This girl likes me and thinks that i am going to ask her out soon. The only problem is i wasnt planning on asking her out. I think she is kindof attractive and fun but i dont want her as a girlfriend. She thinks i like her because she asked me if i liked her and i said i kindof do but we need to hangout more. Since then we have hungout and i have realized that i dont like her as a girlfriend but she likes me even more now. Also since we have hungout she got the impresstion that i like her and want her as a girlfriend. So now she is waiting for me to ask her out but i am not gonna. I want to keep her as a friend but i also dont want to tell her that i dont like her because she will be mad. How can i tell her without her being upset.
2006-08-25 15:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by sports123454321 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Read some tips on how to break it off in a nice manner
2006-08-25 15:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever tell her that you don't like her as a girlfriend unless you really are forced to do it just like when she's the one initiating that subject matter but still the best way for you to tell her that is by saying, "I REALLY LIKE YOU BUT RIGHT NOW, YOU ARE JUST A VERY SPECIAL FRIEND TO ME."
And since you believe that she's thinking that you like her for your girlfriend, you should cut short this negative impression by limiting yourself in going out with her. Constant companionship sometimes leads to so much liking and this may be what she experienced out of your hanging around together.
When she does not see you often or get out with you that often, chances are, she will go out with other people and just hope that she will divert her attention to another guy who may reciprocate her feelings. That will solve your problem right now without offending her a lot.
2006-08-25 22:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you value her friendship and don't want to risk loosing her as a friend by giving her the title: girlfriend. If you two have a good strong relationship, and your friendship means alot to her aswell, then you both should be fine. Ofcourse it'll probably be weird for a little bit but eventually things should be back to normal.
2006-08-25 23:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok let her off nicely like this tell her that yea i like u as a friend but tha way yohur talkin about as in bf no no no i'm not ready for dat yet or ever but don't take it tha wrong way your cute i just don't like u as a girlfriend that's all and tell her that yaw can still be friends but if she don't want that then tha hell with her.
2006-08-25 22:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Robert W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, what are you 10? platonic relationships(friends) dont work when one of the parties involved wants more than a friendship i would just end the friendship sorry but the truth is hard. good luck
2006-08-25 22:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Austin Powers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ,since you have already established a frindship,you need to be honest with her. let her know first thing off that you value her as a friend, than tell her that you really need to let her know that you cant be any-thing more.Than envite her to hang out with the rest of your friends and you,to let her know she still is a friend. {You can never have enough friends].
2006-08-25 23:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is going to be upset regardless of what you do so do it now before it gets even worse on her end.Good Luck
2006-08-25 22:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem,, very easy, just sit down, put country music, Johnny cash, Merle Jagger, and so on, a JUG OF JAMAICAN RUM, a raw egg, drink it, and, is all down hill man, just say "NO" adios baby, as ta la vista, my Darline, "FRANKLY MY DEAR I DON'T GIVE A DAM."
2006-08-25 22:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by litehmusicdj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well just tell her as she likes you and anything you say will upset her!!!!
2006-08-25 22:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋