I am super boy crazy, I alway think I have the confidence to ask a boy out and then...BOOM! I end up asking him if he knows what tonights homework was. How can I break my boy shy crazy act? HELP!!
2006-08-26 15:10:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just suck it up and DO it. Its not so bad. The worst he can ever do is say "no" , but then you can laugh it off and say "okay!" and everything will be fine. I used to be the same way.
2006-08-26 15:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to be shy so I can relate.. err somewhat :) Boys boys boys! Can't get enough of them hahaha.
Back to you: In my opinion, when that happens to you it's probably just the nerves kickin' in. You build up all this confidence and you tell yourself, "Yeah, I can do this!" but then you end up doing something that was WAAAAAAAAY off. Yeah, I use to be like you. This 'thing' girls do can't be.. broken really. It's just in us to be shy around guys, especially if you like them. Try to think of him as a friend, talk to him like a friend. It'll make your life MUCH MUCH easier. That way, you can not ask him about homework ;)
All you can do is talk talk talk and then eventually you'll feel more comfortable around him then BOOM! Date next friday next or whenever. Good luck to yahhh!
2006-08-26 15:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this might sound stupid but if u got a brother then act like he's the boy and ask him out but its not goin 2 be 4 real or ask one of ur male friends out just 2 practice
2006-08-26 15:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by babi_balla06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get more comfortable by talking to guys that you aren't "crazy" over at first. For example, start by talking to a guy who sits near you in class or lives next door to you.
Good topics include movies, sports, upcoming school events, etc. Just keep it light and friendly.
After you get used to talking to guys in general, then you'll feel more comfortable with the ones you like. Don't be intimidated - remember that they're often as nervous as you are, even if they don't show it.
2006-08-26 15:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Seeka007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a boy and I like when girls are honest and just come out with the question. But I also think if the boy really likes you you should wait for him to ask you but string him along.
2006-08-26 15:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by alex n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think of they guys as another friend and if something happens like a kiss or something later then let it be. Just go with other people so it don't feel like you are asking them on a date.
2006-08-26 15:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self. When you find the guy you like, just ask him out, it wont matter if he says no, you'll find someone else,you wont find someone by just waiting around and hoping that someone asks you out. You got to get out there.I was shy just like you but once you get past the fase, your good to go!Good luck!
2006-08-26 15:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by O00-ACE-00O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you can get to know him a little bit better instead of going up to him and asking you cause I mean he might end up asking you the odds are he will!!
2006-08-26 15:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show him your boobs. Guys love that. At least in my town. I live in Whoreville, IL. Ever heard of it? It's about 2 hours south of Hickland.
Seriously though, ask him if he has myspace. Then stalk him on there. He'll get it eventually. You can ask him if he wants to chill and use myspace, so you don't get nervous.
Voila
2006-08-26 15:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The poster guy is so rude. Right now you should get a friend to tell a guy you like that you're intrested in him.
2006-08-26 15:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋