2006-08-21 02:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by raquel c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No that is not ok, and you are being used if that is what your bf is doing. I was with a guy for 4 yrs and he did that alot. He was using me. I don't know why I never saw it but since I have and I did and I realize it now, I am here to tell you that NO that is not ok in any since of a relationship. You earn your money........ he should be earning his as well. I hope you don't get hurt by this one and something tells me that you have already loaned or given him a quite a bit of money already. I am sorry, and please stop doing it now before this becomes real bad and you find yourself doing without. Like I did. Good luck. Blessed be....
2006-08-21 02:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's ALWAYS asking for money (Like every day or week) no that's not ok. If he asked for money maybe 2 times outta a year that's fine. As long as he's not asking for money 24/7 i wouldn't worry about. But if he's asking for money allllll the time Hunny loose the looser. He's just looking for a gravy trian and free ride.
2006-08-21 02:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its inappropriate, never loan a bf/gf money unless it is given as a gift, because it can break up a strong relationship if it isn't paid back.
2006-08-21 02:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not okay. It shows he lacks responsibility. This will probably be a big problem in the future.
2006-08-21 03:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it means he doesn't care about her he cares about what she can give him when he should be focussing on what favors he can do for her.
2006-08-21 02:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by sereneicequeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it pretty much means he's good for NOTHING.
2006-08-24 19:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by llilolme73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's definitely a useless bum!
2006-08-21 02:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋