`This guy I was dating was seen with this other chick in the movies making out. My homegirl got kicked out of the movies Because she jumped the girl. Why would he do that? I am 5ft. 2in, have long hair, I have a pear body(So I'm told), blue eyes and light brown colored skin.Do u think the reason he cheated on me was because i was ugly? My friend said th egirl was UGLY as heck.
2006-08-26 14:48:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He called me about a minute ago and he said it wasn't him. He said that My friend has him confused. Then he told me that ha was high and that he didn't know what he was doin. Yeah that makes no sence and he wants me to take him back. I'm not gonna But what do you guys think?
2006-08-26 15:04:38 · update #1
NO UR NOT UGLY!!most guys are ignorant a**holes..and they would do that any chance they get no matter how hot the chick they are with is..it doesnt matter...its because they think they can pull it off..makes them feel like a man..in reality its just a sign of insecurity..move on...u will find a sweet guy in the future..so dont bother with bullcrapz like him..he clearly is insane to have a hot gf n den aim for a less fortunate gurl as something to pass time wid it..haha..trust me just move on...n forget his ugly ***..n it is not u who is ugly..it is him..who is ugly in da inside..maybe outside too..but i duno dat cuz i havent seen him..either way good u found out now then later how he really is before things got serious..anywayz hope i helped
2006-08-26 14:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A (cheating) man once told me that men do not cheat because their current woman is ugly or fat or because he's not happy. I asked him why do they cheat then. He said it's the newness of the new woman. He said he felt bad about cheating on his wife with another woman but with his wife the newness had wore off and the tingling feelings were gone. With the new woman it was all there even though he didn't love her.
To me if I'm happy in a relationship or unhappy I won't cheat. If I want newness than I'll stay single and date around.
I'm sorry that you were cheated on. I was too after 6 months of marriage. I didn't find out until 3 1/2 years later but it still hurt, especially since I had 10 years total invested into the relationship. Keep your head up girl, stay positive and remember that there are men out there that WON'T cheat on their woman. Good luck!!
2006-08-26 14:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by net_grl79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy can be happy as heck with his girlfriend, love her, the whole bit. Then another girl gives him an oppertunity, and most of the time he'll take it. It gives him something to brag about with his friends. You shouldn't be asking yourself if you're ugly, you should be asking yourself if he's good enough for you.
Don't be too hard on him either. I think guys are hardwired that way. Remember; 1 man and 2000 women could repopulate the earth. 1 woman and 2000 men wouldn't have a chance. So nature (or God) designed men to jump anything they can stick it into.
2006-08-26 15:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with how you look! HE DOES NOT CARE FOR YOU AS FAR AS A LOVE RELATIONSHIP IS CONCERNED!
You are too young, to beautiful, and with your whole life in front of you to lose one second sleep over that person! Do you believe that the other woman has it any better than you?
Give it a day or two and she will ask the same question you are now asking! Be glad your eyes were opened before you ended up nursing something alone and no emotional support!
As for the next one----make sure he walks on water before you share YOU!
2006-08-26 15:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe the reason why that guy u dating is making out with that girl is because she has a good heart well it doesnt matter... if the girl is UGLY... she might but but u cant blame someone to love a UGly one if that Ugly one has a good heart!! coz outer beauty fades when time goes by no matter how hard u try to keep them in good looking.. but a good heart thats make one beautifull.. coz she has it!! well i didint say that u are not good hearted maybe that guy see something in that girl that he didnt seen in you!! and beside all of us have different personality so it dosent mean that if u are beautifull ur perfect!! nobody is like that!!So maybe thats the reason why this guy u used to date for couple of times try to hook up with other girl.. and i believe that there is some one thats ryt for you the guy that really meant for you...you just have to wait so ull be happy!!
2006-08-26 14:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by alan's girlfreind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a nice person. If he didn't like you or wanted to break up, he should have told you, not gone for someone else. If your friend hadn't found out, he may have tried to be with both of you. You definitely can do better, so don't worry.
2006-08-26 14:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he obviously wants to cheat and hes a loser. Doesnt matter what you look like, guys cheat on model girl friends...those are the guys you dont want. If he really liked you, he would have more respect for your relationship.
2006-08-26 14:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Thumper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you!!! if a girl or woman new how to keep their man from straying we would bottle it up and sell it. the fact of the matter is that relationships are even more fleeting at a young age. ITS NOT YOU!!!! THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!! ITS HIM!!!! you just havent found the one yet or at least one that you can train. move on and dont waste another minute of your young life.
2006-08-26 14:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like that are pure as*s! It has nothing to do with how you look. He cannot stay with one girl so I suggest just dumping the idiot and move on!
2006-08-26 14:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he doesn't love you maybe he feels more strongly about her then you just say that you forgive him but it's over kust move on and find some one who really wants you and just you.
2006-08-26 14:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋