2006-08-21 02:53:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well there is more to it ,i actually stalk her from school and have evil thoughts
is this what they call love
2006-08-21 03:01:45 · update #1
YOUR A SICKO!!! YOU PERVE!! IT MUST BE YOUR HUGE CHIN THAT MAKES YOU THINK THINGS LIKE THIS!!!
2006-08-22 03:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by weed822001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well apart from the stalking her from school bit ... I'd say you were a normal hormonal teenager.
Most boys go through a stage of fancying an older woman - usually a friend's mother or an aunt or a neighbour - so that's understandable. It sometimes lasts for quite a few years before you get to 35/40 and start fancying younger women (older than 16 though!)
The stalking bit is disturbing and I should do something about it before you do something you might regret ... See a doctor or get counselling!
2006-08-21 03:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, of all you are way too young for any 45 year old. Love never includes stalking or having evil thoughts. You might need to some counseling. Since school is getting ready to start or already have started try focusing on your education.
2006-08-21 03:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i will be honest with you and give the best answer i can ...
Legally speaking, you can't do that, because you are a minor, but establishing a relationship with a woman older than you it is not an easy task. I like mature woman too (I'm 32) and when i get married at 25, she was 18 older. I'm divorced now but you can have issues because the gap generation. This is in terms of a serious relationship.
If you're thinking in terms of sex and a physical attraction, you can get a lot of experience dating with an older woman (most of times). Because of course ... she has more life experience.
My 2 cents! You are still too young. Wait a few more years before get involved with an older woman. Besides i guess there are no woman who would like to date with a man so young like you.
2006-08-21 03:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not love.
Thoughts about sex are not evil, its called fantasy and is very natural. However if you are having thoughts about harming this person then please go and talk to your GP, this is not normal and you have a medical problem that you need help for.
Other than that, fancying someone is always completely normal whatever your age, their age, your gender, their gender. It's all part of being an adult.
2006-08-21 03:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just about everyone has had a crush on an older person when they were young, be it a teacher or coach or a parent's friend. Nothing wrong with a little harmless infatuation - just realize that's all it is. Dream about your older woman all you want, but for real-life flirting and dating stick with girls closer to your age.
2006-08-21 03:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Super Flippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No mate its not! Love feels more like indigestion, rather than nasty thoughts! If it was love you wouldnt be stalking the poor woman you would be wondering where the hell all of your money has gone!
2006-08-21 03:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its not right and its not love-ur too young to know what love means other than love for your father and Mother. Besides, if u both pursue a relationship she could be arrested-because ur not of legal age
2006-08-21 03:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are only looking for a motherly image. Or must be attracted to mature women because of their view in life.
2006-08-21 03:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, im a 13 year old girl and i dont fancy any older men
2006-08-21 03:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by emily2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no I'm 13 and I fancy men and woman
2006-08-21 03:00:32 · answer #11 · answered by Mariah Jurgena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋