i am 14 and i am wondering if sex is worth it. when did u lose ur virginity? am i to yuong? how much do u do it? is it fun? how many parters have u had and how many is to many?
i have been with a boy for 9 months. we havnt talked about it but just in casE?
2006-08-26 15:10:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I enjoy sex a lot, lost my virginity to some chick at a party when i was 18. You are way to young to even comprehend the repercussions involved.
2006-08-26 15:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing when you are ready for the responsibility that comes with it. Say, what would your life be like if you were to accidentally become pregnant? If you were to accidentally to catch an STD? What would you do, go tell your mom, or go to a hospital yourself and pay the hospital bill yourself? Don't be mistaken by thinking it only happens to stupid people. Or not even an STD, what if you feel something's wrong "down there" but then you will be afraid to go see a doctor because you'll be thinking that your parents will find out.
If you're having pleasure at one moment but at the next one you're too scared your parents would find out than it's not pleasure anymore.
If you are curious about the age - my age was 21. No regrets that I waited.
2006-08-26 22:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the friendship with your boyfriend. Hold hands. Maybe kiss. Sex shouldn't be on your mind for a long while. When the time comes do not feel pressured. It is OK to wait, even if the guy doesn't want to. If he won't respect you then find another boyfriend. But again, just enjoy your friendship with this boy for right now.
2006-08-26 22:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by take_me_to_the_beach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok Little Lady Listen to me Please, Your 14 Years Old, Easy Does It I Myself Was 18 When I Lost My Virginity and it wasn't with someone i loved i regreted it then and i regret it now, it lead to me sleeping with woman just for kicks and giggles then i am 32 years old now and am now very much in love with a gal i have been with for a year but ya know her and i didnt have sex until i knew i loved her i refused to have sex with her
your young, enjoy being young but please don't do something you may regret give it time, don't rush you are stilla baby enjoy life you don't wnat to be a statistic and amongst many of the other young mothers as nice as it sound sin many ways once your a mommy, no more late nights other then with a crying baby no more parties no more anything please before you do anything with this young man make sure your ready but think about your future first (school, a career, being a wife and mommy one day etc....) if you end up a mommy now there goes school, there goes a career becuase you will ahve no educatione tc.....
so for now just be a teenager hunny, allow yourself the freedom to be nothing more, no need to have such responsibilties yet sex is a big deal and anytime 2 people have sex on one end or the other there is an emotional attachment and if there snot on the other end it can and most likely will elad to heartbreak
just think about it, don't make any idmediate decessions, sex is something 2 people who love another share but its al;so very personal so please no matter how much you think you lvoe this boy make sure you do and give it some time your body is very special, its yours andf no one has the right to it, your body is a privalage just like a drivers license your body is a gift that only you can give to someone else
please if you do have sex with this boy use Condoms
think about your future and think about this, do you want to spend the rest of your life with him, would you want this boy to be the father of your child etc......
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2006-08-26 22:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're 14.
don't even think about it.
my friend did it when she was 14. now shes done 4 guys.
you may feel really old and ready to do it, but im 16, and you have no idea what will change in the next 2-3 years.
no, im not a virgin, but im glad i didn't do it when i was 14.
9 months is barely long enough. anything can happen.
you need to remember to connect sex with love.
2006-08-26 22:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by sheepeshlysheepy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex when you are so young. I would advise you wait till you are out of college to explore sexual relationships. Even when you use protection there is always the risk you can get pregnant or an STD. And trust me having a child before you are ready really screws with your life.
2006-08-26 22:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Karina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you are to young for sex save your body wait there is no rush to sleep with a boy don't let peer pressure get to you either, sweetie your body is a temple cherish it and know that you are special and worth waiting for if a boy pressures into having sex say no and walk he isn't the right one and doesn't care about you or your feeling there is so much to do and think about besides sex enjoy life your teenage years have fun leave sex alone
2006-08-26 22:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by teresa d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont even think about it ur only 14. if u do it now, or anytime before u are ready, you will regret it forever. my BF wants to but i dont im 15 and im not plannin on losing it until im at least 18. im guessin u are just curious thats why u asked this question cuz it doesnt sound like you want to but still if ur thinkin about it dont do it now just wait until u are at least 16 or 17. and when u do it use protection u dont want to get pregnant and have to raise a child. i tell u from experience im not a mother but i have to practically raise my lil sister and ill tell u its hell. so good luck and hopefully u dont do it until ur ready. bye
2006-08-27 01:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you seriously have to ask that question becasue you can't answer it for yourself...you don't need to have sex. Trust me--you'll know when you're ready. Anytime before then you'll still feel empty and once you realize what love is all about, and once you reach the point when you're really ready for sex you'll see how frivilous any prior encounters really were.
2006-08-26 22:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Inquizitiv1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you are too young and i lost my virginity at 16, and i think it was a mistake, yes sex is fun but when i think about it overall, i regret losing my virginity to the person and i should have waited cause she cheeted on me. well i'm saying that you are too young and at least wait until ur-this is hipocritical of me because i try to subconsiously pressure my GF for sex, but she doesn't give in and neither should you
2006-08-26 22:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋