this is the second time this has happenend: the guy I'm dating (dont wanna call him my bfriend yet its only been a couple of weeks that we're dating) tells me he's coming over to hang out after work that night (like tonight), calls at 11p and says he'll be right over and then never shows up...I've called and he doesnt answer the phone. Last time he said he fell asleep....should I be upset?
2006-08-24 17:41:36 · 9 answers · asked by Stacy R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm.... Yes, I would be somewhat upset... Now, how angry that you are to be is dependant on how the relationship has been going... If you two are casualy dating with the understanding that you can go with other women, then fine. If you are duposto be dating and jsut not "official" yet, then I would think that you need to tell him how this makes you feel... Because this is kind of wrong on his end to just ditch you like this...
2006-08-24 17:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! Drop him like a hot potato before he BS's about why he could not make it over to your place...sounds like in my opinion that he might be a player. Especially since he is not answering the phone....might be because he's too busy...umh...if you get my drift. If you think that your heart is telling you, " I like him and should give him a benefit of a doubt" Here's what I would do....next time he says he is coming over, leave a note on your door saying that you ran to the grocery store to get something for your night together....in reality, you are going over to his place. Check and see if his car is there, look for lights on....You'll know what the real deal is when you get back home (don't forget the grocery - in case he is waiting) and he doesn't show up and has a lame excuse that doesn't match your detective work!!! You might think that this is being paranoid, however I believe in checking somebody out before its too hard and your heart gets broken!
2006-08-25 00:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by river 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's really tired. it happened to me before when i was working graveyard shift. in my situation, i promised a girl that i would meet her at a certain time - well, i fell asleep and when i woke up, i tried to rush over, but got into a crazy car accident before i made it. sh*t happens.
2006-08-25 00:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by methodz1218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm your not playing the game right thats why hes not paying attention you need to play the dating game right read some tips on it
2006-08-25 00:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be...perhaps he's really tired?Give him a couple of chances, if he always do this to you..you might want to consider to have a chat with him, telling him that you are affected by his empty promises or his words...
2006-08-25 00:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It sounds like he's taking you for granted already even though it's only been a couple of weeks.
He's not worth it dear.
2006-08-25 00:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have a reason to be upset and you should tell him.
2006-08-25 00:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Isabelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im almost willing to bet (alot of money) hes screwin someone else. if you really need to ask that...
2006-08-25 00:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, that's just inconsiderate.
2006-08-25 00:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by pwoodrow2354 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋