my boyfriend is so upset b/c his grandma is in the hosptial and i really want to help him out and he just isn't himself and i keep asking him what is up? and he doesn't answer me and it makes me mad b/c i can't figure out what his beef is. Brandon knows i really love him and will never leave him for anyone else and he loves me back in return and i just want to see him happy again when i try to help him when i figure out whats up with his grandma.
2006-08-28 04:59:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go to the hospital with him to visit his grandmother...like buy some flowers for her and go together to the hospital and tell him that he should spend as much time with her while shes still here....tell him to get off his depressed *** and make the most of it...because jeez his grandma isn't dead yet and he needs to enjoy her while shes still alive and be depressed after she dies....like he needs to talk to her now...maybe she'll say something that can lift his spirits up...
2006-08-28 05:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you are there for him if he kneeds a shoulder to lean on or an open ear to listen to his feeling. He might want some space to sort out his feelings. You can ask if you can accompany him to the hospital when he visits his grandma.
2006-08-28 12:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by WheelchairBA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him if u could go with him to the hospital to visit his grandma, and just tell him that u know how it feels... and all that.
2006-08-28 12:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about giving him space. Let him know you are there for him but that you will let him be alone if that is what he needs.... Getting mad is counter-productive!
2006-08-28 12:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mystie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him have his time, his grandma will soon be dead, dont choke him to death
2006-08-28 12:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋