Hey you guys. i got a big problem and need serious advice... me and this guy went out 4rm 11-16-05 til 6-6-06 but we broke up 4 times in that period. the last time we broke up was b/c he was cheatin he said it wasnt cheatin becuz it was his friend with benefits and she just thought they were together. but the thing is he didnt tell me this whle we were together he told me a while after we broke up. so while we were together he told me all the rumors i heard were not true. but now he is still messing with this girl to this day and IDK b/c we are benefits to if he wants a kiss we kiss if i want one he gives me one and more...but the problem is that he told me that when summer is over that he thinks we should most likely give it another shot but i heard that him and the girl just had sex the other day and im like what? do you guys think that i should let that go b/c we were not 2gether but its so confusing and i need help should i leave him alone or should i give him one more chance???
2006-08-24 17:44:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what wrong with have a freind with benefits on the side. I mean he must be going to her because you refuse to fu*k him enough. If you think you can can have sex with him to the extend that after he leaves the bed with you his dick should be worn out and not get up even if he tried. Then the other chick won't even come in the picture. But if you can't satisfy that need of his then you shouldn't complain about him having a freind with benefit
2006-08-24 17:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by 0_0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like being a door mat? You are in a mucho s h i t y situation, okay? Find a loving man that doesn't use Jerry Springer guests as a role models. You are probably a beautiful, talented, and wonderfully put together girl and you are very much being mistreaten all so this man can choose who he wants to get his rocks off with at his convenience.
Don't fall anymore for him, if he calls don't answer. Tell him your little thing is over and you are not just a booty call. Unless ofcourse you do just like being the other lady, in that case roll on, continue on and don't whine about the other lady being the queen of his heart. It sounds like he'll take her over you anyway... Sorry to be blunt and Good Luck!
2006-08-24 17:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,no,no,no,no,no,no. girl all he doing is playing with ya emotions because he no he can that's how guys are they do what they can 2 you.as long as u let them no be friends with him then move on and let him no that u moved on. one day he gone start 2 talk about the past bout what he did . dint listen talk about something else. why? because those was the days he had u on a dog leash. move on girl!!!!! there are so many boys in the world 2 be keep going 2 the same 1.
2006-08-24 17:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 23:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by regula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way you should give him another chance. you have probably heard that all guys think about is sex, well in this guys case its true. there is no way he is gonna give up the sex with this girl considering he doesnt have to do any of the relationship stuff with her. when things go bad with you two for a moment, he will find relief in his sex buddy. you will only end up getting hurt.
2006-08-24 17:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing the both of you. that girl isn't going anywhere as you can see so i suggest you move on. why does he wanna wait until the end of summer? perhaps because he wants to have all the sex he can then bring you back the disease. GIRL WAKE UP, not to sound too harsh, but find someone else and see if he acts different once you act uninterested!
2006-08-24 17:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend. Give it up before you #1 get an STD
#2 continue to make an *** out of yourself going back to this jerk #3 waste precious time while you could be with a guy that is worth while, is honest, faithful and treats you with R-E-S-P-E-C-T...
2006-08-24 17:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.PS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've broke up 4 times in less than a year then maybe you should just move on. If he has cheated on you, do you actually think he would tell you if he wants you back.
2006-08-24 17:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by lighthousebluesand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no! He is a liar and he's a cheat and he's not gonna change. If you give him another chance knowing that you need to have your head examined. The writing is on the wall...and you are not blind. So don't act like you are.
2006-08-24 18:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who cheats on you, especially more than once, is not worth your time.
Dump this guy for good and go out and find a guy who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
2006-08-24 17:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋