My ex-girlfriend and I been dating for four years. In those four years we have had a on and off again relationship. I know I havent been the ideal boyfriend. But I tried to be a better person. For a while she was saying this long distance relationship she couldnt handle. A month ago she broke up with me saying that she no longer wanted to be in a relationship. Shortly after that she told me that she was seeing someone else and it was getting serious. I dont know how to get over her because she is still in my heart.
2006-08-28 04:34:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long term relationships hardly ever work out. You have to understang most women are very needy, they want a guy that is near them and at they beg and call at all times, you being so far away from her, she can't handle that. So, I'm sure the guy is much more closer to her than you. Well, if she doesn't think you are woth it to work it out with you, you don't need her anyhow. Stop thinking about the past, live for the moment and forget it about her, find things to do and keep you busy, that way you will forget about her.
2006-08-28 04:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1
2016-05-06 02:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is distance yourself emotionally. If you are constantly thinking or talking about her then that's an emotional tie that keeps her alive in your heart and your mind. There are some things you can do. 1.) If you constantly talk about her or are thinking about her you can wear a rubber band on your wrist and every time you catch yourself thinking or talking about her flip flap yourself with it. If that's not enough make a bet with a friend. Tell them that you'll give them a $1 every time you talk about them and $10 every time you say you miss her. 2.) Change the things you do. If your always at home then your always thinking, mostly about her. So try new things. Go to a Gym. Call your friends and play a game of basketball or football. Go to a comedy show or funny movie. Try something new. 3.) Get rid of everything that reminds you of her, unless its incredibly expensive or valuable. Pictures, letters, poems, and e-mails all need to go. I hope these suggestions help you out. Good Luck!
2006-08-28 04:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are each Christians then ask her. You ought to forgive her and she desires to be forgiven. If now not, realize that handiest that you would be able to decide how you are going to react to a trouble. It is okay to mourn the lack of a excellent friend, despite the fact that the entire guys around you say you simply ought to get over it. Quite, that's what wants to occur, but on your time-line not their's. Yet another thing, you cannot deliver "her" into every subsequent relationship. Maybe they are not able to make you feel like she did, however might be they may be able to make you consider like she could not. Or perhaps all the other girls suck, and you just need to wait except you find a new pond to fish in?
2016-08-09 12:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get over her just like that i mean.. FOUR YEARS; I think you know that already. hey, don't blame yourself for the break up. you tried to be a good boyfriend and if your ex couldn't see and appreciate that and try to do the same, then screw her. you'll find someone else that deserves you. she doesn't know what she lost and she's at fault.
if this was a long distance, she could be lying to prove to you that she's over you.. moved on.
If you try and not think about her, that'll help a lot.
good luck
2006-08-28 04:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but doesn't seem like you have any other choice. You need to move on too. Sounds like your a great guy which probably means you won't have a problem finding a girl that is just right for you.
2006-08-28 04:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your pain hun, time will heal, but you can look at it this way, every break up is one step closer to the one your supposed to be with....just try and learn by past relationships and do your best in the next one.... Good luck.....
2006-08-28 04:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no good way to get over a broken heart. You just need to wait it out. Time heals all wounds.
2006-08-28 04:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Doreen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes fate does its thing. Sometimes you're lucky so you guys meet again and get back together and live happily ever after. However, you could see her as an enemy and trader forever and you can't reverse that.
2006-08-28 04:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by LoveQuestionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was u
i will get myself together first improve yourself n figure what makes u the best man for her
once that is done
contact her
chi chat with her dont try to be her boyfriend
little by little she will let u in
and u take it from there
2006-08-28 04:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋