I'm entering college, I've never been kissed, is this highly abnormal? Is dating these days becoming too rushed? Kids beginning to "go out" at the age of 11/12? Should things be slowed down more?
2006-08-24 17:43:10 · 11 answers · asked by Cat/Curiosity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not abnormal at all. Take your time.
2006-08-24 17:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ivan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think these days it is rare for a girl or boy not to have had their first kiss by the time they enter college. As far as it being abnormal (as in something is wrong with you), no, not at all. You should be commended for going at your own pace. And yes, I do think kids are being rushed into doing adult things they are not ready for. I don't agree with the pre-teen set having serious boyfriends/girlfriends. It is just too soon.
You are doing great! Don't rush, everything in it's own time.
2006-08-24 17:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by feather girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that that much has really changed. When you think about it "marrying age" has only recently really gotten higher than the teens. Historically, people married younger and started having children because they didn't live much past 40 or so. Now we live longer, but maybe there's still a lot of genetic memory that makes us biologically yearn to reproduce even though we no longer have such a small window of time to do it in. I don't think that you're abnormal. You're just doing what you think is right for you.
2006-08-24 17:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
iit's not abnormal. it's the world that is moving too fast for people. At the age of 11/12, what do the kids know about love/sex/affection. They are doing all this too fast and too soon and they will get themselves burnt if they don't slow down!
2006-08-24 17:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes some form of dating should be slowed down a lot young girls having sex so early but it all depends on the knowledge of the people in the realtionship. if the girls are fast and the guys are like hey then things can happen but some is smart and me coming from my age i know when to stop and if i continue to go forward then thats going to be a little later! please answer my question
2006-08-24 17:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. I had my first kiss when I was 16. Kids going out so young, its ridiculous, they are not even adults and already doing things they shouldn't be doing - they should be concentrating on studying and becoming something in life.
2006-08-24 17:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by sugarsweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual basically relax, you won't be able to fairly do something incorrect, basically make positive you've clean breath, seem into his eyes and lean in. right it really is a few issues i have got here upon out through kissing: -bypass slow to commence, you're a lot less in all probability to sense clumsy and awkward in case you commence with mushy gentle kisses -USE YOUR hands no longer in the kiss instantly of direction, yet contact him(no longer his dick in the present day). commence through resting your hand on the decrease back of his neck/head, and in case you get more desirable into it gently tug on his hair(adult adult males bypass wild). you may also relax a hand on his shoulder or thigh if it makes you higher gentle. -SMILE at him once you pull aside and seem into his eyes sturdy success, you'd be effective xx i'm continuously satisfied to help in case you want to search for suggestion from with me
2016-11-27 20:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by mengesha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first kiss when I was 16. Worst kiss ever. Barely felt her lips. Anywho, if you haven't had a boyfriend yet then that's abnormal.
2006-08-24 17:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive never kissed a girl myself and im already in college :( so i kind of know how you feel
2006-08-24 17:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-24 17:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Savannah R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋