Okay, so this -itch which calls herself my friend stopped hanging out with me once she started dating my roommate. Now, the only time she wants to hang out is when my roommate is out of town on business. I'm so annoyed, and I don't want to hang out with her. My sister tells me that I should be more understanding, what do you all think?
2006-08-25 15:49:41 · 13 answers · asked by Dizzie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Women tend to stop hanging out with their friends once they start seeing a guy and there is nothing you can do about it. I had the same thing happen to me and it messed me up. Now I don't have anything to say to the girl and she calls me occassionally. You are hurt by it, but you can't change her. Now she just uses you when he's not around and I guarantee that when it's over, she's gonna be in your face again.
I say start distancing yourself from her and just make her an associate and not a friend.
2006-08-25 15:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know her personally so maybe she is selfish,but this sounds kind of with in the norm. Guys have noticed that too I am sure. They are best buds through school then one finds a girl then they (the couple) become inseparable. Then the guys only get together when the girl has something else to do. This my dear would then be life. Love blinds us to what else is going on around us. Give it time or stop being friends if there is more to this then we can know from your question. take care
~A~
2006-08-25 22:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't see it, or she feels differently about it than you do, then give her the boot. You need a friend who doesn't only hang out with you when its convienient for her.
2006-08-25 22:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself why you are friends. If you don't know why or the reasons you had before don't work today, then you may want to let her go. Just try to be nice about it.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-08-25 22:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not unusual at all. She is involved with "her man." I have seen this in regards to men getting involved with their ladies, and distancing themselves from the guys. It is not that she is not your friend, she care about him more because how she feels when she is with him. I'd suggest you talk to her, and tell her how you feel, if she is receptive, and if you are receptive. It depends on how good your friendship was.
2006-08-25 23:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't already, you should address to her how you're feeling. And remind her that friends stick around longer than boys. If she continues to do this, just move on.
2006-08-25 22:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your sister. It sounds like your girl is in love.
2006-08-25 22:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Ma'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she used you fot your roommate, now she through with you. loose the -itch
2006-08-25 22:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by hotmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her shoes. She's probably just really excited to be with him. I do the same thing.
2006-08-25 23:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think she's rude i mean why does she have to be so mean about it why don't you confront her tell her how you feel that's the best way.
2006-08-25 22:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by onlyoneangel01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋