Hi. I have an acquaintance with a man from Nigeria. He wanted to marry me. He said that it is their tradition to see the woman's breast first before he will introduce me to his parents. Is that really their tradition? I need answer because I like him but I dont want to be fooled. Thank you.
2006-08-23 15:43:38 · 10 answers · asked by athena353 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I just want to make sure. LOL. I mean, he can go to phorno sites to see breast and ***. LOL
2006-08-23 15:51:36 · update #1
I just like him. I am not in love with him. I just said he wants to marry me, not me decided to marry him.
2006-08-23 15:54:50 · update #2
I think he is just trying to get a look at you. Ask his parents if this is tradition! Or just say to him "I'm not familiar with your customs, I'd like to know more about it, I'll ask your mother what this tradition is really all about" and watch his reaction.
2006-08-23 18:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Amy P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I would do...I would ask his parents, and if they say yes, that is the tradition, well then you can make a decision. If you really love him, and plan on marrying him I guess he'll be getting an eye full...If ya know what I mean.Ha Ha
2006-08-23 15:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can assure you, 100% this is not the custom, and he is up to no good. If you only consider him an acquaintance, and you say you "like him," and are not in love with him... I don't think you should marry someone just to settle down with them. He is trying to trick you, so you're warned and if you fall for it.. well you have nobody to blame but yourself. He doesn't seem like he really wanted to marry you, just wants to play games.
2006-08-23 15:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rexy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is lying through his teeth; he's trying to see how far he can go with you. The further he succeeds in getting, the less likely that he will marry you.
If I were you I'd dump the creep now. He clearly doesn't hold you in very high esteem if he would pull something like this.
2006-08-23 15:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will be glad to confer with his mother on this tradition and go by her advice.
2006-08-23 17:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeh and my name is Santa Claus !
2006-08-23 23:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You must be kidding! You need to turn and run, FAST!!!
2006-08-23 17:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooohhh myyyy ggaaawd...... He just wants a boob shot...
what a line !!!
2006-08-23 15:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run fast!!
2006-08-23 15:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha! He's my new hero!
2006-08-23 17:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋