Okay, here's the story. I met this great guy, we started dating, and in few months I got to know he was very rich. I don't care much 'bout that honestly, because I love him with all my heart, and we fell in love BEFORE I got to know bout his money. We've been dating for more than a year already, and I dream about getting married, but he doesn't seem to think about that... May be he's afraid that I want his money? But he loves me, and I don't believe he doesn't want to marry me, then why does he keep silence? There's also big enough age gap between us, and he asks me to go travelling 'round the world. But I would feel myself a whore in all those hotels if I'm not his wife! What do u people think, please be honest???
2006-08-24 17:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by heather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he loves you. I don't think it has to do with his money. I think he wants to take it slow and have it work out then take it fast to have it not work out. If it was his money then he would have left you a long time ago. Go with him and travel the world with him. Maybe during your traveling you will both tie the knot. Hey love works in mysterious ways. So I say go for it. Best of luck!
2006-08-24 17:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have very good intentions. U might want 2 consider how long u've been together. If u've been together for a long time, then ur thoughts seem reasonable, but do u think it's really time for marriage? Do u REALLY know the source of his income- how he's so rich? Any background tests? I'm not trying to diss ur guy, but I'd be really curious if his love for is genuine. Is he just using his money to please u? Does he know that material things are nothing compared to true love and romance, which doesn't cost one penny? Make sure he feels the same and not just using his diamonds and trips around the world as substitutes for his love. Maybe u should wait awhile. If he truly loves u, he'll be willing 2 take things a little slower. Of course, this is all up to u. If u feel like ur ready 4 marriage, talk 2 him about it. U'll never know his thoughts unless u ask him. Good blessings!
2006-08-24 17:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off about the money if you truly think he thinks you might want is money tell him all sign a prenup before we do get married, another let him no you truly do love him with all you heart you would love to travel the world with him but you would feel alot better doing this as hi wife be honest with him about how you feel and if you are meant to spent the rest of your life's with each other then you will no it just be totally honest don't keep how you feel inside lay it out on the table Ive been with my husband for 19 wonderful years and I'm only 40 you will no if he is your match good luck.
2006-08-24 17:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by satingold2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to prove to him you don't care about the money. Remind him of it whenever possible. But don't be like Miss Hilton and be like ooooh i don't need his money, but buy me this and that. If he chooses to buy you things make sure you thank him and tell him its not necessary. Did you tell him how you feel about getting married, he needs to know, use the words pre nump!! Maybe he wants to marry you as much as you him but hes nervous or something. And about the traveling thing. HONEY its the world you need to see it. You can go with him and not feel like a whore, you have been with him for over a year right. Its not like you met him last year and are just taking off on his plane!!!!!!!! I hope you can let him know how you feel and he will i turn do the same for you!
2006-08-24 17:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have common law because so many people don't want to get married. Maybe he just isn't ready. I have had one 2 year relationship, one 3 year relationship (both over) and I just got married after being with him for 4 years. A year isn't that long. You should feel lucky that you fell in love with someone who wants and can take you around the world.
2006-08-24 17:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesbrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, there is a point in life where you need to say to yourself, "FU** whatever anyone else things" and where you need to start doing things for yourself.
I don't think you are a whore for staying with him in a hotel, and how would anyone know if you are or aren't his wife or not? Only one person needs to register at the front desks of hotels.
I wouldn't worry about that at all. Go have fun if you want to, but you should talk to him about marriage and see what he thinks about it. If it is something that is important to you, then you should talk openly to him about it.
2006-08-24 17:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just wrote and then WALK AWAY and see if he comes for you!
WALK AWAY! Easy to say but this could be your destiny OR he wants a hotel whore. Freak the world out and call his bluff and see how valuable your own dignity ends up being during the rest of your life! You would be changed for the better for the rest of your life, ESPECIALLY if you ended up married to him!
Do IT! This is YOUR movie. Make this plot NOT ORDINARY! Do it for those of us who don't have a rich person to toss out in the face of REAL feelings!
Just my opinion!
2006-08-24 17:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is obviously disturbed you are doing the right thing by avoiding her, lest she charge YOU with harassment or the like. I would wait till her sister is there again and announce you regret you have another job and will be unable to continue. Sounds harsh I know, but sometimes trying to help can be dangerous.
2016-03-17 02:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sounding him out on why he doesnt want to get married... i supposed he has his reasons for doing this... Since u have been together for quite some time, I am sure you both can sit down and have a heart to heart talk regarding this problem. There is no point in guessing... ask him.. good luck.. cheers
2006-08-24 17:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by bluezest27_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 pts
2006-08-24 17:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋