Family & Relationships - 26 August 2006

We have a 2 month old daughter and have been together for 10 years. He's been drinking for 8 years and I foolishly got married to him 3 years ago. He keeps promising to stop but every promise is always broken. I am a stay at home mom and I dont have any money for myself since we are just making enough to get by. I have nowhere else to turn except to my mom and step-dad. I would feel like such a loser being 27 years old with a child and having to live with my mom. I dont have anywhere else to turn to. I'm tired of the arguing even though none are physical, but I dont want to raise my daughter in this environment. I have wasted years waiting for him to change, and I am fed up. Will my mother think bad of me if I explain to her whats goin on? What should I do? Please help me.

2006-08-26 14:53:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-26 14:52:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Who is the one person, right now, that you would love to be with or talking to at this very moment and why?

2006-08-26 14:51:30 · 35 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 14:51:20 · 10 answers · asked by sas94yo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-26 14:50:54 · 33 answers · asked by sexy diva 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 7 year old boy is driving me nuts. He just got back from his Dads, I dont think it was a very good summer for him. But he is doing nothing but yelling at me when I ask him to do stuff or crying when I ask him. I am at a breaking point, I just got done with a fight where I left him in his room with the mess and now he is just on his bed crying because I took away his legos because he would not pick them up. Please tell me is there anything that I can do to help him transition back into the home life with me.

2006-08-26 14:48:57 · 36 answers · asked by mrs_harr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

`This guy I was dating was seen with this other chick in the movies making out. My homegirl got kicked out of the movies Because she jumped the girl. Why would he do that? I am 5ft. 2in, have long hair, I have a pear body(So I'm told), blue eyes and light brown colored skin.Do u think the reason he cheated on me was because i was ugly? My friend said th egirl was UGLY as heck.

2006-08-26 14:48:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I usually go a few hours but I'd say I average 45 min. I thought this was usual but the chics I've been with lately just rave about it and tell me about these 5-15 min men. True? or are they just with the wrong dudes?

2006-08-26 14:48:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i find out by mistake and now when ever i can't get him i think he is with her,and now he make me sick and i feel now that i will never get married and i am wasting my time staying with him. help me ladies

2006-08-26 14:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 14:48:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you date someone who looks like your brother or sister? What if the person looks like your mother or father? Or maybe your cousin?

2006-08-26 14:48:01 · 4 answers · asked by the enlighten one 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 14:47:14 · 5 answers · asked by ESMERALDA 2 in Friends

2006-08-26 14:46:36 · 23 answers · asked by LaColombiana 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a general question!:D
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Thanks, for answering in advance!;D
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2006-08-26 14:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by Kimberly 6 in Singles & Dating

My question is how and what should I say to my mom to tell her I'm moving out. But please read details before you answer.

I am 17 years old, I have a boyfriend whom my mother is not too fond of, she dosn't hate him, but she thinks he may be abusive (he's not) and that he is unreliable and immatture (he can be.) I am moving in with him a.s.a.p. My mom lives about 30min away from my boyfriend. I already stay with him often, usually for a week or 2 sometimes longer. (I take online high school and college level courses if your wondering how this is possible.) She is the one who drives me back and forth. I have just gotten hired for a job right down the street from my boyfriends apt. so I can walk to and from work. The reason why I am moving is mainly because I have reasons to fear for my moms, mine, and my pets safety at the house she lives in. This is because her boyfriend murdered 2 of our pets and has been physically abusive to her multiple times and once to me.

2006-08-26 14:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by Brookelynn 2 in Family

Are you.....

In a relationship and happy with it
or
In a relationship but unhappy with it

Not in a relationship and happy with it
or
Not in a relationship and unhappy with it

2006-08-26 14:44:54 · 26 answers · asked by loveforpackers 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 14:44:50 · 7 answers · asked by nalaredneb 7 in Family

the man i am engagged to and i have been fightin alot it is a long distances relationship for 6 more monthes. it is hard but now he is in colledge and i fill like he is putting everything before me. his friends... and school. i understand school. but i use to be who he wanted to talk to. now im lucky if we talk even 30 min. a night. it is tearing me apart. cuz i have no close friends or family i can go to. he promised he wouldnt put me on the back burnner. and im not some sort of spoild brat. its just he is my world. and its like when i dont tell him whats wrong it upsets him. but its like i've been crying out to him everynight about how he's been treatin me. and he says im being selfish and i think the world revolvs around me. just because i want to talk to him more then 30 min. a night. i mean thats all we have is our phone calls. am i really being selfish and self asorbed for wantin to talk to the man i am in love with and engagged to????

2006-08-26 14:44:47 · 7 answers · asked by cRaZy ~N~ lOvE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think things should be taken on a case by case basis,not spanking the kid over every single thing.

2006-08-26 14:44:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Can anyone help?

2006-08-26 14:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by E R I C K 2 in Singles & Dating

When someone close dies....and no matter how long its been they still pop in your head every now and then....and you remember...........

2006-08-26 14:43:11 · 18 answers · asked by scs005 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is your myspace name

2006-08-26 14:42:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I can't control it all waht should I do to calm mself down?

2006-08-26 14:42:25 · 20 answers · asked by sweet-candie-girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 14:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Singles & Dating

she is being a complete *** wipe. im a 20 year old full time student that is lucky enough to be living at home and only paying 200 in rent but my mom is such an annoying !#$%^&. i cant stand her all she does is yell and scream about everything. she yells at me for things that i have no comtrol over like "its too hot!" or every five seconds she is screamng for me to do something like all throughout the day i hear screaming coming from variouse rooms in the house and then she calls me to come do something for her like unstick the cellophane oropen a bag of something or un tie a knot in something or im trying to get ready for school and she makes me late because i have to look for her keys or her sunglasses. its really driving me crazy. every two seconds there is screaming! i can never relax or do anything like right now she is screaming about something and she is going to come in here in a rage if i dont hurry up and run in there and see what she wants oh #%$#% shes coming.

2006-08-26 14:41:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This ONE question has been debated for centuries. Is love enough for a couple to stay together? Lets say that they trust eachother, love eachother, NO kids together.... Is love enough to hold everything together when all they do is fight on the weekends, and dont see eachother all week long. The fights are always over something stupid and insignificant, but are still irritating, and last all weekend. So whatcha think? IS LOVE ENOUGH???

2006-08-26 14:41:46 · 18 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-26 14:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by joshuaherrera65409 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you ever ask yourself?

"Will I have a child I cannot handle?"

How did you reason with this question?

2006-08-26 14:41:21 · 10 answers · asked by nalaredneb 7 in Family

I mean some people say it's better to shut up and get f...d
Is that true?

2006-08-26 14:41:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It happened to me yesterday...honestly I have to say it made me feel...SPECIAL.

2006-08-26 14:40:55 · 30 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Friends