My boyfriend is a momma's boy, he is 26yrs. old and still lives with his parents. He has a curfew, and his mom doesnot like me because I am 27yrs. old with two children the mom has never meet me but yet have so much to say about me. I have my own place, two college degrees, a job and I take care of myself. I love him but his mom is annoying and he acts as if he can't make a decision with out his mommy's input, if he try to make a decision on his own his mom always have something to say.
His mom takes $400.00 dollars a week from his paycheck and he have to pay the phone bill , and her and his car insurance from his own money. On the other hand the mom is so bossy in his life but yet when it comes to her own husband she don't say **** and the husband goes and comes as he please, he only gives her money when he feels like it.
What should I do about this situation ? Wait and see where our realationship goes or should I just move on with my life.
2006-08-23 15:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by K White 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to say if hes 26 for the rest of his life he wont stop being a momma's boy.His mother has programmed him to be a momma's boy lol so dont worry!Some men do tend to change when they have their own life with wife and children but thats since the women change them.This guy has been trained by his mother controlled since she has lost it with her husband?So she has made him a momma's boy.It will be very hard and when you decide to marry what if he listens to his mother doesnt stand upto her say he wants to marry u leaves?It will be more painful.Dont put urself and ur children through it.
2006-08-23 15:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got as far as mother is a control freak and the son is 26 still living with mother that is a control freak, can you say head case? This is a nightmare. I couldn't bare to read further, I felt madly compelled to say "what are you thinking?".
2006-08-23 16:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the movie Failure To Launch?
If you really love him you should explain to him what is bothering you. You have legitimate issues. If he doesn't do anything to change then you should move on.
2006-08-23 15:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him move in with you, and ignore his mother, dont let your bf send her money
2006-08-23 15:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by king cobra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋