Whats the deal guys? Your all so worried about how your wife cleans the house? One of you even said it's a women's job? Please, your making me sick...You all whine about not enough sex and she doesn't clean the house to your satisfaction...Do yourself and her a favor. Get her a cleaning lady and you'll have more sex. If you don't like it then YOU clean the toilets and then give it to her so she can roll over on you and snore in your ear all night.
2006-08-28 04:56:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
feminist c*nt. there isn't a man in the world who is "obsessed" with cleaning. all a man wants is to not come home and find the house a f*cking disaster. and btw, the only circumstances under which i would expect a clean house would be if my gf/wife was at home alone all day long, not working. if she's at work, fine, we'll do it together on the weekend. i'm not opposed to cleaning. im opposed to coming home to find a woman snacking on cheetos in front of the tv while the kids paint on the walls and dump legos all over the floor.
mind you, my gf does none of this...and never will. our life will be much easier than this, which is more than i can say for you, because you are a militant feminist b*tch who would rather hate men and toss out stereotypes than realize that we are all different, and the fact that you pick losers says a lot about your personality.
2006-08-28 05:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read a great book called, "The Five Love Languages".
It describes how couples express their love to each other.
The problems seem to stem when 2 people don't speak the same language...using your question as an example:
If a guy speaks the language of "service", he may look at cleaning, cooking, raising the kids as signs of your love for him.
If you speak the language of "Quality Time", you would look at undivided attention as a sign of his love for you.
Problem is, he thinks that all the "services" he does for you displays his love for you. And you think that all the special times you two share together tells him about your love for him.
He puts pressure on you to clean...to show your love for him. You aren't getting any displays of love from him, and you sure hate cleaning.
If he knew your language & stopped expecting so much service from you, and you knew his language & stopped expecting so much attention from him...he would give you more attention (since he now knows how much it means to you) anmd you would clean more (since you now know how much it means to him).
Both of you would be so much happier that you would have much more sex!
2006-08-28 08:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha my dad never seemed to care about the cleaning. If my mom or I had just cleaned it he would just track dirt all over. Darn, I thought that this question was going to be about a guy who liked to clean. Too good to be true.
2006-08-28 05:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or 2 resolve this cleaning conflict the man should offer to clean the house women do enough around the house i man should appreciate having to wash a dish or vaccum the carpet.
2006-08-28 05:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Marty Johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for saying that!They don't think we do it right then you clean the house and take care of the kids and be their taxi for awhile and let me work full time!I will trade places with him!
2006-08-28 05:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by jill f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy talk about Stero-Typing. There are a lot of men out there that help with the chores. You forget to realize that a lot of men also take care of the yard.
2006-08-28 05:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum adult adult males look extra effective sparkling shaven. yet then you definately get adult adult males like Dominic Monaghan, who easily seems extra effective with a splash scruff. the concern is, scruff is a small little bit of hair, no longer the finished blown beards hipsters are wearing these days. That basically appears like Duck Dynasty - nasty.
2016-11-05 23:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had no idea. I'm picking up brushes and cleaning products on the way home in the hopes of getting lucky. Thanks!
2006-08-28 05:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just wanted to say,
nice.
did and don't
2006-08-28 05:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl !!!
2006-08-28 05:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋