how do you handle mean girls. the ones that tell you to get away & stuff...thanks!
2006-08-21 17:06:39 · 22 answers · asked by Lilly Pad 84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow! thanks everyone for the great answers....a lot are making me laugh! lol!
keep it up!
2006-08-21 17:14:46 · update #1
Best not to handle them at all. Steer clear if you have a choice. There are plenty of negative influences in our lives that we HAVE to put up with, if you have the option to keep this girls at a distance, do it.
2006-08-21 17:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are you going around a girl or girls that would have the chance to tell you to get away & stuff? Do you really want to be around these girls is it worth the hassle? you could always turn their negative attitude into a positive situation for yourself, by just ignoring the comments and overwhelming them with positive affrimations to the point either they see there is no need to be mean or you will decide that being around negative people isnt for you.
2006-08-22 01:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by jewelzangel69taz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kill them with kindness by saying "you have a good day with a smile" (try this when you are an adult). Since you are young just tell them to fu%# off! if they keep on bothering you tell your parents or principal. but if they want to be so mean let your parents file a police report for harassment. i will do this for my future daughter. momma don't play that.
2006-08-22 00:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them...This is a free country and you can be wherever you want to...if she doesn't like that well tell her "Bite Me"
That kind of person is only trying to intimidate you ..ignoring her will really pi$$ her off
2006-08-22 00:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT put up with it. If they give you crap tell them right where to go. Don't ever let girls like that walk all over you.
2006-08-22 00:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dasher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it off with a whatever and sigh it shows you know you cant have everybody like you and it doesnt bother you
2006-08-22 00:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill them with kindness. Nothing makes them madder than being nice to them after they are mean to you. If that doesn't work, beat their *ss.
2006-08-22 00:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by Gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to just ignore them if I could. Keep my distance.
2006-08-22 00:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-22 00:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by cute chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them I'm not here to hurt you I just want to be your friend !
They like that
2006-08-22 00:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by ajax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋