You don't get to touch, you don't see them fully naked, so why do men like going. What actually goes on when you sit there and have a dance? just interested to know please.
2006-08-28 05:05:27 · 20 answers · asked by radiant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
good question...never understood the attraction, myself. i mean, guys go to stripclubs, get their batteries all charged up, and then....what? see what i mean? i'd much rather get a lap dance from my gf, who's willing to go eve farther than that. i just don't see the need to hand out my hard earned cash to a complete stranger from whom i get nothing, when my gf would do the same things for free, and give me more.
(yes i am a man)
2006-08-28 05:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Having dropped well over $1k in one night at the Crazy Horse 2 I feel very qualified to answer this question... :)
Personally I think the same thing that causes women to chase attached men is what makes lap dances so much fun. It's the having something you really want presented to you exactly how you want it. For women, the perfect husband caring for his wife, doing things are the house, going out for meals etc. For guys, having an attractive women dance and show her body. Rub and stroke you places; and know that whatever happens you're not going to get what you want. Ever.
Aside from the psychobabble, it's just great fun. A few of the girls are real weirdoes, but most of them are real nice. Limited to laps dances and those establishments...the only thing better than getting a lap dance, is having your girlfriend pick a woman for you... thats even hotter. :)
By the way, you do see them fully naked in a few places, and you can touch whatever they say you can. Unless the house rules say differently.
2006-08-28 05:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Simon 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess men are more visually stimulated than women. Plus when most guys say they have gone every guy then wants details so a certain status is perceived. It's the next step in going to the strip club. Mainly women parade around half naked, stick their *** in your face, grind in your lap, or play with themselves while you can only watch. Plus the woman talks dirty to you the entire time or will take directions. Women too are learning because Vegas has many women clubs like Chip and Dales where the same things happen I am told. I guess its a chance for the guy to feel powerful and domenating over most of the time a beautiful woman. If you are jealous of your boyfriend or husband do your own. Give them the lap dance for really its the person dancing that has the power!
2006-08-28 05:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it boils down to a power thing or ego trip ! Men think that they are controlling the girl because they are paying her to perform in front of them;in actual fact I think the women although perhaps exploited by the owner of the club are in actual fact taking advantage of the weakness of these guys to relieve them of £10 or £20 for 1 five minute dance.
Personally I do not find it a turn on and I would suspect that if the girls could earn as much money elsewhere then they would not be doing it either !
2006-08-28 05:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by any 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy but I used to be a dancer. Guys enjoy being closse to a woman. Just the smell and touch and the company of someone to talk too. I have had men c*um while getting a lapdance. You can tell by the look on their face. Many men either bring their wives or go home and tell them about it. Some women fanasize about their man and another woman and this makes their love life hotter. Have you ever had a lap dance?
2006-08-28 05:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The dance. The sensual dance. A hot chick dancing on top of you doesn't happen everyday.
To be close to someone that's so hot and that can dance. It's a dance for you and no one else, not some high maintenance sl'ut dancing in a club with her friends and making awkard faces when you try to aproach.
Yes lapdance is a tease. a big tease. But it's a tease just for you and no one else. For that moment she is only plasing you and no many women can do that.
Also since the woman is getting paid for and wants you to come back for more, they ussually do a hell of a job!
2006-08-28 05:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think its the looking and not touching that is the turn on here for a lot of men.... also, a semi naked body right in front of their noses probably helps too (lol!).
Perform one for your man!!!! Great feeling of control over them.... and they generally love it!
2006-08-28 05:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's exactly why I don't spend $$ at those clubs - it's a waste of cash and you leave with nothing but frustration and an erection.
Then again, I was spoiled by having friends who are bouncers at some clubs and I used to get in and hang out for free :-P
2006-08-28 05:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is very erotic to have a young woman, someone who is a stranger, writhing on your body. You smell her sweet perfume, feel her warmth, and imagine how good it would be to feel her riding you to orgasm. Men are very visually driven and even though we can't touch or taste, we can imagine in our minds that for those few minutes we are pleasing the pretty young thing in a way only we can. Then we come back to reality!
2006-08-28 05:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by gooddog1028 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Probably the women's sexy movements might please a man a bit, but sometimes that might not be "pleasing" enough for one, so I'll just rather go for a full lap(Lap, ok) dance. Hell, what else do you want me to say, that I don't like women's looks or what?
2006-08-28 05:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by andy14darock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋