In further pursuit of my understanding of the male mind, I present this question to the guys of the world. Do you believe in love...at first sight? Think it through and explain your answer please. This will be added to my research file. THANK YOU!
2006-08-23 15:09:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely! it happened to me 6 months ago and we are together
and happy it happened to both of us.
i knew it was true i cannot see past her and don't care what was before her!
hope that helps you
2006-08-23 15:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by sexercist4hire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unusual for anyone to be immediately attracted to someone else. More unusual for an immediate attraction to be mutual. That is probably what is called love at first sight, when neither party has to work to get noticed or impress the other because the attraction was mutual. Just cuts some of the work out, makes a relationship progress faster, but doesn't have any deeper meaning. Don't I sound like an old cynic?
2006-08-24 11:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have to say I never thought it possible but like the Demented Fairy Tale goes it was a friend of a friend type thing we all were headed out snd this girl needed a ride and I was the only car that had room. Now let me also fill you in a bit I ma not a quite person what so ever but when I picked her up I could barely get my name out muchless a complete sentence for like the next 5 hours. After that night we have not stopped talking nor have we really been apart.
2006-08-23 15:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by ejholle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Love is something that cannot exist based off a glance nor a suttle conversation.
Love takes time to develop, the longer the develop time the long the love will most likely last.
Lust can happen at first sight, it is full of ignorance and unclear aspects which make it possible to happen at first sight.
2006-08-23 15:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I don't. I think you have to work for love. You cannot love someone as you meet them, you have to get to know and appreciate them before you can actually love them like that. I mean consider this, if you have had friends of the opposite sex for over a decade who you know everything about and could tell anything to and you're not in love with any of them, then how could you be in love with someone you have never even spoken to? I believe it's possible to initially be attracted to someone, and that attraction later develops into love, but the love just isn't there at first sight.
2006-08-23 15:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to this, I LOVE video games but don't get me wrong besides that I am still a guy and I STILL LOVE women. What I am trying to say is that long story short I DO BELIEVE in love at first sight, whenever I see a girl that I like I start to get nervous, shy, and not myself and that is how you can tell I am in love I mean I get BUTTERFLIES in my stomach and I thought only girls felt this way and pretty soon I noticed that guys feel like this sometime. Whenever I see a girl I'm like I wonder if she has a boyfriend and that she is hot I'll never go out with her she won't like me and stuff like that but I guess I overexplained too much.
2006-08-23 15:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by PSGamer06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight is impossible for men - when we first look at an attractive lady, we're imagining if there's a chance that we might be able to get them in bed somehow - It's sad to say, but true - We will say, do, try anything to get a woman that we are attractred to in bed - once we've bedded them, we lose interest - sounds cold but I'm right on the money here
2006-08-23 15:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that love at first sight happens; however, many people who think it's love at first sight find out it isn't.
It's likely that the phenomena is akin to the "I can guess the sex of the baby" phenomena. It's a 50/50 chance and people only really remember when they are correct.
2006-08-23 15:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly do believe that our instincts can tell us that the person we just met we want to spend the rest of our lives with. This is from personal experience with my fiance. On our first meeting, we had chatted on line for quite a while and spoke on phone many times previous, I knew when I saw her walking into the donut shop that this was one cool lady that I wanted to get to know very well. After spending the day together and just talking, eating and drinking coffee we learned so much of each other's interest that I knew I was hooked. It took me about 3 dates to tell her that I felt like I was falling in love with her and she stated "don't rush things". After a while I once again told her that I was in love with her and predicted
2006-08-23 15:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true love. True love isn't experienced through the eyes alone. True love requires the reciprication of many emotions, feelings, and other things too numerous to go on, from the other individual involved. Even after many years, and finding out it is true love, that doesn't mean it was back then, but that you gave it a chance to develop.
2006-08-23 15:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by runninfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes (I will explain).
I do see many women and say to myself 'Wow! I love her!'
But not all the time all the people that you think you love at first sight, you really love or love you back.
2006-08-23 15:14:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋