4 years later and I still lover her.....
2006-08-23 14:52:25 · 37 answers · asked by alexandro999jr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First loves are special. It is when you learn about all your emotions, you learn about love, commitment, caring, sharing, etc.
Your first love is the person that you give all those emotions to for the first time.
You will never forget your first love for the rest of your life.
I married my first love and we really loved each other but we could not be married to each other. Our differences and what we wanted out of life were to different.
Anyway, we divorced after 12 years of marriage and that was 20 years ago. And he will still tell you that he loves me and I will tell you that I still love him. We have both gone on with our lives and found love again and have been happy but there will always be that very special feeling that we have for each other.
You do not have to stop loving your first love even if you are not still together but remember that our hearts are big enough to love more then one person. You will find love and happiness again with someone else and you will love them just as much as your first love.
But your first love will always hold that special place in your heart and in your memories and that is ok. Hold that memory close to you and think of it and remember it with fondness.
2006-08-23 15:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't forget my first love but as I got older and wiser I picked a better man if something was going to happen to my husband I would be devestated. I think each time a door closed another one opens up with a better person. I got over my ex's but will never lose the love for my husband.
2006-08-23 14:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am an old man now.i have deeply loved two different women in my life. my first wife who was killed in a tragic car wreck,and my present wife of long long happy years. i loved and do love them both deeply,and still do but in different ways.they are both different individuals and no one ever loves anyone in the same way as they do someone else. this is very hard for a young person to comprehend but as the years pass by you will see what i mean. i still send Christmas cards to a few old girlfriends, and still like them . i wouldn,t take anything for the memories they gave me and i would do anything i could for any of them as long as it didn,t jeprodise my marrige. some of the previous answers were wacky, and some had wisdom in them,and some made me laugh. now go and live your life and good luck!!!
2006-08-23 15:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept that fact that it'll always be okay to love somebody, especially your first love... for first loves are impossible to forget.
I can still say that I love my first love for example, and it's been over 12 years. She'll always be somebody that you'll hold so closely to your heart, because she was first. If you can just be proud of that, and not let that interfere with your current relationships, then it's perfectly healthy and normal...
2006-08-23 14:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by late664 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they put a magic spell on you and have locks of your hair chanting you to never forget so basically you going have to hunt them down while they are sleep in the daytime and put a a wooden stake through her heart. oh wait you said first love not vampires.
2006-08-23 14:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by buster d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first anything is hard to forget. Any relationships from that one on will be compaired to that person no matter how hard you try. Most people don't forget their first kiss or first time they have sex.
2006-08-23 14:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my high school sweetheart for over 2 years..and when we broke up ...I thought about him constantly...and even after 4 yrs...I was with someone else...I didn't stop thinking about what he could be doing with his life,...BUT I never once regretted having him in my life..but I stopped "CARING" for him ~ If I saw him now...20 something years later...I'd MAYBE hug him and ask him how things were...but you will in time find the next LOVE and it will get easier... TRUST ME!!
2006-08-23 14:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It so sucks, but it is true. I don't think you ever get over your first love. So many impressions are made from that one bastard! It's so sad. Plus, most people usually idealize their first love. You don't remember all the bad, but make the good look extra good. It hurts all the time, but you'll never ever for get him/her.
2006-08-23 14:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy: The Angry Typer a/k/a Mood Mole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to be a widespread issue tonite.
Probably because we are usually very young the first time. Leaves a deep emotional impression.
2006-08-23 14:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jadzia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have a special place in your heart. they they taught u things that you use still now, they r the the first to show that type of love to u there 4 u will never 4get them.
2006-08-23 14:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by livelydezi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋