Family & Relationships - 25 August 2006

Gentleman. I have been in a very committed relationship for 4 years with a wonderful man however, he has a tendancy to work 16/18 hour days and finds time for nothing other than work. I honestly wouldn't mind this but, he never has a dime to show for his efforts. (family business) It's impossible to reach him to say "Hey we have a problem here?". I know he loves me and I know he is completely comitted to our relationship. We have discussed the not having time for each other thing..many times. Before you ask, no there is no-one else...when would he have the time? I honestly don't know how to say...you need to change or I am out of here without hurting him. I honestly love him with all my heart..he is my best friend too. I just feel like I'm there as a convience. I would kill just to go to dinner and have a night without his damn business..
Any suggestions???

2006-08-25 16:01:01 · 2 answers · asked by Lady J 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 21 yr. old female who has a major problem with paranoia (I think that no one truly loves or cares for me unless they want something, and I always think people are trying to say something bad about me when in actuality, most of the time they're just joking) and I also have a problem trusting people. Even after I've known them for years, I still feel like giving up on the relationships sometimes because they don't really care about me. How can I deal with these problems and learn to trust people?

2006-08-25 16:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out my wife had an ongoing affair with a friend of mine (obviously not any longer). She has proven herself as repentant, and it's been okay since (about 4 years). Everyone always complains that the guys are the dogs, and I'm here to tell you they are hooking up with SOMEONE! Any views on this? (Feel free to e-mail me too but be honest and open!)

2006-08-25 16:00:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy that has a horrible attitude. He thinks he's an awesome ladies' man and he says awful stuff to people including me. He's perverted and he loves saying mean horrible things to people. First of all he scares me to death and I hate bein anywhere near him. second of all I hate having to listen to the things he says. and if any of u all say I should stay away from him 4ever, well I so wish that could happen but it can't cuz the more I push him away the more he shows up everywhere I go. so some1 please help me!

2006-08-25 16:00:33 · 6 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like him and i am close as a fren but when he had probs with his girl everyone blaming at me as i am not the cause....he doesn't matter about me.... i just cant take it anymore... how should i STOP this stuff??? honest please....

2006-08-25 15:59:54 · 10 answers · asked by spechugurl 2 in Friends

been out ciralation for about 10 years any I' m very shy when trying to meet women. I am turning 31 in dec. my brothers tell me I am because I love poetry and just snuggling with awomen more than bedroom shuffle. Ifeel that If a has the brains use them in a relation ship instead of her boby to turn me on . do not get me wrong I do love sex like any one. But there is more to a relationship than sex

2006-08-25 15:59:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for about a year now. I'v been trying to break up with my girlfriend for a while now, but I just could not do it. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?

2006-08-25 15:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i work on a marine base and where i work there is alot of drill instructors these ladies at work know almost all of the drill instructors on that base we call them by last names and they look out the window of the store we work at and say oh there's romero or oh that's brooks or that johnson................I just started seeing one and his name is mitchell we've been seeing each other for a month everything is going well...this lady keeps telling me oh i talked to mitchell today oh i saw him last night when i was talking to romero because she goes to see drill instructors at night by their barracks i let that one go because he paid no attention to her last night she never knew his name until she saw us hanging out and found out what is going on between us and now when we are closing the store she yells out to her friend oh hiedi is that mitchell out there is that him is that him.......what does that mean? was she trying to make me get mad or does she want him.......what should i do?

2006-08-25 15:58:58 · 18 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't care if it is from grade school, middle school, junior high, high school or college.

(Mine was my 7th grade teacher Mrs. Houser: I sat right in front of her desk and she always had interesting stories to tell me about her and her family..She also listened to me, which I will never forget.)

2006-08-25 15:58:11 · 4 answers · asked by Dune 2 in Friends

Do you really believe that? If you do something to somebody it will come back on you? I so why. If not why?

2006-08-25 15:58:02 · 17 answers · asked by LovelyMe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you like guys with foot fetishs?

2006-08-25 15:57:09 · 9 answers · asked by Cool Dude 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's going through things that alot of females go through at our age (19) but she's handling it different from what i've ever seen

2006-08-25 15:56:43 · 11 answers · asked by Mo Mo 2 in Friends

I am 40 something and do not work , moved in the last 4 years to a place unfamiliar, I bought a 93 Blazer so I can take off afraid of "man" I am with I already know get out asap. yea so easy, right. no money no house 3 friends I can rely on , none of them work , I don't work , on ssi ?????????

2006-08-25 15:56:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont no how people do it! It seems that every where i go i see guys and girls kissing, holding hands and doin all that stuff that cupples do. i have tryed befor to ask a girl out and the longest relationship i have ever had was about one week! please someone help me!

2006-08-25 15:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by loveforpackers 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you really believe that? If you do something to somebody it will come back on you? If so why. If not why?

2006-08-25 15:55:46 · 21 answers · asked by LovelyMe 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm quiet so I was just curious.

2006-08-25 15:55:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not being alound to go out by your self and fighting over me walking out by my self ,well now we are into an agrement not to do any thing with out each other it has been good for 4 weeks now but i am just tired of not leaveing the house and being stuck with the kids all day and on his days off he dont want to do any thing so what i am going to do i love him and i am realy tring to make this work but i am going crazy looking at the same walls every day

2006-08-25 15:55:32 · 4 answers · asked by carolea_lamblin 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

were ever seperated from your spouse before you had 2nd thoughts and decided to try and make things work?
Anyone ever threaten to divorce their spouse during this seperation then not go through with it in the end?

2006-08-25 15:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by althor989 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my husband for 10yrs but with him for a total of 18yrs.....I'm dying...he's driving me crazy and I wonder why I got married in the first place! What am I going to do? I am 38yr and he is 42yr...We still have sex 3-4 times a week but we can't be any more creative than we already are! What do we do now?

2006-08-25 15:53:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should i still go out with him?

2006-08-25 15:53:21 · 17 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I just happen to have a ***** and I think she felt it so I stopped and know I think she knew does she care? I think she thinks am a perv know

2006-08-25 15:51:22 · 20 answers · asked by dwdw 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i see everyday and he says that where friends but he flirts like mad with me and send me all these like i luv u txt messages and emails and i dont no how he feels. when i ask him whether he likes me he says yeah ur one of my best friend but he told his mate that he wanted to go out wif me. so i asked him out n he sed no so im now thinking he doesnt like me im so confused plz help

2006-08-25 15:50:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2nd?. Do they want both in the same women or out of two different women?

2006-08-25 15:50:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a married woman who's separated from her husband, and is currently involved with a married man who is not separated from his wife. I am in love with him. He is 15 years my senior, but he says that in 7 years when his son is out of high school he will be with me. He says that he is in love with me also. Would I be a fool to wait?

2006-08-25 15:49:41 · 18 answers · asked by Broken Heart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so this -itch which calls herself my friend stopped hanging out with me once she started dating my roommate. Now, the only time she wants to hang out is when my roommate is out of town on business. I'm so annoyed, and I don't want to hang out with her. My sister tells me that I should be more understanding, what do you all think?

2006-08-25 15:49:41 · 13 answers · asked by Dizzie 3 in Friends

come on im jealous of her lips and i know all men would like to wrap them around their d--

2006-08-25 15:49:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl likes me and thinks that i am going to ask her out soon. The only problem is i wasnt planning on asking her out. I think she is kindof attractive and fun but i dont want her as a girlfriend. She thinks i like her because she asked me if i liked her and i said i kindof do but we need to hangout more. Since then we have hungout and i have realized that i dont like her as a girlfriend but she likes me even more now. Also since we have hungout she got the impresstion that i like her and want her as a girlfriend. So now she is waiting for me to ask her out but i am not gonna. I want to keep her as a friend but i also dont want to tell her that i dont like her because she will be mad. How can i tell her without her being upset.

2006-08-25 15:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by sports123454321 1 in Friends

why do the people picking the dates say next before they get to know the guy or girl do they really want a date or do they get off on being in control by making themselves seem better than the daters.

2006-08-25 15:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boys 7 years old and 9 years old fight constantly i have no idea what to do.

2006-08-25 15:47:28 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

All the girls wiil say no but have you and how did you feel? Guys we know it is not the done thing but maybe you do why?

2006-08-25 15:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by Bohemian 4 in Singles & Dating