About a year and a half ago I met a nice guy, he was going through a divorce which was filled with some drama. My ex bf didnt want me yet he didnt want anyone else to have me either so he contacted this new guy and said some things. Not sure what he said to him but the guy just decided it was in our best interest to part ways. I tried so hard to reconcile with this guy and ask him what on earth was the problem. He turned cold toward me and just wouldn't give me answers. I was so upset and he just wouldn't let me talk it out. I have bottled that up for over a year now and I have tried to move on but I cant stop thinking about what could have been. He has a girlfriend and has had for over a year now. I cant help my feelings. I am even coming to the point where I stay awake at night and think of this over and over. It is getting to me. I need closure from this. I need to know how to call this guy up after this long and say how I feel. He will probably think I'm an idiot. any suggestions?
2006-08-23 15:02:30 · 5 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just call him. Again, I tell everyone this, be candid with him. Tell him that you've been thinking about this issue for a very long time and that you feel you need to set things straight. If he's mean to you or doesn't want to talk then feel satisfied knowing that he's not the guy for you. Hope this helps!
Valerie
2006-08-23 15:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by littlemisspopprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the B a s t a r d!
Do you really want someone who doesn't want you?
It make take FIVE years or more of thought so dont worry!!
relationships stick in the mind. I had two that stuck there for about ten years each. It happens to everybody so,
Repeat this every day: "Im not gonna let that guy get to my head!. Screw him!"
As for what the boyfriend said, forget it... you dont wanna know. It was a vicious lie and if the other fool believed it without checking with you first, he is the biggest fool and idiot in the world--you dont need his dumb a s s. forget it!
Good luck
2006-08-23 15:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me this WHY WOULD U WANT TO BE WITH A GUY who has no trust,no fait,listens to what the world has to say about u(which as u can be opinated,biased)then makes his decisions.Thats not a good guy if ur ex hadnt messed it up after marriage what would u do if it happened?No matter what anyone in this world says if i love a person i love them no matter what i dont care what world has to say i trust,have faith,love them for who they are.As for closure send a letter/email with all ur feelings thoughts said goodbye.Move on
2006-08-23 15:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea don't call him .I know it is hard because when my ex hus,left me and took my child. I would still like to have him back at times,but I have remarried and live a happy life with my husband of 33 years.Keep lookin there is some one out there for u,good luck.
2006-08-23 15:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are living is in your head, not reality. Find someone else, even just as a friend of the opposite sex, and things will work out. You will never geet over it if you don't allow yourself.
2006-08-23 15:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by runninfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋