Gentleman. I have been in a very committed relationship for 4 years with a wonderful man however, he has a tendancy to work 16/18 hour days and finds time for nothing other than work. I honestly wouldn't mind this but, he never has a dime to show for his efforts. (family business) It's impossible to reach him to say "Hey we have a problem here?". I know he loves me and I know he is completely comitted to our relationship. We have discussed the not having time for each other thing..many times. Before you ask, no there is no-one else...when would he have the time? I honestly don't know how to say...you need to change or I am out of here without hurting him. I honestly love him with all my heart..he is my best friend too. I just feel like I'm there as a convience. I would kill just to go to dinner and have a night without his damn business..
Any suggestions???
2006-08-25 16:01:01 · 2 answers · asked by Lady J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only behavior you control is yours.
Do you want to stay?
2006-08-25 16:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years but his priorities are different. You should ask yourself what I am asking myself in another discussion. Do I deserve this?
2006-08-25 23:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by applejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋