There's this guy that has a horrible attitude. He thinks he's an awesome ladies' man and he says awful stuff to people including me. He's perverted and he loves saying mean horrible things to people. First of all he scares me to death and I hate bein anywhere near him. second of all I hate having to listen to the things he says. and if any of u all say I should stay away from him 4ever, well I so wish that could happen but it can't cuz the more I push him away the more he shows up everywhere I go. so some1 please help me!
2006-08-25 16:00:33 · 6 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm retired sometime ago, so I have a lot of free time on my hands. Some of my time I spend here (on Yahoo Answers). Something else I've started doing is watching Crime Documentaries on cable TV. You know, Forensic Files, New Detectives, etc. From watching these, I've learned that people (especially criminals) often unintentionally identify themselves by doing things that are typical of their type.
For example, serial killers, often start out by killing animals. So if you know someone who likes to hurt animals, torture them, or kill them, there's a good chance that this guy is a budding serial killer. It's possoble that in good time he'll graduate from animals to people.
Another example is the guy who shows very little respect for women. Always finding reasons to put them down, or talk poorly of them. This type of guy can eventually become a woman abuser, a control freak, a serial rapist, and sometimes (when a woman finds the strength to resist him) he can resort to murder.
This guy you keep writing about sounds to me like a possible budding criminal. I think you need to contact the police, explain that you might be wrong, and maybe unfair, but you think it might be wise to check this guy out. Better safe than sorry. Explain that you would feel terrible if he were to graduate from hurting people verbally to hurting them physically, possibly killing someone, and you had not seized the opportunity to inform the police ahead of time.
They will check him out. He won't know you had anything to do with it. If there's nothing to worry about, no harm will have been done except for his possibly toning down his act after he's been approached by the police. If there is something to worry about, you'll probably have saved the lives of many people who might have become his victims further down the road had you not alerted the police to his behavior.
If you are concerned that you won't know how to approach the police about this, just print this out and hand it to them.
If you don't take a stand, and you just continue to write about this guy on Yahoo Answers, people will eventually suspect that you are just making this up for attention, and stop responding after they check your question history and see that this is just going on and on and on.
Be wise, do the right thing.
2006-08-26 11:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put him in his place. I don't have any tolerance for people who say unkind things. With someone around, when he starts ranting and raving ... just assert yourself. First off, give him "the look" - and by this I mean the "you disgust me" look that teachers give to students who don't listen. Body language says a lot without having to say much. If he continues or starts to harp in on you ... shoot him another disapproving look, and simply walk away. If you know you are going to be in a situation where he is around, plan ahead and have someone with you so you feel safe. If he is really SLOW and continues with his unappealing behaviour, then with someone nearby, put him in his place, tell him his words disgust you and that you don't want anything to do with someone so foul. If he persists, you persist with a no tolerance stance. If it continues further, or if he begins to threaten you or stalk you, of course contact local authorities. Again, if you don't feel comfortable around him plan ahead when possible to have a buddy with you, and of course, avoid him when possible. You need to evaluate your own safety, and make sure that you are safe. I am not 100% sure of the situation, or his relationship to you so it makes it difficult to assess further. Hope this helps.
2006-08-25 16:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Crystabella_BC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!! I kno this guy tht's so annotying too..he touches ppl and he thinks ppl want to be his buddies cause he's rich...I mean some ppl do but then I just absolutly hate him. I give him a really clear msg tht if he touches me..I will so hit him back.
2006-08-25 16:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mybe u should tell ur mom or dad if ur like under 18 if ur not and ur around his age mybe u should tell him off and if that doesnt work i would file a restrianing order or somthing like that cuz it seems like ur really scared of him and that he wont leave u alone. this is somtin serious and u need to do somtin big about it.
2006-08-25 16:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by broken flame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand my father-in-laws 4th wife. I just ignore her as much as possible. If your problem is at work have a chat with you boss. If its at school talk to you counselor and see if she can do something about him. Try walking away from him when he approaches or just ignore him
2006-08-25 16:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is stalking you...call the police...or tell him you will.
2006-08-25 16:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋