lady and you'll have more sex. If you don't like it then YOU clean the toilets and then give it to her so she can roll over on you and snore in your ear all night.

2006-08-28 04:56:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'll be gone for the first 9 weeks and only be home about every other week, and after the 9 weeks are up I'll be out of state for the next 3 weeks, and won't beable to come home at all. What can I do to make it easier on my husband and myself durring this seperation? We have never been apart this long and I know it will be hard on the both of us. Any tips? He will be stradled with bills, taking care of animals (which includes cleaning a litter box) and cooking for himself. Any ideas to make things easier on him? (we've been married for almost a year, also he has never cleaned a litter box in his life)

2006-08-28 04:55:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

for example, this guy i like (my driving instructor of all people) has been telling me his plans for the weekend and stuff. he's also telling me where he is planning to go on vacation and stuff. he made it clear to me that he has an ex GF but not a current one. he remembers stuff i say too.

i may be reading too much into it because i kinda like him. just wanted to get your views on it, especially the guys.

2006-08-28 04:54:50 · 21 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

i have the county sheriff's office looking for him and he couldn't have went to far in 2 days but i do need help i don't know where to go he is 27,000 in arrears and no help from anyone

2006-08-28 04:54:44 · 9 answers · asked by wish26444 1 in Marriage & Divorce