my last bf was kind of possessive and we had a fren who was realli open-minded. b4 my bf asked me out, i knew tht he'd liked me 4 ages alredi, and our friend knew it too, but he was still being close to me - like touching me and stuff even tho he knew my bf didnt like it, and i let him. tht happened b4 we were 2gether, and while we were 2gether too. wuz wut i did wrong? i was fourteen at the time...
2006-08-21 02:52:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I said 'touching' I meant little things like hugging or tickling! NOT all the perverted stuff you guys are thinking. I don't think that makes you a whore, bcoz we're good friends. And my bf knew all about it. I was just wanting to know if guys usually get miffed when you are close with other guys. He did it occasionally too. And I broke up with him. I'm fifteen. (This is to all the nasty answers I got back though I suppose I didn't write the question clearly) Thx 2 all the constructive replies.
2006-08-21 03:07:03 · update #1
Depends on your relationship. If it's just casual, then might be ok, but if he's expecting you to be the only one, then I'd say probably not. Even if you're a touchy/feely girl, you might want to curb it a little. Guys can be quite jealous and/or insecure.
2006-08-21 02:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you're a whore. But that's ok. You were only 14. Don't make a habit out of it. You cheated on him and that's wrong and mean. But chances are, your bf at the time cheated on you too. Especially if he was possessive. So get over it and move on and find a nice normal guy and if you really like him, you won't want to cheat on him.
2006-08-21 02:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES: You cant have a boyfriend and mess around with anyone else... ITS CALLED CHEATING>... and it may one day come back to bite you. I wouldnt even consider dating a guy who has EVER cheated... and SOME men are the same way. I know my NOW husband is like that too...And I know lots of men who WILL NOT date any girl who has ever cheated. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Its part of a persons personality, and its a trait that DOES NOT go away.
2006-08-21 02:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong to play around with other guys when you have a bf. Are stupid for asking this question. You cheating on him, you even let a guy touch you. Dont you have any respect for you body and yourself?
2006-08-21 02:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely its a great variety, and in case you plan on staying with this guy for a protracted time, many adult males will ask you out over the years. think of approximately it. are u arranged to stay your existence without your cutting-edge boyfriend? might u omit specific issues that u can only get from him? in basic terms because of the fact hes huge-unfold doesnt mean that hes a great guy. he may be the main important jerk in the international, and you're able to injury a great guy only for a jerk and a couple of minutes of acceptance
2016-10-02 08:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong.
It's called cheating.
You're too young to be touched.
Make up your mind, you can't be with the both of them.
If/when your boyfriend finds out, he's going to flip the f*ck out. I know how those possessive guys are, they're psychotic. You better end one of the relationships before it gets any more serious.
2006-08-21 02:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong to play around when you have a b/f. That is how you get the nickname player. You do it to enough guys then no one will want to be with you.
2006-08-21 03:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by nulove1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is OK, if they are playing behind our back and cheating on us whenever they can, if they don't care about someone who cares for them feeling bored if you show them your love, appreciate only those who don't respect them wishing only things that they dont have than it is the best way to treat your bf playing around with others.. Probably he will love you even more..
2006-08-21 03:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by ssagittarius78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his shoes - If he has a girl friend that was very close and touchy with him and you found out, how would you react.
Treat others as you want them to treat you.
In other words - Kharma
2006-08-21 03:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...and how old are you now?
it was only wrong to mess around with him while you were together with someone else. that's just irresponsible to be with two people at the same time; how would you feel if your boyfriend cheated on YOU?
2006-08-21 02:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by browneyzz90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋