You are 16 and your sister is 14. She is constantly nasty and mean to you while you are always nice and generous to her. She yells at you that you are always home and she doesn’t have privacy. You two share a room and sleep on a bunk bed together. She says that she doesn’t like to live with you and ask you “Can you not live here and not be at home all the time. It is very annoying.” It hurts you because you love her and wish that she would appreciate you. You tell her to stop but she don’t. You tell your parents and they say they know that your sister have been very nasty lately and they know that you are a very nice sister and you love her. They told your sister about that and she says that she is not nasty and instead you are nasty. Afterwards, your parents walk away. They can’t seem to help you. Why are sisters and parents that way? It is not fair. It seems that we suffer from unfairness due to our sister’s nasty attitude and it is not our fault.
2006-08-21 02:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by youngwoman 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why the hell are you letting your younger sister bully you? You're the OLDER sibling, you should be able to do something about it!
Be nasty towards her and slap her around some because it seems like she needs it. Exert your older sibling powers!
2006-08-21 02:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you both need is your own SPACE! If you can't move ..to say the basement then your going to have confront her head on. Tell her how you feel and if things don't change start behaving just as she does to you. It works! that's what my sister did to me. Parents have to listen to the both of you that's really all they can do. My parents attitude was work it out! So tell her it hurts and explain if that doesn't change her I'd start being Nasty right back at her. Heck your the oldest!
2006-08-21 09:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by ????? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a parent of 2 boys who fight all of the time, we don't always know how to fix problems between siblings and sometimes we think that it's better to let the siblings work things out for themselves. This probably doesn't help and I'm sorry about that but maybe it will give you a little insight as to why your parents just walked away.
2006-08-21 11:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have chosen not to deal with your sister's nasty attitude. It is not fair and I am sorry for you. I don't think you will be able to do anything about it without your parents help.
Good luck sweetie, I wish you had your own room.
2006-08-21 11:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is to start planning for your 18th birthday and move out. Afterwards, explain to your parents that your sister is mean and you didn't appreciate their always taking her side - and that is why you're not going to be visiting anytime soon.
2006-08-21 09:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of sibiling rivalery? This is normal! your parents really arent helping by telling your sister shes the bad one and you are the good one. Its not easy being in the shadow of an older sister. I think this may be her way of getting attention.
2006-08-21 09:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
She will realize once she's older how bad she has been towards you...in the meantime...find a good friend to hang out with
2006-08-21 09:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
kick her hard in the butt it sounds like what the little brat needs to me
2006-08-21 09:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by lambtonliner 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its part of growing up, life's not fair
2006-08-21 09:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by X's Mommy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
one good slap from you, shock treatment never fails!
2006-08-21 10:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by Little miss naughty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋