Family & Relationships - 21 August 2006

my boyfriend and i are swingers and last night we had a couple over. i told him condoms were MANDATORY and didn't use one. he told me that she kept pulling on him so he didn't have time to put one on and when i got upset he didn't understand why i was getting upset. this woman works in a hospital but still she didn't look 100% to me so i was crying last night after the couple left and he didn't think it was a big deal. i have been with him for a year and i don't want to get something now just because one of us had unprotected sex. would i be wrong if i with held sex from him for about a week because he didn't stop this female and say hold on one second i have to use a condom.

2006-08-21 02:54:02 · 23 answers · asked by Erin O 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 02:53:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I allways find someone interested in me but then I freeze and cant continue a conversation and finaly they loose intrest in me. Can anybody give me advise PLEASE????

2006-08-21 02:53:33 · 1 answers · asked by Horny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 02:53:29 · 22 answers · asked by melissa w 1 in Singles & Dating

Hmmmm

2006-08-21 02:53:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my last bf was kind of possessive and we had a fren who was realli open-minded. b4 my bf asked me out, i knew tht he'd liked me 4 ages alredi, and our friend knew it too, but he was still being close to me - like touching me and stuff even tho he knew my bf didnt like it, and i let him. tht happened b4 we were 2gether, and while we were 2gether too. wuz wut i did wrong? i was fourteen at the time...

2006-08-21 02:52:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father abused me for years and child and famiy services came. I wouldnt tell then any thing that my father did, and I know that was the wrong thing to do. I was then hospitalized in a mental hospital and found out that i suffer from depression and bi-polar disorder. WHile i was there i told them about what my father does to me. THey confronted him about it and he denied it. so they didnt believe me!! (this was years later) I was stuck with him after I got out of the hospital and the abuse continued. I threatened suicide again and was again hosptialized. I continues trying to tell them and they insisted I was making it up and crazy! Finally I got to the age where I could deciede rather to move in with mom or dad. Of course i chose mom. Dad threatened me! SO i didnt. then i decided to move in with mom and didnt let my dad scare me. when i was visiting my mom i just decided not to return. Now my dad hates me. He is now fallinginto a deep depression. Its my falt did i do da right thing?

2006-08-21 02:52:05 · 8 answers · asked by Broken_Inside 1 in Family

Y DO THEY ALWAYS WANT US 2 SAY IT FIRST?THERE IS PROBABLY A RISK FOR D "NO" ANSRE FOR BOYS.BUT NOT FOR GIRLS..

2006-08-21 02:51:30 · 19 answers · asked by manav s 1 in Singles & Dating

I always hear rapists and child molesters getting probation or house arrest

America justice system is corrupted

2006-08-21 02:50:58 · 49 answers · asked by gfdghdfh g 1 in Singles & Dating

After talking on the net this guy and I exchanged phone numbers. Everything is okay, but now i want to meet him. I am scared because I have never done this before. I feel comfortable about meeting him because I have been talking to him for a while now. He has asked me out twice, and both times I have chickened out. Any advice will be helpful.

2006-08-21 02:50:54 · 24 answers · asked by Crazychick 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 02:50:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 02:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by saba so cool 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's really hard to get something for them together as they have very different interests.

2006-08-21 02:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by tana 1 in Family

2006-08-21 02:49:06 · 23 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

Or A Terrorist?

2006-08-21 02:48:51 · 22 answers · asked by gfdghdfh g 1 in Singles & Dating

have heard about many females in forties vavering from their path ? why is it so ? is it emotional insecurity as their partners get busy in their carrier nd children grown big

2006-08-21 02:48:48 · 10 answers · asked by misty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-21 02:48:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in Iraq and I tell these hard-legs I have a boyfriend and happy and they still want to hit up on me. For all they know I could be a toothless hag. They are the most desperate lowest life form. Do they call women in the phone book at random? Why is it okay to IM women at random? Why do they do this? How do I stop it?

2006-08-21 02:47:58 · 25 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Singles & Dating

We have only been married for 11/2 months and i am afraid of him. I just found out i am pregnant. On our wedding day we had a fight and almost everyday after,until my mom asked us to move in with her. the fighting has stopped some but he has trust issuses and wants to pull me away from my family. He never lets me go out with friends or even talk to them. he checks my messages and who hasme on called my cell phone. I at times feel uncomforable about having sex with him because he wants it all the time and asks me to do things I am not ready for. He has accused me of cheating, knowing that i have not or should i say can not go anywhere with out him. He never says sorry or wonders why i cry alot. He wants me to wait on him like if i was his slave. What do i do? Please advice me if i should leave him or stick around hoping that things will change.

2006-08-21 02:47:46 · 40 answers · asked by roe_roses 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sexually and we are fine for 3wks then fighting for another 3wks its crazy he is a recovering drug addict clean for 15yrs but he is still working his steps and his best friend says he is working them for me because he is tired of coming back to me and there is no future , his friend also says that sex is his new addiction and when he is through with that I'm through. I haven't heard any of this from the horses mouth do you think this could be true and he's just not ready to tell me yet , or does it sound like maybe the friend wants me for his self or if you have any info on dating a recovering addict please give me some insight or a web site . Thanks

2006-08-21 02:45:49 · 6 answers · asked by Dark & Lovely 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-21 02:44:57 · 42 answers · asked by --------- - 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-21 02:44:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You are 16 and your sister is 14. She is constantly nasty and mean to you while you are always nice and generous to her. She yells at you that you are always home and she doesn’t have privacy. You two share a room and sleep on a bunk bed together. She says that she doesn’t like to live with you and ask you “Can you not live here and not be at home all the time. It is very annoying.” It hurts you because you love her and wish that she would appreciate you. You tell her to stop but she don’t. You tell your parents and they say they know that your sister have been very nasty lately and they know that you are a very nice sister and you love her. They told your sister about that and she says that she is not nasty and instead you are nasty. Afterwards, your parents walk away. They can’t seem to help you. Why are sisters and parents that way? It is not fair. It seems that we suffer from unfairness due to our sister’s nasty attitude and it is not our fault.

2006-08-21 02:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by youngwoman 5 in Family

That if my ladie friend really cares and wants to be around me she will come and talk to me without me having to make the first impression? Or does it work a different way? Im new at this. I always make the first impression but she never does.

2006-08-21 02:43:34 · 4 answers · asked by popstar452003 2 in Friends

I've finally recovered emotionally after a relationship that lasted over 10 years. I was deceived in many ways during that time. How do you find the strength to give someone else a chance and open your heart to the gift of love?

2006-08-21 02:43:07 · 9 answers · asked by Pardonthepun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together about 4 years and our sex life sucks! I feel I have to beg for it sometimes and it really hurts my feelings. It makes me feel ugly and unwanted. Sex is not the main thing I'm worried about...I would rather have some affection and attention. (kissing, holding hands, and just holding each other) That would make me happy and make me feel loved. How can I get him to understand the meaning of affection? He says he's going to try and show me more attention, but that's not the first time he's said that. Do you think it's a sign we shouldn't get married? How can I talk to him about this to get him to understand???

2006-08-21 02:42:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Excuse my innocence!

2006-08-21 02:42:46 · 16 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you beleive we only have our period cause of eve ate an apple and jesus told her not or this would happen to us?

And i know that this doesnt have anything to do with singles/or dating but i just chosed one.

2006-08-21 02:42:46 · 19 answers · asked by Brittany 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 02:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by raquel c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-21 02:41:32 · 25 answers · asked by lengko 1 in Other - Family & Relationships