I have talked my head off with this friend about hurting people, he see more than one girl and to me he leads them on and some one ends up getting hurt.I for one do not believe in hurting another persons heart at no cost.I always say what gos around comes around.I don;t know what else to say to him,I do know that I don't want to be his friend if he continues to do so.Any help on this..
2006-08-26 15:17:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I give you props for sticking up for the poor girls he's hurting.
Like, seriously. Why can't there be more guys like you in this world? hahaha.
Lemme ask this: why are you friends with him in the first place foooooooool? If he treats girls or other people like that then that comes off as him not being a good person. "Actions speak louder than words."
Have him sit down with you and talk about the situation. Ask him why he's doing this. Maybe deep down he's scared that he has a problem or he's really an ******. Yes, what goes around COMES around. Karma will get him no doubt. Talk to him before you take any irrational actions. Losing friends is always a bad thing, even if it's for a good or bad reason. HEAR HIM OUT! SEE WHAT HE HAS TO SAY!
you're a good guy, good luck with this.
2006-08-26 15:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually if he enjoys spending his life as a sleaze bag and does not want 2 change then there is not much u can do. but step back because sooner or later he is gonna meet up with either a fatal attraction or a woman who is gonna get all of them 2gether n get even with him or he is just gonna run into a streak where he is crying in his beer about what he caught hmmm lets see or why no good woman wants him
there r just 2 many choices but have faith because what goes around comes aruond n the longer it takes 2 come back around the worse it is.
but who can feel sorry 4 him not me
2006-08-26 22:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha. i don't hurt girls feelings because i know for many girls it's the most precious thing to them. but do you know what i've learn over the years? the guy next to me will be more than happy to jump the girl. basically, you aren't doing much for the girls are getting hurt because they will just fall some other jerk instead. there are basically two type of guys: they are either players or losers who needs to be nice to cover up his deficiency. it's the guy's job to attack and girl's job to defend. obviously there are still many girls who still don't understand the universal fact that guys are all pigs.
2006-08-26 22:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though his behavior leaves a lot to be desiresd.....it is still none of your business! You need to butt out, pal! You have talked to him now it is time to zip the lip. If your friendship is built on your expectations of his behavior then you better find a new friend that you can accept for who he is. To me, you are not much of a friend becasue your friendship is conditional on your values!!
2006-08-26 22:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you won't be able to change his lifestyle at all. He's having too much fun to really do what you advised.
Let go of this friend and let Nature give him the lesson he need.
2006-08-26 22:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by TEsha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend, you should probably tell him how you feel about it and tell him how you would feel if he did that to you (not that you have feelings for him). Just be stern when you tell him. When you feel strongly about something like that, you don't want him to shoot down your argument.
2006-08-26 22:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Steve-O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? Don't narc on him. Bros before hoes.
2006-08-26 22:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Gorilla Hands 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP THE SICK PLAYA
2006-08-26 22:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by hannahbanana156 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋