theres this guy i see everyday and he says that where friends but he flirts like mad with me and send me all these like i luv u txt messages and emails and i dont no how he feels. when i ask him whether he likes me he says yeah ur one of my best friend but he told his mate that he wanted to go out wif me. so i asked him out n he sed no so im now thinking he doesnt like me im so confused plz help
2006-08-25 15:50:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
toy- he is playing a games. you could too ignore the bull he will come around, if u like him like that.
2006-08-25 15:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Rain S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's just as confused as you are. He's probably not sure how he feels about you. He may like you but be too scared that if you guys break up he'll lose you as a girlfriend and as a friend. Love or "Puppy Love" can be really confusing. Since you've already approached him just stay good friends then he might come to you. Just let what happens, happen!!
2006-08-25 15:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Katie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it sounds like he really does like you but hes shy. You should take it slow. Dont ask him out on a date... Ask him as friends to go to a movie with you or something. The worst thing that can happen is either him saying no or you two just being friends and whats wrong with that everyone deserves a friend! Good luck sweety!
2006-08-25 15:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child let it go for now. Have you have ever heard the best things come to those who wait? Well in this case hold off. One of three things will happen.either he will realize that he really does like you and you like him or may be uninterested and rather move foward .Or the most popular he likes you and you end up finding something far more better. just sit back and relax. the future will be what its going to be. So no use fighting or runing.Let it flow.
2006-08-25 16:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by STAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. And if he comes back it was meant to be. Don't chase a stupid guy like that , who doesn't know what he wants. I did it for 6 years you should've seen the fine *** guys I turned down for my stupid ex who wasn't even sure about us. All the times I moved and dropped out of school. And cried for like ten days straight. Now he is gone and I see it was a waste of time. I will never let a guy do that to me again. All the stress and every thing is NOT worth it let him be. You have more important things to do with your life.
2006-08-25 15:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to make it clear what type of relationship you guys have. If he says you guys are just friends you need to make it clear to him that flirting and the "I love you" texts are not acceptable with friends. If it is friendship he wants make sure you do not let him over step his boundaries with you in anyway. It sounds like he may just enjoy playing around with you; he does not seem serious.
2006-08-25 15:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know if this guy likes you, make him jealous, go out with his best friend or anyone just to be seen. If he gets mad or starts acting different, he likes you.
2006-08-25 15:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by ne0aes0p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let someone play mind games with you. He may just be doing that to string you along for his ego. You can still be his friend if you know how to draw the line.
2006-08-25 15:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate guys like that. Save yourself the pain and move on before it is too late. He will wrap you around his finger.
2006-08-25 16:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by applejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused, and I'm only reading it.
Life is short. If its this fu*cked up at the beginning, its never gonna be hot, stable and orgasmic. Move on and find someone who likes you and with whom "it works".
You don't have to work much on a relationship that if "it works" by itself. Find one of these.
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2006-08-25 15:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy is playing with you. He has what we call an inferior complex, where he feels like he needs to have control in his hands. that means playing with your feelings.
I'm sorry to say this, but you are his toy. He might have been attracted to you, but he's not committed to be with you and choses to flirt for fun.
2006-08-25 15:54:32 · answer #11 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋