Family & Relationships - 26 August 2006

How dare I think I can be something. I come from a unwed teenage mother on welfare. Had no mentor or direction and college just happened somehow. Then I got pregnant, and I struggled but finished college. I have a degree and workd then moved to a whole new state and guess what, i had to leave it to come back home to care for my sick mother. Now I have nothing, I am nothing, I came from nothing and never felt diserving of my degree, never felt confident in my career. Now I have no job, no insurance nothing, I have a child and a recovering sick mother. How dare I think I could do better than my mother or even do anything with my life, Its always 10 steps backwards and a fight to just make one step foward. can see a shrink, no money remember

2006-08-26 15:26:16 · 20 answers · asked by 3doorsdowner 1 in Family

should the guy always make the first move to meet a women. I notice alot of girls looking at me and I wonder if I should talk to them, mayby they are to shy? If I want to meet someone I go try to talk to them

2006-08-26 15:25:21 · 5 answers · asked by ugotme62 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 15:25:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...thats what he said......
is that lame or what?

2006-08-26 15:24:30 · 9 answers · asked by .:.:.Mizz_undaStood.:.:. 4 in Singles & Dating

this was not me.

2006-08-26 15:24:13 · 21 answers · asked by honiebyrd 4 in Family

You can see her pics on my 360 page, what do you think would be the Perfect gift?

2006-08-26 15:23:54 · 26 answers · asked by MexiShortieHubby 3 in Singles & Dating

What was the secret and why did you keep it from them? If you haven't told them yet do you think you ever will? How do you think they will react to it?

2006-08-26 15:23:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

haha now that i have your attention
i really like this guy and he is single and he likes me but i think only as a freind. I want to ask him out but dont want to hurt our freindship, Im also one of the tradional girls who likes the guy to ask me out so should i ask him to a movie or what ???i need some help here !!! i was thinking about asking my freind to find out if he really like me or loves me or what so what should i do???

2006-08-26 15:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has a job that requires long hours, and he is in contact with lots of employees and drunk customers. His job is a very party kind of atmosphere and he gets his social life through his work, he has lots of friends there and comes come drunk half the time out of the work week. Due to our schedules, we hardly ever do anything together and my social life is nil.
There are plenty of flirtations I just know it because my husband is good looking, charming, friendly and is in a position of authority. He works with very cute girls of all ages and they all drink together after work, (I don't know if he's drinking with whom, whatever) I don't know what is going on most of the time, of course.
I have had my doubts and suspicions about if there is a crush he has at work, if he ever kissed anyone, if anything ever went further (which I doubt), how do I know if my husband has an emotional attatchment or a crush at work, should this matter? How should I feel about this?

2006-08-26 15:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i absolutley LOVE this guy at my church..he's exactly like me..funny,sweet,smart,and we both like the same music,both play bass and guitar. its like we were meant 4 each other but i get soooooooooooooooo nervous about talking to him. ive honestly never talked to him before. he always looks at me and smiles at me. i think he mite like me,but not sure. help!!!!!

2006-08-26 15:21:01 · 5 answers · asked by lindseyy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Its funny I think that I only have an attractive ness to black women! I mean I have friends black and white a like that think its cool but my mom is a lil, well you know lol. Just wanting to see who all is like me and LOVES black women over any other type of women!

Im Sorry I Just LOVE My Black Mama's lol :P

2006-08-26 15:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 15:20:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother and his girlfriend have been going out for about 6 months now, and i look up to her like she is a big sister, but she doesnt seem to be getting close to anyone in the family except for my brother (her bf). what can i do to make her feel more welcome?

2006-08-26 15:18:47 · 17 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Family

a guy says..."I have a weakness for you"

2006-08-26 15:18:21 · 11 answers · asked by la la 1 in Friends

Would someone describe the difference between a friendly hug and an attracted, "wants to be more than friends" hug from a guy friend? Does the location of his arms (around the waist or shoulders) change the meaning? How about where he places his head?

2006-08-26 15:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Singles & Dating

I have talked my head off with this friend about hurting people, he see more than one girl and to me he leads them on and some one ends up getting hurt.I for one do not believe in hurting another persons heart at no cost.I always say what gos around comes around.I don;t know what else to say to him,I do know that I don't want to be his friend if he continues to do so.Any help on this..

2006-08-26 15:17:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know that my boyfriend has friends...and i really dont mind him hanging out with them every once in a while, but i guess my fear is that if he hangs out with his friends then he'll want to hang out with them more than me ecspecually is one chick friend..cuz i asked him who he would rather hang out with me or emily, and he said he would rather hang out with emily cuz she is one of his funnest friends. And i dont know what to do...i am terrified to death that he will break up with me cuz im not fun or something..what should i do??? am i crazy or is feeling this way normal?? i dunno what to do

2006-08-26 15:16:54 · 13 answers · asked by inked_06 2 in Singles & Dating

I saw my future sister inlaw fooling around with another guy, now there ain't any love lost between my bro and me but she don't know that and I was thinking of black mailing her sort of into having sex with me, she is really hot... I can't see any probs with this but might be because I am thinking with whats between my legs, can anyone see how this will back fire on me?

2006-08-26 15:15:10 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my sister does this all the time

2006-08-26 15:14:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm hungry. . . . what should i do?

2006-08-26 15:12:48 · 27 answers · asked by LLAMA 2 in Singles & Dating

ok lets say you like this guy and he gives you the look as if he's interested you want to sooo bad to approach him but you dont want to let your gaurd down ...mean thats the guys part he should be the one to put the move on first!....so know what.....????

2006-08-26 15:12:23 · 9 answers · asked by Pearleyez 1 in Singles & Dating

I am super boy crazy, I alway think I have the confidence to ask a boy out and then...BOOM! I end up asking him if he knows what tonights homework was. How can I break my boy shy crazy act? HELP!!

2006-08-26 15:10:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 14 and i am wondering if sex is worth it. when did u lose ur virginity? am i to yuong? how much do u do it? is it fun? how many parters have u had and how many is to many?

i have been with a boy for 9 months. we havnt talked about it but just in casE?

2006-08-26 15:10:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together since freshman year and now we are seniors and i think he expects me to know the right things to say because we have known eachother for so long, but the truth is i have never lost some one before and him and his dad were really close. so please if you have any idea on what to say please help me

2006-08-26 15:10:36 · 19 answers · asked by mercyp 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-26 15:10:34 · 9 answers · asked by superklutsonaskateboard 2 in Friends

She is also expecting our child whom I wana see grow up and I will always be there for her and the child

2006-08-26 15:09:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yikes! How embarrassing!?
Well, I went out with my ex last night and we ended up making out. I'm trying to play it cool because I don't want him to think I really care for him.
This afternoon he sends me a simple text message saying " I'm exhausted" and I meant to write "yeah...I hear you!" but I wrote "yeah...I feel you!" . I know this might not seem like a big deal but we have a lot of flirting and tension going on and I'm afraid he'll think I was being sexual. I don't know how I messed that up!
I'm wondering if I should write back and say something like "I meant....I feel 4 you.LOL" or if I should just leave it. The last thing that I want is for him to think I was being sexual, but I'm also afraid that if I text him back, he will think I'm obsessing too much. It's been 5 hours since I sent him that first message...is it too late to send a correction?. Please help! I don't want to sound obsessed either!

2006-08-26 15:09:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 15:09:03 · 5 answers · asked by precious_dyme15 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-26 15:08:03 · 4 answers · asked by mofun20 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 15:07:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends