Family & Relationships - 24 August 2006

Well here it goes...I lost my mother 6 months ago and just last month i met a guy whos a couple of years younger than me who was going through the same thing as i. His mom died as well and we shared a lot of the same experiences and we really connected and we understood eachother. He said he would call but never did. We made an attempt to hang out one night but he said something came up so it didnt happen. He still never called and now i feel played. I was finally starting to cope the best way i knew how with the loss of my mom but now i have a broken heart...by him. He made more vulnerable than i already was and now hes shot me down and now i'm back to square one with dealing with moms death but with a broken heart as well. I feel used and hurt that he would do this and i'm crying as i write this because i thought i met a nice guy that understood me...i'm devastated, anywords of wisdom?

2006-08-24 17:52:55 · 24 answers · asked by sweet_one 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-24 17:52:31 · 11 answers · asked by I Need Love 1 in Singles & Dating

havent seen a pic of hers,dont know how she sounds....keep thinking of her 24/7....this is wrecking my life:(...plz help

2006-08-24 17:51:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-24 17:50:39 · 62 answers · asked by oh baby 3 in Singles & Dating

pls help me f there s the pcso to read my message now i need ur help

2006-08-24 17:50:04 · 2 answers · asked by mil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just wondering what you think

2006-08-24 17:49:45 · 15 answers · asked by once_upon_a_dream 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 17:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-24 17:48:52 · 38 answers · asked by sportsplaya949 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-24 17:48:24 · 11 answers · asked by Venkatesh G 1 in Friends

He handed me a screw driver and asked me to go out and put the plates on his car while he worked on his lawn mower. I cannot imagine him asking his ex wife to do this. Does he think I am a mechanical type person or what do you make of this? Am I being stupid? I work a full time job and keep up my own house, He just took me by surprise when he asked me to put the plates on his new car.

2006-08-24 17:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old, I live with 3 siblings and my birth parents. I have an 25 year old brother, and a 19 and 16 year old sister. The problem is my father. As long as i can remember he has without reason excluded me in activities that he would do with my sisters. Or if i asked for something or to do something he would say no but say yes to any of my siblings not a few minutes later. He would do this to me so much that when i was about 10 i kept asking my mother if i was adopted. When i was 17 we had a huge fight. When he got too physical i called 911 and the police came. Ever since that night we have stopped talking to each other. I cannot stand to look at him, or hear him without feeling hate and anger. i feel so much negative emotion everyday that once a week i feel like smoking, talking a bunch of pills (what ever is in my reach in the medicine cabinet from asprin to ipecac, killing myself, or running away. I cannot stand living like this and i want to be able to talk to my father again. Allthough he was unfair to me a lot we did have some good memories together. i just always wished that he could love me like he loved everyone else in my family. According to my mother he has recently realized what he had been doing to me, he didn't notice before, however he doesn't do anything to make up for it and that shows me that he doesn't care. The unfairness tortures me countless times a day. It has been this way for years. Recently it has gotten worse, i am afraid that I will commit suicide or do something else just as bad. Plese give me some advie besides family counseling because he would refuse, and please don't say that i must forgive because i can't. What my father has been doing to me since i was born is wrong.

2006-08-24 17:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

they have no children together, he has no children at all, they have been seperated for two or three years, they do not live or have much contact with each other

2006-08-24 17:48:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, here's the story. I met this great guy, we started dating, and in few months I got to know he was very rich. I don't care much 'bout that honestly, because I love him with all my heart, and we fell in love BEFORE I got to know bout his money. We've been dating for more than a year already, and I dream about getting married, but he doesn't seem to think about that... May be he's afraid that I want his money? But he loves me, and I don't believe he doesn't want to marry me, then why does he keep silence? There's also big enough age gap between us, and he asks me to go travelling 'round the world. But I would feel myself a whore in all those hotels if I'm not his wife! What do u people think, please be honest???

2006-08-24 17:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by heather 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 17:46:50 · 19 answers · asked by Amy L 2 in Weddings

my oldest son came out a few weeks ago. i have no problem with this, and neither does my husband. but he doesnt want anyone else in the family to know. hes constantly offended when his younger brother constantly calls things and people 'gay'. how do i talk to my younger son about the way he states things? ive tried, but he picked up this habit at school and he wont shake it.

2006-08-24 17:46:22 · 16 answers · asked by SoccorMom01 1 in Family

I met someone wonderful(see my previous Question), but I have to tell somone else now that I can't see them anymore!! How do you tell a girl that you want to be friends without hurting her feelings. She is a great person, I jjust met someone i really wnat to have a go with!! Girl no. 2 is a sweetheart and I think she was/is beginning to really like me also. Would women rather the truth or to be let down easy?? little help my ladies!!

2006-08-24 17:45:10 · 11 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Singles & Dating

Also, more importantly.. I'm concerned with what would my grandmother's sister's children and their children be to me? I'm actually looking for the correct terminology.

2006-08-24 17:45:07 · 17 answers · asked by Lament 2 in Family

Hey you guys. i got a big problem and need serious advice... me and this guy went out 4rm 11-16-05 til 6-6-06 but we broke up 4 times in that period. the last time we broke up was b/c he was cheatin he said it wasnt cheatin becuz it was his friend with benefits and she just thought they were together. but the thing is he didnt tell me this whle we were together he told me a while after we broke up. so while we were together he told me all the rumors i heard were not true. but now he is still messing with this girl to this day and IDK b/c we are benefits to if he wants a kiss we kiss if i want one he gives me one and more...but the problem is that he told me that when summer is over that he thinks we should most likely give it another shot but i heard that him and the girl just had sex the other day and im like what? do you guys think that i should let that go b/c we were not 2gether but its so confusing and i need help should i leave him alone or should i give him one more chance???

2006-08-24 17:44:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm entering college, I've never been kissed, is this highly abnormal? Is dating these days becoming too rushed? Kids beginning to "go out" at the age of 11/12? Should things be slowed down more?

2006-08-24 17:43:10 · 11 answers · asked by Cat/Curiosity 3 in Singles & Dating

my step daughter is 9 and she is w/ r family on wed. and thurs. also evey other weekend (fri sat sun till 9 pm )my husband works nights and i stay home w/ r other kids 7 and 1/2 a year old
her mom leaves her w/ us for days on end i dont have a problem but she always wants to call her mom. but her mom will never answer her phone or the cell or the work place so she cries to me and says y wont she call me back? it happens all the time i just say i dont know? or she is to busy 4 you i tell her i would never do that to my little girl
but her mom is kinda odd or bitchy to me.but when she pickes her up she can never talk cus she is to much in a hurry
then she told my hubby to tell me not to talk bad about her
(the mom) in front of the little girl who is my step daughter
some 1 help me.

2006-08-24 17:41:53 · 15 answers · asked by ez-goin 4 in Family

this is the second time this has happenend: the guy I'm dating (dont wanna call him my bfriend yet its only been a couple of weeks that we're dating) tells me he's coming over to hang out after work that night (like tonight), calls at 11p and says he'll be right over and then never shows up...I've called and he doesnt answer the phone. Last time he said he fell asleep....should I be upset?

2006-08-24 17:41:36 · 9 answers · asked by Stacy R 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 17:41:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out with one girl for 2 weeks ( so i know her barely )
and now she wants to rent an apartement and suddenly we
discover i can move and we can rent an apartement togather
but i don't know it's a right choose or not !
cause apt lease is for 1 year so i need live with her for 1 year
and i'm little scare to just date one woman
in the another hand i'm new in the city and i don't know anybody
so she can help me to back to life !
so what's your suggestion ?

2006-08-24 17:41:00 · 3 answers · asked by Soap 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 17:39:58 · 7 answers · asked by I Need Love 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you?

2006-08-24 17:39:34 · 8 answers · asked by sportsplaya949 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 17:37:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Yes, I'm in love with someone, and all logic should steer me away, but my heart wants to stay...

2006-08-24 17:37:11 · 22 answers · asked by svari09 2 in Singles & Dating

so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months and we've been sexually active for a while, but it still hurts when we have sex. He was my first but that was a whole lot of sexual intercounters ago. It doesnt hurt when I'm on top but it hurts alot when he is. I don't have orgasams when were having sex but I can in others ways. could it be that hes to big or is something wrong with me??

2006-08-24 17:36:51 · 11 answers · asked by Coast Guard CCM lover 1 in Singles & Dating

he said no sex happen, 2 years later his girlfriend gets a papsmear n the doctor tells her she got clamydia sexually and when she confronts him he still denies it. n swears on his childs life he didn't do anything wrong, and one night he tells the girlfriend's best friend that it was true that he had sex and the girlfriend finds out what happen and she confronts him again and he wont admitted and says he is never going to apologize because she was the one 2 push him 2 cheat on her because of constant nagging because she would be asking if he was cheating because he did not wanted 2 have sex at all 4 few months with her so it was weird for her that is why she thought there was someone else n he would swear 4 the most sacred things. Now he is going to throw her a suprise party which he thinks she doesn't know but she does know and he thinks doing that party is going to make up for all the stuff he has done to her because the std is not only thing he did 2 her there is violence and more.

2006-08-24 17:36:47 · 13 answers · asked by MARIA G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

then expect us men 2b honest fu ladies

2006-08-24 17:36:14 · 12 answers · asked by staggermanme 1 in Singles & Dating