i was talking to this guy the other day and we had a discussion about race. but then he told me something that i really didn't believe. but i respect the fact that some guys what to keep it in their family for example ( date their own race) but this guy just blur out and said to me that white girls are much better than any other coloured girls ( to use the exact word he did). i said to myself if this guy is for real. if he has a specific type of girls he likes then thats fine but to down grade another race its just stupid.
just to make sure that i'm not crazy i'm asking you people this " does the colour of someones skin matter? "
2006-08-23 15:06:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IT DOES NOT MATTER.
Believe me.
Love is regardless of race, language or religion.
Its from the heart and it's that magical.
You love a person for what he/she is and you don't have to change a person to suit your needs.
That's absurd.
Love, is a blinded fantasy afterall.
Just giving my twocents worth .... ....
But if he says your skin colour matters, forget bout him.
2006-08-23 15:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by missjolintan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah! colour is not supposed to be an issue in dating and I don't believe a particular colour is better than the other, the only thing is that naturally as they say birds of the same feather tend to flock together. Some barrier would have been scaled if you are dating same coloured Peron, but then how would you know if you have not been with other colour ( culture, way of life, beliefs etc) and how would you know either if you always have a mind set about the skin of whom to date...I guess its wrong to equate genuine dating with skin colour
2006-08-24 03:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Junior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the colour of skin does not matter at all. If you are lucky enough to find a soulmate the answer is there, in the soul. Why would you worry about the colour of skin. The only time a problem might occur would, in my opinion, be the difference in cultural backround.
2006-08-24 02:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Learner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, skin color makes no difference. What DOES matter, is that he said 'white girls are much better than any other coloured girls'. That tells me that he isn't interested in finding a real relationship. He is on the hunt for a white girl. Generalizing like that...he may never find the right girl for him. What MATTERS is that you are compatable.
2006-08-23 22:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people choose to date their own race, but theres nothing wrong with dating outside your race, onviously this guy prefers not to date other races and thats his preference theres nothing wrong or racist about that at the end of the day were each entitled to date whoever we want. But I dont think its right to judge those who chose to date other races just becaus eof their skin colour
2006-08-24 04:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The color of one's skin NEVER did matter. People are TAUGHT to be prejudice against one another, which is shameful. I am glad I was brought up never to think that one race was better than another, because it isn't. Those who use racial slurs, are pitiful people, unhappy and most likely a bit threatened in some way. It's never a good idea to be in the company of foolish individuals like that, because others who are not foolish will think you are.
2006-08-23 22:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me doens't matter. It's the person that is important not the colour of their skin. But there's cultures that have that idea. Not only colour but also religion... It's wierd for some but it's real. Come on... wans't still a couple of decades ago that black people where consider inferior? I'm black and i'm proud of having a white polish girlfriend. she's great and i'm completly in love with her.
2006-08-28 09:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Paulo V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most people go beyond color of skin and look at hair color, eye color, height,mannerisms... whether they're not aware of it or just want to deny it to look diplomatic or something(like most of the answers you will get on here--they'll turn it into a prejudice thing instead of an attraction thing, because we've been taught to worry about looking prejudice) People are generally attracted to a certain tight range of people and usually don't vary off to extremes(e.g. if a guy likes black women, he usually won't date white women often, or so on...) .
2006-08-23 22:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. umm.. NO i dont think race matters it is not about what is on the outside.its the inside that counts. kinda like how my bro is basically in love with a coloured girl.[his girlfriend] & yeah she is pretty kewl. i mean we are ok friends i guess. but i think it is great that even though she is not the same race as him that he still loves her with all his heart.like i say.you cant stop love.if you love someone that is not tha same race as you screw what everyone else thinks. well i guess that is enough. if you got anymore questions & i was a big help my e-mail is "hawtytwaty316@yahoo.com"
2006-08-23 22:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The colour of someone's skin has nothing to do with who they are. your friend is narrow minded, shallow and stupid. A person is a person no matter what, its a person's personality that makes you want to speak to them and even date them.
2006-08-28 07:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋