Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

It turns out that I've struck up a wonderful friendship with a woman I met at the grocery store. At first, we chatted and talked while exploring the store, and after a few chance meetings we wound up actually consulting with each other and planning our shopping trips to correspond. One day, we were walking and talking just minding our own business when a shelving unit collapsed and fell towards her. With reflexes of a ninja I pulled her out of harms way and into my arms. Well a couple of days later we both laughed when she asked me why I didn't speak to the store manager and I felt obliged to inform her I had orchestrated the entire situation, so if I told the manager I would probably have to pay for the destroyed shelves and I wouldn't be able to afford our honeymoon in Aruba. What?!? That took her by surprise, she said. But a pleasant one, except for one small problem, she's married. Should we just run off together, should she file for divorce, or should we poison her husband?

2006-08-23 15:03:41 · 4 answers · asked by Steel Toe 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't get it?? What are you suppose to do?? And what if you already live together?? What if you are already a family for the most part?? We have 4 kids between us in our home so we have to have it together for the most part...but we are starting over totaly since we got together and it is a slow process...

2006-08-23 15:03:14 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah G 1 in Weddings

Like if they were in love with you would you want to hear about it? and how should a girl tell you she loves you?

2006-08-23 15:02:51 · 7 answers · asked by Andi21 2 in Singles & Dating

About a year and a half ago I met a nice guy, he was going through a divorce which was filled with some drama. My ex bf didnt want me yet he didnt want anyone else to have me either so he contacted this new guy and said some things. Not sure what he said to him but the guy just decided it was in our best interest to part ways. I tried so hard to reconcile with this guy and ask him what on earth was the problem. He turned cold toward me and just wouldn't give me answers. I was so upset and he just wouldn't let me talk it out. I have bottled that up for over a year now and I have tried to move on but I cant stop thinking about what could have been. He has a girlfriend and has had for over a year now. I cant help my feelings. I am even coming to the point where I stay awake at night and think of this over and over. It is getting to me. I need closure from this. I need to know how to call this guy up after this long and say how I feel. He will probably think I'm an idiot. any suggestions?

2006-08-23 15:02:30 · 5 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16...not some little 8th grader and i HAVE kissed before but i found it unconfortable...and hard to concentrate considering your moving your togue,head,mouth,and hands around that you cant focus on swallowing?...an awkward question but answer it lol

2006-08-23 15:02:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by Verdi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

their the ones picking on me. god most of you people got sick minds. My crush is outside the family.

2006-08-23 15:01:15 · 7 answers · asked by Baby_girl 1 in Family

I think they do and here is why:
The son is 16
The daughter just turned 18
The son still has a bedtime of 8:30, doesn't have his drivers license and either does the daughter, very rarely gets to hang with his friends, can't ride with kids his own age in their cars, can't do ANYTHING wrong or will get punished for a week (if he farts wrong=ANYTHING), tells him he will not suceed in life when he is out of the house, makes him work for their own company and then pays him very little if anything...the list goes on. Not to mention he got depressed and they sent him off to boot camp for 6 months.
They have sent both kids off to alternative homes because they don't know how to discipline them. They treated their daughter the same way, and now that she is 18 they still wont let her smoke in front of them. I have tried telling them how i feel and they think what they do is ok and that they are always right, if you dispute them, they freak out on you. Are they wrong, cause i think so!

2006-08-23 14:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by bobbie21brady 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i just came back from this conference, and i think my crush was trying to ask me out. Let's call this guy.. Joe and his friend will be...Bob =) Well i don't know how he found out, but Bob came up to me this one day and he's like,"So, you like Joe huh?" and i had to lie, saying "oh he's ugly" or "ew, no". but the truth is, I DO LIKE HIM. A LOT. he's like, "it's okay. i won't tell him" and i'm like " I DONT!" so yeah. that happened, and later, i saw him talking to the guys, including Joe, and they all started looking at me. I freaked out, so yeah. Now, Joe keeps looking at me EVERY SINGLE time i'm near him, he'll just look at me HARD until i look back, and i'll turn away. So yeah, and whenever i do something, he'll look at me too. And he's always whispering something to his friends, and at the end, he'll say out "So you gotta help me" out loud. THis is the same guy who i think likes me back. I'm not entirely sure though. I'll continue more.

2006-08-23 14:59:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We'd like to get married in Branson or Silver Dollar City.

2006-08-23 14:58:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna I wanna .............

2006-08-23 14:58:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here's the scenario (written from the girl's perspective):

1) you are pretty sure the guy likes you
2) he does nothing about it
3) you sometimes catch him looking at you briefly

now, let's assume the first time you saw him, you weren't disgusted (looks / actions / whatever).
If the scenario has happened several times now, surely you are annoyed? what's going on inside your head at this point?

2006-08-23 14:57:58 · 7 answers · asked by loseribe 2 in Singles & Dating

i know she is the one, but she needs me there, and its going to be a while. And she unsure to whether i am going to go. Is there any way i can help this problem, i was thinking about making videos for her and sending them for her. I mean we mail and talk but we like every relatioship we need to be around each other. Another thing she doesn't seem to realise i have the same problem, but i am strong and i know i will be there. I just don't want to lose her because she can't wait for me because i know she will regret it. She has these moments like once in a while where she almost breaks my heart and then she comes back like she never did it. But i know her personality too well that she will come back next time. But i can't hurt her, i am too soft because i don't want to bad word her. I just want to make this period easy for us but when this happens it attacks my feelings and it feels as if what she says goes. Although she changes her mind soon after. What do you guys think! Help me! TY

2006-08-23 14:57:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 14:56:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, see I have this friend, that I just met, and I really like him, but I am not sure if he likes me. I am a tomboy, and I dress like a boy, and I don't know if he will be like drawn away from it. He is the only person that I know in the school, since I am new to the school, but I only met him a couple of days ago, and I sit in front of him in one of my classes. Any suggestions to get his attention, or to find out if he likes me.
I am in 10th grade.

2006-08-23 14:56:28 · 6 answers · asked by Camille S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 14:56:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 14:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by mrc94rocks 2 in Singles & Dating

So many people think divorce is the hot way out from their lifetime commitment of their ordained marriage in our society. People think it is so right to get a divorce but it is so wrong to kill oneself. Two wrongs can not ever make a right. Hey God ordained marriage in the first place and he was the one who made life. It is better off that we get a law stopping divorces & killing oneself .We need more laws here to protect the sanctity of marriage. People who get divorce should go to jail for couple of years . Than people will rethink their decision and work their trails off in their marriages. My husband & his girlfriend will be in jail like other will be.People who try to kill themselvies should go to jail like the other murders who kill others in the country. Murder is murder. Is it murder to the ordained marriage by getting a divorce ? I may upset people by what I said here but I'm being true to myself & not compromising to the truth by believing in lies. So that's me.

2006-08-23 14:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am twenty four and my boyfriend is twenty six. our one year anniversary is coming up, what can i do to make it a night we will never forget?

2006-08-23 14:54:52 · 8 answers · asked by kaegan 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 14:54:39 · 5 answers · asked by rodramrudder 1 in Singles & Dating

Yo, so i be mackin on ma shortee last night an she be all, "mmm deeper darnell"

MY NAME IS LEROY

who da hell is darnell? should i be confrontin her? if dis ho be screwin round on me she gettin capped.

2006-08-23 14:53:59 · 7 answers · asked by leroywilliamsjnr 1 in Singles & Dating

..so if I can have a 3way with 2 girls from work, should I do it? Or does the work thing make it too weird?

2006-08-23 14:53:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i see no point in that. you're about to see a woman/man strip when in a couple of days you're about to get married and go on a honeymoon. i don't understand that. can someone please tell me why married couples do that?

2006-08-23 14:52:55 · 17 answers · asked by jdukenumber1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

4 years later and I still lover her.....

2006-08-23 14:52:25 · 37 answers · asked by alexandro999jr 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom dont like me goin out wit no guys, but shes seen me wit my boyfriend, she dont know he my boyfriend dou and i keep on lying about him. i dont want to tell her ether, how can i keep goin out wit him witout my mom findin out. One more thing she doesn't let me go out dat much besides da park.

2006-08-23 14:50:21 · 5 answers · asked by Pau 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend likes this guy, but my other friend likes him to. I really want my one friend to get him, but i dont want to be mean. What do i do or say that wont be mean to either? What if he likes neither of them?!

2006-08-23 14:50:00 · 10 answers · asked by pinkdance1 2 in Friends

2006-08-23 14:49:48 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is a serious question!!!

Sex orgies have been made fun of in jokes and stuff. Are they really that bad? I'm only wondering!

2006-08-23 14:49:24 · 3 answers · asked by Smellydix4Bush 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay this is kindof Private, but how old do i have to be to give sexual consent to my 21 year old boyfriend in GA?

2006-08-23 14:49:09 · 36 answers · asked by lisa_r_redwine 1 in Singles & Dating

he is my first boyfriend... he just left and we never quit...
I had been into relationship but sometimes he comes into my mind...we never seen.. never had any communications...
whats this...

2006-08-23 14:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating