Family & Relationships - 21 August 2006

I am so frustrated with my kids! I have 3 boys. 8 yrs, 3, and 14 mths. The 14 mth old sleep in his crib in his own room. The 3 and 8 yr old sleep in the same room in bunk bed. They are constantly playing after bedtime! They constantly get out of bed 8-9 times a night with stupid excuses! I only have a 3 bedroom house. My husband is in Iraq and I have no family support (miltary wife). I am about to lose my mind! My kids don't listen to me! They are starting to walk all over me! I hate to spank their butts! I have tried time outs, taking things away, grounding, everything! I don't spank my baby don't worry! Anyways, it's the 3 and 8 year old that walk all over me! What can I do??!! I'm losing control of my kids! Am I the only parent that goes through this? Sometimes I feel like I just want to get in my truck and drive away forever! Am I the only one that feels like this?

2006-08-21 17:17:49 · 19 answers · asked by tmae 2 in Family

Blonds,Redheads or Brunettes?

2006-08-21 17:17:27 · 11 answers · asked by The Man 2 in Singles & Dating

I have problems letting people come into my life and not being able to fully trust them because of what i've experienced in the past.

2006-08-21 17:16:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so for long story reasons, by boyfriend thinks i hate him. Which is very untrue. I want to make up for him feeling this way and prove i don't hate him and suprise him with something, but the romance comes limited when your only 16. Any ideas?

2006-08-21 17:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 17:16:24 · 12 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok guys, would you rather be the chaser or the chasee and why? I am refering to "dating" or realtionships lol. Is being the chasee good for dating and being the chaser good for serious realtionships? I mean whats the deal AND WHY???? lol

2006-08-21 17:15:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 17:15:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sis & I trying 2 make scrapbook for Mom b'day Sunday - she 60. I'm looking for interesting facts about 1946 for 1st page and interesting facts about 2006 for last page....Any ideas 4 sites? Also, I would like to get her a cute 60 t-shirt to wear.. funny... but not too insulting any ideas? I mean she isn't vain but I still don't like many I have seen thus far - they are just rude. Thanks in advance.

2006-08-21 17:15:24 · 3 answers · asked by aucircle 1 in Family

im goin night night i have to move my stuff tmw bright and early

2006-08-21 17:14:37 · 7 answers · asked by gus gus 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

At some point ALL of my guy friends showed interest in me.
One guy friend told me: since you were 13 every guy that has been nice to you, wanted to get in your pants. It doesnt mean that they are not good people, is it just humman nature?

2006-08-21 17:13:15 · 24 answers · asked by davecz4 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my ex after 3 years of miserable relationship. for all the tears i cried and so many sleepless night, i've decided to leave him. he cried sadly and begged me to stay and that he'd change for me. honestly, i felt he was so immature.

am i cruel? or is he really a crying baby?

2006-08-21 17:12:53 · 43 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i live in massachusetts, and my bets friend here is moving away to michigan. I want to give her an awesome gift at her going away party next thursday, but i dont know what ?!
and i dont want to do a huge photo-album, because 1) i dont have too many pictures, and 2) everyone does that.

Please and thankyouu =]

and remember, this is my best friend forever.
i love her and i dont know what im going to do without her.

2006-08-21 17:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend who has been married for 14 years. They have 3 children together and seem to be ok on the outside. But the problem is,the wife has put up with constant lies such as her husband's over use of drugs from marijauna, coke, crack, to pills. He has an addictive personality as we call it. When he cheated he said it was due to an addiction to sex. As time has rocked on, the woman has told him to leave a few times but the children seemt o pressure her into letting him come home after he parties and she sits home with the children. He goes to the strip clubs and hangs out with all his drug headed buddies. I don't really know what to tell her. She knows how I feel so I thought I would ask you all. Now, it seems my friend has met a man who makes her very happy. She thinks of him all the time and she wants to be with him but because of her children she stays with their dad. How can I let her see it is ok for her to be happy?

2006-08-21 17:11:24 · 29 answers · asked by *•measineed2be*• 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this an asset or liabilty?
Can falling in love ruin a perfectly good friendship?
Is there a middle ground?

2006-08-21 17:11:22 · 18 answers · asked by Type3Thinker 3 in Friends

kids gotta love em'... but have you ever tried ur hardest to get a better job, move to a bigger home, and buy a better vehicle and ur kids make u feel like crap? in 8 months i accomplished this and u know wat MY KIDS TRY to make me feel like i failed because maybe i'm not home enuf or sh*$ i dunno. i only work 8 hrs a day and i work less than 15 mins from home... SUMBUDDY PLZ TELL ME AM I DOING THE THING FOR MY KIDS OR ARE THEY RIGHT AND I SHOULD FEEL BAD????

2006-08-21 17:10:44 · 8 answers · asked by princess786900 2 in Family

what is the best way to say sorry to some one over seas, i mean some one realy far away?

2006-08-21 17:10:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, I posted my problem before, but tonight it got worse. The guy I work at a sports bar with whom I have heard could possibly be married and only speaks Spanish (I speak it roughly well) is oh so kind and charming. Anyways, he looks at me a lot, and is not shy about direct eye contact. He calls me "mucha bonita" and grabs my shoulders and arm. He is always helping me out and when I look into his eyes I just melt. The chemistry is insane and something I've never felt before with any other guy. But, he could be in a committed relationship--something I would never destroy. I am a Christian and would NEVER cheat with a married man. He doesn't wear a ring, which I know means nothing. But today at work another guy hugged me and was messing around and he got "mad" at him cause he was "flirting" with me. When we walk by eachother he will turn his head to maintain eye contact. I have tried to forget/ignore him but it's so hard with the way he acts all the time. Why does he do this

2006-08-21 17:10:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for a month.

2006-08-21 17:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ Vogue ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

From the the great Dean Martin song Ain't that a kick in the head,cover'd by Robbie on' Swing when you are winning'- I couldn't feel any better or i'll be sick, whats the best one line in a song that makes your heart kick ?

2006-08-21 17:08:38 · 7 answers · asked by pompeyblue 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 17:08:28 · 1 answers · asked by lucky 1 in Weddings

1/2 hour each day cause my cousin was over and said u dont talk me that long but it was totaled for 2-3 hours i want her back really bad ive already promised her i would change and promised her it wouldnt happen again and i told her we can make it work as long as we try i got her flowers and a card were i filled it all up with my feelings shes thinkin about it for a couple of days what else can i do and say to win her back?

2006-08-21 17:08:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been on a lot of first dates with girls I met online and through friends. When I take them to bars or to Chuck e. Cheese or whatever, I get the sense they think I'm cheap. But when I take them to a really fancy restaurant, I always feel like I spent too much on them. I took a girl to a seafood place by the beach with a nice view and spent $125 on dinner and another $40 on drinks at a fancy hotel bar. And then, the next day, she emails me to say we should just be friends! This happens to me all the time.
Sometimes I think it doesn't (or shouldn't) matter how much you spend on a first date, but I know it does matter to alot of girls. I'm an average looking guy, and kind of short (about 5'6"). I told them I was a lawyer so I know they expect alot on the first date.
So how important is the money you spend on that first date to make a good impression? I want to meet someone who will be happy to go to Denny's with me for dinner but I dont think that will happen. please help,John

2006-08-21 17:07:50 · 17 answers · asked by johnlert22 2 in Singles & Dating

If parents let their children 'run wild', who's to blame?

2006-08-21 17:07:16 · 17 answers · asked by fresh2 4 in Family

how do you handle mean girls. the ones that tell you to get away & stuff...thanks!

2006-08-21 17:06:39 · 22 answers · asked by Lilly Pad 84 2 in Friends

I have this friend who did something that I totally DO NOT agree with.
I thought she was a good person up until just recently:
She was nanny and she started sleeping with the daddy
I can not for the life of me look at her the same way as I used to
she thinks that she has done nothing wrong.
This is just me But I can not be friends with somone who doesn't have the same morals as me is that Wrong?

2006-08-21 17:05:56 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

check this link:

http://www.myclubbuddy.com

2006-08-21 17:05:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

could you believe that a father can actually defend the guy that sexually molested his son instead of defending his son.something is very fishy here. what kind of man would do this to his son . in my opinion i feel like the son of ***** also had something to do with this.
what do you think?

2006-08-21 17:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by Mary T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 57 years old and my husband said that I am not beautiful. I think that for a woman of my age I am pretty but what you think?

2006-08-21 17:04:16 · 46 answers · asked by Eva Artemus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok he knows i like him BUT im not sure if he likes me to. ok
-he sings me rap
-he looks in to my eyes and smiles
-he messes with me 4 fun
-he tries to sit next to me some times
-he mouths me in stead of talking (only is we are far way)
but the pro blem is that he calles me like mother f****** b**** and stuff but hes kidding i thing..... sorry i asked so much but plz!! im despraite! and hes my b.f.f.'s brother!!!!

2006-08-21 17:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-21 17:01:14 · 10 answers · asked by lil s 1 in Singles & Dating