she is being a complete *** wipe. im a 20 year old full time student that is lucky enough to be living at home and only paying 200 in rent but my mom is such an annoying !#$%^&. i cant stand her all she does is yell and scream about everything. she yells at me for things that i have no comtrol over like "its too hot!" or every five seconds she is screamng for me to do something like all throughout the day i hear screaming coming from variouse rooms in the house and then she calls me to come do something for her like unstick the cellophane oropen a bag of something or un tie a knot in something or im trying to get ready for school and she makes me late because i have to look for her keys or her sunglasses. its really driving me crazy. every two seconds there is screaming! i can never relax or do anything like right now she is screaming about something and she is going to come in here in a rage if i dont hurry up and run in there and see what she wants oh #%$#% shes coming.
2006-08-26 14:41:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she is crazy and on meds for it
2006-08-26 14:47:08 · update #1
driving you crazy? she's driving me crazy. what do you think we should do with her?
2006-08-26 14:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The solution is quite simple, sweetie. You are all grown up, an adult so you can just move out! If you can't stand the heat in the kitchen....then Get Out! If you think that you are "lucky" to be living at home......you need to think again! Why don't you make a decision to live on campus? Or, if you have no money, get a job and go to school parttime? Part of being an adult is being responsible for your own life, liberty and pursuit of happiness. The price you are paying is quite high.....certainly not worth the $200/month. So, stop whining and complaining and be an adult and make decisions which will bring you peace and harmony!
2006-08-26 14:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well after hearing about your mum im pretty sure shes might get cross if you talk face 2 face so write her a letter or an email while shes on the computer just before your going 2 skool so she has time to cool down a bit so she wont yell .also focus on ur Education cuz u have a few years at skool and like a whole lifetime 2 get a job!!! bye the way cant u like work sundays and go 2 church? cya
2016-03-26 21:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she always been like this? Could it be menopause? Is she going through some kind of difficult situation? Maybe she knows that when you finish school you will be moving out & she's subconsciously trying to push you away so she won't miss you so much when you're gone.
2006-08-26 14:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lived in that situation for 18 years, my mother turned out to be OCD with anger issues, please be careful, becasue it can spill over to your personality as well. I didn't notice it until I got married and had kids of my own, I have a very low tolerance for crap, and I get really angry and yell, really quick. I have been in therapy for 2 years and realize i got it from my mother. My advice to you is stay away from home as much as possible and move as soon as you can financially. Good luck!!!
2006-08-26 14:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunny, let me tell you this, no matter how much family loves on another, sometimes, yourv'e just worn out your welcome through no fault of your own. i''m sort of in a reverse position. i'm grown and married but my mom had to move in with me. she is sooo getting on my nerves sometimes but i just keep telling myself that it's not forever, she will move out eventually!the situation with you living there may just be getting old really fast! If you don't think that is the problem, then look up the symptoms of Bypolar disorder or even menopause. Hope i helped out alittle with a few ideas.
2006-08-26 15:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by wifeofsickening 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join the club of full time students with bitchy moms. Just try to spend as much time at school, or participating in school activities as possible. If you're not home, you won't hear her screaming.
2006-08-26 14:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mom is either very stressed, or very tired, or possibly emotionally upset or disturbed about something. You are 20 years old. If you are having such difficulty with your mom, and you can't talk to her and work it out, move out.
2006-08-26 14:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do know that university housing is a lot cheeper than 200 dollars a month. you may want to look into that. or you could always get a roomate and split the cost of an apartment somewhere.
2006-08-26 14:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by copaceticlove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move out.
your mom is probably tired of taking care of you. seriously... you might pay "rent." but she is still your mother and she still feels like she has to do for you.
my daughter is 18 and on her own. works full time. goes to school full time. and doing well. her rent is $775.00 a month. she does keep a room mate. she pays for her own car and gas, insurance. her own food. her share of utility bills, etc.
i'm happy. i love her, she loves me and we have a wonderful relationship OUTSIDE of her living here, if she was here, we would both drive eachother nuts. two women under one roof is never a good thing.
2006-08-26 14:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by annie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gotta deal with it...It's your mother and you only have one. Besides she has probably taken care of you all of your life, so that gives her the pass to do that. If it's unbearable, then save some money and move out. Good luck!
2006-08-26 14:46:23 · answer #11 · answered by magnetic1002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋