Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

I met my boyfriend last September, we partied together and spent every single day with eachother until the beginning of January. A few weeks later I found out I was pregnant and we continued to stay with eachother. One month later I moved in with him and we been with eachother since. Now we have had some crazy fights since living with eachother, mainly because of the stress we have with bills and an unplanned pregnancy but that stopped about a month ago and things have been perfect. We went grocery shopping today and got into a heated argument in public and on the ride home he said that he doesn't love me, isn't attracted to me, and has only been with me because I am pregnant. He said this once before but after the fight said he was just upset and never meant it. Now he wants me to move out once the baby is here and after I go back to work since I don't know anybody here or have any family. Before he left for work he said he wasn't really sure if he wanted me to move now. What do I do?

2006-08-23 15:45:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this is quick and simple...I have been trying to look for a cutie sweet honest fun girl around this area but it seems like every girl is even taken, with high standards ( looking with someone with not weakneses ,millionare, tall, muscle guy.in other words the "perfection") or just a bunch of players and cheaters.I have gone to different dates but with not mission accomplished. I dont know but one day I heard that South Florida is the ideal place to meet singles,but I think its a totally lie, I would say it is the most difficult place to date people.I am 26 years old,just a college graduated working for a credit card company honest caring sweet and full of love enough to share with someone special. is it not enough to be honest and drug/smoke free guy to find the ideal one in S/F? Is it truth that good guys finish last???

2006-08-23 15:44:53 · 2 answers · asked by flashgordon 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is always stop luaghin like that or gets mad at me over stupid ****... But when we are around our other friends she acts all donkey laugh and when we are around people she likes she lets them be really big asswholes to me and laughs about it... and whenever i try to tell her that she does it she denies it....also she has a problem with drugs and i try to tell her she doesnt need them but she insists on it that she does...HOw can i help her stop being nieve and make her understand what i say... i just want her to see that she does do all the things i saw....Can u help me?

2006-08-23 15:44:42 · 5 answers · asked by Silly Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my granddaughter was born in 1994. we had seen the movie about anissa's bone marrow transplant from her sister marissa. we were so inspired and loved the name anissa that my daughter named our granddaughter anissa. it would be wonderful for anissa to email anissa.

2006-08-23 15:44:38 · 2 answers · asked by harold c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have his SS#, DOB, etc. Family very worried. Haven't heard from him in months. Lives in Denver CO. No phone. Can I somehow find his cell phone number as well.

2006-08-23 15:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by amrail62 1 in Family

We have been going out since the beginning of summer and since that time she has cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend.
She has close ties with people online, and she felt like she owed him since they went out for 3 yrs..some other stuff. Yeah, even at the end of summer, one of her old online boyfriends came to visit form a far off place.
He lied about his intentions and tried to steal her from me, although he was unsuccessfully, since then, she continues to chat with him online, even though I would like to kill him. He also brought up the complaints she told him about me, which she never tells me, there is a host of other information and things that make her really important to me, but her actions make me question her love for me all the time.

2006-08-23 15:43:42 · 10 answers · asked by Masmike 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi. I have an acquaintance with a man from Nigeria. He wanted to marry me. He said that it is their tradition to see the woman's breast first before he will introduce me to his parents. Is that really their tradition? I need answer because I like him but I dont want to be fooled. Thank you.

2006-08-23 15:43:38 · 10 answers · asked by athena353 1 in Weddings

I think I am bisexual/bicurious - I can't decide which. I would love to experience being with another woman so that I can find out exactly what my thoughts/feelings are. I keep fantasising about what would happen, but haven't spoken to anyone about it.

Where could I meet another woman, and live my fantasy out? The only condition is she should be free of stds, and understand that I will not go 'down on her' - my curiousity is more about touching another woman's body. I'm Asian and would like to meet a white female, blond/brunette, adventurous and ready to experiment. Breast size must be 34C and above. I am 34E, 24 years old, size 8 (US). I live in Montreal.

2006-08-23 15:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and i always thought her family was alright, but we have a long distance relationship so i usually only get to see her once or twice a week and her family wants us to go with them. I get pissed, i dont say anything but they know im mad then they get mad at me. I tell my g/f i dont want to go so i dont piss them off by bein mad, but if i dont go my g/f will get mad, so im screwed both ways. Just recently we got into a huge fight and supposibly broke up but i knew nothing of it until we talked like two days later. I called for two straight days and she wouldnt answer any of my calls, i thought something happened to her, so i went down there to se what was going on, but when i got there no one knew where she was, so i was even more worried. I come to find out shes been crying for two days straight and now her family hates me for hurtin their daughter/sister. I wanted to talk to resolve things but she didnt. They brain washed her to think im bad.

2006-08-23 15:43:29 · 4 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by celeste a 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:42:27 · 36 answers · asked by answerer101 5 in Singles & Dating

should i stop or keep on keepin on?

2006-08-23 15:42:02 · 19 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I want an uncontested divorce. He is going to take the house. Do we have to go to a lawyer to get my name taken off of the house, or can we just talk to our mortgage lender?

2006-08-23 15:41:47 · 11 answers · asked by perky1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how bad is it to have a sexual relationship with someone else if you and they are both unhappy in thier relationship? What if you both knew that you would never leave your marriage but just need something extra?

2006-08-23 15:41:34 · 27 answers · asked by k.m. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Read my past questions for more info but heres the jist,,,,my wife had an affair .I really didnt spend much time with her and showed her little affection so maybe its somewhat my fault.well she told me and i said ok we can get over it as long as its over.It wasnt completely over .She has been telling the other guy she still wants him and has been telling me the same.its been a triangle for eight weeks now.Finally after all that I decide to walk out of the relationship if there was one.Now sometimes she wants me to come back and when i tell her im not coming back it goes from love to hate.I believe in 8 weeks she should know who she wants no matter what!! In her defense she works in real estate with this other guy and she sells mostly all his houses he builds.She really cant afford to quit working with him ,but because of the affair I was requiring her to quit doing buisness with him ,for me to come back that is.After all this am I in anyway wrong for not giving her a second chance???

2006-08-23 15:41:28 · 29 answers · asked by scard4lif 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when a guy keeps bragging over and over how good the sex was with a girl what does that mean? if he's just bragging to the girl every time he sees her

2006-08-23 15:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know the girl, and the girl knows iam there but i just never talk to her so what can i do?

2006-08-23 15:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering how often you men and women prioritize your gf/bf, over important people in your life...like your family? I was thinking today, and I realized that there have been times when I put my past bf's first and above my family....even my own mother. I feel bad about it now, and i'd like to think that since i've matured, I wouldn't do that again because I know the value of family and men come and go. How many of you have caught yourself doing that? For instance, while you're on the phone with your bf/gf, your mom calls and you DON'T pick up her call. Yet, the next time you're on the phone with your mom, your bf/gf calls and you get off the phone with her to talk with them. Lol Dang, I sound like a horrible daughter right now. Anyway, you can say what you want about me, but are there any people here honest enough to admit that they've been the same way when they're in relationships?

2006-08-23 15:40:18 · 13 answers · asked by Shannon83 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is the same guy im talking about...He cheated twice but then again he makes me feel sorry for him like ppl tellin him he's ugly and saying hes a troll lol and stuff like that he makes me feel sorry for him then it makes me feel like a loser for dumping him but I know I did the right thing by doing it!! but why do I feel so crappy???

2006-08-23 15:39:25 · 15 answers · asked by Shaila F 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-08-23 15:39:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have my theme choosen.
I have my florist chosen.
I have my baker chosen.
The only thing I need now is the groom! (Help!)

2006-08-23 15:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by Veiled Splendor 3 in Weddings

I use to think men, now I am leaning toward women? While in Iraq I seen alot of women take these guys money, and run off with other men. They would come back a terrible shap. But then again I hear alot of married men talking about their girlfriends.

2006-08-23 15:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend's daughter doesnt live with us anymore. today she called up and said that she was mad that in stead of my boyfriend stating him and his daughters name on the voice mail, its now me and my boyfriends name. she wants it changed back to the old way. I think that changing it back will give her a false sence of reality. because as i stated earlier she doesnt live here anymore and never even visits the house. I could see adding her name back on if she visited but she doesnt. I know this is kind of a weird question but I just dont want her to have a false sence of reality. I need opinions, please!

2006-08-23 15:37:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what would it tell you when I say, "No, men are not evil. It's just that sometimes the beast likes to come out and play?"

Is that a good line to use when meeting a dainty Southern Belle?

2006-08-23 15:37:08 · 11 answers · asked by Steel Toe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 15:37:02 · 14 answers · asked by red_dogwood19 2 in Family

Does your other half try to dress you?
Ex. tell you what you should wear or to cut your hair!
If so should you or should you not listen?
I'm just curious I see so many couples aurgueing about this topic!
Just throwing it out there.

2006-08-23 15:36:12 · 12 answers · asked by soundlady 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this hott guy who has a girlfriend...we flirt...what should i do?!

2006-08-23 15:35:48 · 6 answers · asked by Chika Chula 2 in Singles & Dating

its rlly scary they said they know my pw but i didnt believe them and then they signed on my aim i think bcuz it said ur thing is signed on in 2 locations

2006-08-23 15:35:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i tell him but he thinks doing it once is enough

2006-08-23 15:35:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce