So many people think divorce is the hot way out from their lifetime commitment of their ordained marriage in our society. People think it is so right to get a divorce but it is so wrong to kill oneself. Two wrongs can not ever make a right. Hey God ordained marriage in the first place and he was the one who made life. It is better off that we get a law stopping divorces & killing oneself .We need more laws here to protect the sanctity of marriage. People who get divorce should go to jail for couple of years . Than people will rethink their decision and work their trails off in their marriages. My husband & his girlfriend will be in jail like other will be.People who try to kill themselvies should go to jail like the other murders who kill others in the country. Murder is murder. Is it murder to the ordained marriage by getting a divorce ? I may upset people by what I said here but I'm being true to myself & not compromising to the truth by believing in lies. So that's me.
2006-08-23 14:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
But God also gives us life. It is His greatest gift to us and only He can take it away.
Taking your own life is the chickens way out of a problem. Dealing with it and finding the answers takes guts.
2006-08-23 14:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to look up the definition of murder honey. When you divorce, nobody is dying and if you consider killing yourself as a noble way out, you are sadly mistaken. Suicide is a coward's way out. You seem to have developed some rather sick and twisted logic since your divorce. Those thoughts are going to eat your alive. I suggest getting some serious help. The things you've said are not truths and as for beliefs, they are really disturbing.
2006-08-23 15:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So dumb! Killing oneself is never brave it is a weak cowards way. People get divorced for a number of reasons. Some marriages become unworkable. If you have kept and maintained the same friends all through your life....well go pat yourself on the head. Relationships change.
2006-08-23 15:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
seeing your statements, if you came to these conclusions after your husband run of with his new girl friend and divorced you, then hopefully once the bitterness goes away you will see your comments for how silly they sound.
If on the other hand you had this type of thought before he run of and divorced you, it is perfectly understandable as to why he did, cuz' must people could not and would not want to live with a person with such a warped perspective on the world.
2006-08-23 15:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by kel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give me a break!!!! There is a whole lot of difference in killing yourself and getting a divorce.
2006-08-24 15:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_patosie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please get yourself some help!!!!!! you can't make some one love you, or chose you! you can't. God gave us choice. your husband will have to deal with his actions, and choices someday, but today you have a choice... you can chose to focus on someone elses choices (your husbands) and obsess, and ask why, how, when blah, blah, blah, and be the bitter victim... while he lives his life not knowing, and not caring.... or you can chose to quit trying to find ways to punish him, and "make him get it!" and get up, and call a therapist so you can feel good about yourself agian. stop lashing out at the world... and chose to heal yourself so you can you can have a good helthy relationship with you. the only person that you are hurting is you. love yourself God wants you to. i hope everything gets better for you.
2006-08-23 16:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boy have you been brainwashed in a sick and twisted way.
2006-08-23 14:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get psychological help.
2006-08-23 15:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋