Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

I can't believe i have 13 more years until i can date. I am 13 years old right now. My mom thinks that dating is off-limits for people under 26. Even to my friends, that seems RIDICULOUS!!! Mom's philosophy is that i'll be 26 when i finish my doctors degree. She thinks that if i start getting into boys/men too early, my education will be messed up and i will start to divert my focus of life (bs!!!). I know i have enough self control to juggle my education and the boys. maybe not right now, but certainly when i'm 15 or 16. 17? Well what do you think? Do you think i should try to convince my mom to let me date earlier? Or do you think she is right about her no-dating-until-26 rule?

2006-08-23 15:13:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this guy have been dating for a month everything is going well we are sooo close like gf and bf we do everything that people do in relationships he calls me baby....etc but his job (military)takes up his time he works 20 hour shifts non stop i work on the same base with him so i will see him working but he said that he does'nt want a girlfriend because he doesn't want her to feel ignored because of his job he said that he loves spending time with me but it will be soo hard for him to hear me say i miss him and him not being able to spend time with me the way i want....i'm confused i don't know what to say or do about this because there is something there between us and he's afraid for us to move forward it's hard with the little time he will have for me but i really like him and i feel that i can handle it if we get together how do i tell him without being too pushy?

2006-08-23 15:12:45 · 8 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 15:12:28 · 20 answers · asked by Hugs and Kisses 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 15:12:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-23 15:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by jeanne g 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 15:12:03 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A kind of indecent proposal- would you sleep with a repulsive filthy ugly person for this money? Nobody would ever know and you would never see them again?

2006-08-23 15:10:18 · 38 answers · asked by Bohemian 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:09:52 · 20 answers · asked by Kelly D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he has not been in her life for two years. nor has he paid child support. But now he says he wants to be a father to her. She currently has my last name. what should i do

2006-08-23 15:09:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In further pursuit of my understanding of the male mind, I present this question to the guys of the world. Do you believe in love...at first sight? Think it through and explain your answer please. This will be added to my research file. THANK YOU!

2006-08-23 15:09:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in other words does he/she really need to know every detail about everyone you have ever been in a relationship with?

2006-08-23 15:08:54 · 21 answers · asked by chocolatesandbreakfast 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I am a good cook. My bf's fav meal is like liver and onions (eww) I like italian food like pizza and breadsticks, lasagna, I like french fries and he hates this stuff. I don't think that he is normal. When I make a meal, he picks at it and when I ask him how it is he says its just okay. He said that he grew up on meat and potatoes and would eat steak and potatoes for lunch everyday if he could. I am sick of cooking for him, because I don't want to just eat what he likes all the time, I think he is spoiled and should try something different. How can I get him to stop being so damn picky!

2006-08-23 15:08:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tongues are good and Teeth are not!!!

2006-08-23 15:07:34 · 6 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is joining the army and im starting college, do you think we will stay together?

2006-08-23 15:07:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a momma's boy, he is 26yrs. old and still lives with his parents. He has a curfew, and his mom doesnot like me because I am 27yrs. old with two children the mom has never meet me but yet have so much to say about me. I have my own place, two college degrees, a job and I take care of myself. I love him but his mom is annoying and he acts as if he can't make a decision with out his mommy's input, if he try to make a decision on his own his mom always have something to say.

His mom takes $400.00 dollars a week from his paycheck and he have to pay the phone bill , and her and his car insurance from his own money. On the other hand the mom is so bossy in his life but yet when it comes to her own husband she don't say **** and the husband goes and comes as he please, he only gives her money when he feels like it.

What should I do about this situation ? Wait and see where our realationship goes or should I just move on with my life.

2006-08-23 15:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by K White 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with him like 4 month ago...he calls me, email me...he says that he miss me and need me...but i tell him it all bullshit..

2006-08-23 15:06:41 · 14 answers · asked by alegre87 1 in Singles & Dating

i was talking to this guy the other day and we had a discussion about race. but then he told me something that i really didn't believe. but i respect the fact that some guys what to keep it in their family for example ( date their own race) but this guy just blur out and said to me that white girls are much better than any other coloured girls ( to use the exact word he did). i said to myself if this guy is for real. if he has a specific type of girls he likes then thats fine but to down grade another race its just stupid.
just to make sure that i'm not crazy i'm asking you people this " does the colour of someones skin matter? "

2006-08-23 15:06:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend who I never really dated. He has a girlfriend now, but cheats with another girl. I never got serious with him, because I wasn't ready to be back in the dating scene at the time. Now I kind of regret it. Did I do the right thing? Do you think he would have cheated on me too? Btw he's 31.

2006-08-23 15:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how many of you girls would kick me in the nuts if I offered you 20 bucks?

2006-08-23 15:05:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:05:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I miss my boyfriend like crazy! The problem is: he cant hang out with me until saturday. wat can i do to help the situation?

2006-08-23 15:05:23 · 3 answers · asked by DramaKid2010 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:05:02 · 6 answers · asked by Kelly D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok...here is the challenge....
You have 3 guys to choose from....

Jizzmopper2000
Timmy the Turd
The What Should I do Retard

Your 3 options:
Marry one guy
Sleep with another (one time only)
Push a guy off a cliff

What would your choices be????

2006-08-23 15:04:56 · 9 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:04:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 15:04:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever saw a man in prison and talked to him every other day and written to him and he wrote you back for 5 years and the two of you made future plans and thought your lives were going to be so perfect and nice? Until he gets out of prison, assigned to live in another state and then totally blows you off and doesn't want to call or write or see you again?

This just happened to me last Autumn. I'm completely torn up about it and I have constant reminders of what I thought was real and I feel as though I've dealt with a stranger for the past 5 years. Has anyone out there encountered this exact or similar problem? If you have please tell me of your experience(s) and tell me how you dealt with it. I am so incredibly depressed about the whole thing and I need someone who has been through this similar situation and can help me through it. Honest, kind and truthful answers please. Thank you!

2006-08-23 15:04:03 · 5 answers · asked by Lyndee 4 in Singles & Dating

We are both 19 and very much in love. We have been together a little over a year. I will be moving away from her soon to go back to college. Then we will only be able to see each other at weekends. I don't want to be tempted by any other women but I feel like I should have lost my virginity by now. She has said that she wants to have sex for a few months now but is terrified of getting pregnant. Also her mother is religious and against sex before marriage (although I don't know if she put that into practice). She was going to go on the pill but was afraid when she learned it increases your risk of getting cancer. I feel as though if she loves me half as much as she says it would have happened by now. It annoys me to see my friends hooking up with random people who mean nothing to them and that they have shared more with their chosen randomer (in the sexual department) than I have with the woman I love. I'd greatly appreciate your different opinions.

2006-08-23 15:04:00 · 12 answers · asked by Congo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:03:57 · 5 answers · asked by butterburgerqueen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 15:03:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I am not going to be on here anymore.
Why is it that I get any outlet to myself and it gets taken away?

Why can't I have privacy?

I am not doing anything wrong. I know marriage means sharing, but being a grownup means having certain rights.

I mentioned to my husband that I like to go on here, mostly to answer questions and now my husband feels like he needs to come and take this from me, why?

I am so upset that I can't even fight with him about it, too much anger. I have no friends, (this is silly, I am crying over this) I have no one to talk to about anything -except my husband - sometimes you need someone else's ear to listen to you, to bounce stuff off on. This place is great for asking stuff you either can't ask someone that actually knows you or for second opinions - now it's gone, cause it was supposed to be private.

I don't want freedom, I want some common respect.

So am I wrong?

Am I asking to much?

2006-08-23 15:03:41 · 6 answers · asked by wzsvvuv 2 in Marriage & Divorce