I'll be gone for the first 9 weeks and only be home about every other week, and after the 9 weeks are up I'll be out of state for the next 3 weeks, and won't beable to come home at all. What can I do to make it easier on my husband and myself durring this seperation? We have never been apart this long and I know it will be hard on the both of us. Any tips? He will be stradled with bills, taking care of animals (which includes cleaning a litter box) and cooking for himself. Any ideas to make things easier on him? (we've been married for almost a year, also he has never cleaned a litter box in his life)
2006-08-28 04:55:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
prepare him some meals that he can just heat later and give him the wildest sex of his life each time, before you just leave!
2006-08-28 04:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you do all this now and he doesn't help with any of that ?? And you work too ??
Uh ohhhhhhhhhh
Give him a crash course on paying bills etc, how much each animal gets how many times a day. Prepare him some meals ahead of time and throw them in the freezer, or buy already prepared frozen meals. Teach him how to cook some basic stuff if he doesn't already know how.
Honestly, if he is old enough to play house, then he should be old enough to know how to keep house. If you do everything for him, then he doesn't have to and is quite possible he already knows how to do most of this stuff.
And get clumping cat litter. Nothing to scooping each day.
2006-08-28 05:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Patti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a litter maid for the cat(s) cleans automatic.
Give him what most men want (sex and lots of it before and during the time your there) even though you may not want to.
Order food for him while he is out of town, pizza,etc. send him a few cards and buy some fun sports videos or something to keep his mind occupied while he is gone. Try playing an online chess game with him while your gone. tell him you want him to go see some movies while you are gone. Set up a project for him to do while you are gone and get him excited about it. A project that will take some time. Show him you appreciate it.
from a guys point of view
2006-08-28 05:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by jeffrey k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If theres any way you can arrange it to pay the bills online, do it. That way you can take care of it yourself from whereever you are.
As far as cleaning, eating and taking care of the litterbox, he's pretty much on his own. Men arent stupid when it comes to household chores, they just act like it so they dont have to do it. Changing the litterbox isnt rocket science. Show him once and he'll get it.
Besides, you'll have a phone where you can keep in touch, right?
2006-08-28 05:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he'll manage the litter box and bills. You make him sound like a child; give him credit!
2006-08-28 05:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, he will adapt without you. If you have a good means of communication (cell phone, computer, etc.) it will make things a lot easier to keep in touch. If you think he needs it, make a to do list or schedule, or helpful reminders.
2006-08-28 05:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by melinda_rn2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your worried about your husband cleaning the litter box? ive never owned a cat in my life and i dont think i would need special instructions so i wouldnt worry about that one.... i would make sure he knows how to send pictures to you through email and so do you... cause that helps a lot.... when you send recent pictures
2006-08-28 05:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lipstick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely if the rationalization isn't the concern and that's not each verbal replace, then i'm type of puzzled... Like, quicker or later he asks you what you imagine of a movie and also you gab away, notwithstanding the subsequent time he asks you what you imagine about a movie you freeze up or close down? that's unusual. Social stress perhaps? Does it take position a similar way with human beings too? Do you word any kinds to this in any respect, like, each and anytime it occurs you had a demanding workday perhaps? A psychologist ought to help you more beneficial valuable.
2016-11-28 02:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by rolfes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse, let him know what's really going on and it will take care of itself. Your husand will ajust after a little one on one during your returns.
2006-08-28 05:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by dallwright8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a bunch of meals for him that he can just pop in the microwave, make sure his laundry is done
2006-08-31 19:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋