At some point ALL of my guy friends showed interest in me.
One guy friend told me: since you were 13 every guy that has been nice to you, wanted to get in your pants. It doesnt mean that they are not good people, is it just humman nature?
2006-08-21 17:13:15 · 24 answers · asked by davecz4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
P.S: I'm married, I'm just asking because I've always been curious about this. And I don't want a friendship to cause my husband jealousy.
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2006-08-21 17:33:36 · update #1
Sorry I guess I am wasn't clear. My friends don't necessarily want sex they just flir, some dont flirt but I can tell that they have feelings for met. I don't want to lead anyone on, I love my hubby and I am happy with him.
2006-08-21 18:26:44 · update #2
No I dont. I have tried to have platonic relations with females, it works at first, but usually different emotions start to evolve and become to intense for a true friendship only to exist
2006-08-21 18:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My female buddy and that i broke up. issues have been very intimate between us. We had a great intercourse existence and all around a great existence at the same time. We broke via "extenuating situations" yet we are nonetheless very close acquaintances. The friendship has been working as though we by no skill broke up, different than the intercourse element. we are nonetheless very on the threshold of one yet another and spend countless time at the same time. there is desire for our destiny, yet for now, the friendship is the suitable that the two individuals can do. So, confident, there could be a friendship, a real friendship between a guy and a woman. additionally, there could be a real friendship between a guy and a woman without the sentiments of sexual attraction. I even have a number of female acquaintances with whom i might by no skill be able to have intercourse. There are lines whilst it includes those styles of issues. once you draw the line with a particular individual, that line has a tendency to by no skill circulate. in case you do no longer draw a ling with yet somebody else and you challenge into the unknown territory of love, then you definately finally end up doing issues which you will possibly by no skill do with all and sundry else. yet a friendship between the opposing sexes is truthfully achieveable without intercourse. suitable of success
2016-10-02 09:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of male friends and very few have been interested in me other then friends and the ones that have you pretty much know right away. I think that guys and girls can be good friends you just need to know the intentions of the guy and make it clear that you are just friends and do not see him in any other way.... Telling them regularly that you see them as a brother figure is usually a quick way to get the point across with out having an odd conversation about "not liking them that way".
2006-08-21 17:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible and it actually happens.
I can tell you my wife and I are best friends, and we have been together over 20 years. If I were not her friend, I would have left a long time ago. Especially if it was strickly because of sex that I stay together. Cause sex just gets boring after a while.
But the best benefit of having your best friend of the opposite sex as your partner in marriage, is that you get to share the intimacy with one another!
Don't let your silly friends talk you into sex, or into believing that your only a sex object for men. That is not so. There is a man out there that you will one day fall in love with, and when you do, you will want to give him yourself, and it will be right.
It is true, that there are men who will try to butter you up just to get close to you. But you have to be smart and make them prove themselves as to their true intentions. If you outlast them, the one that sticks around will be the one who you should look to as a friend, or potential friend for life.
2006-08-21 17:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cabana C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friendship can exist among opposite sex Why not ?? But u also got to keep Ur husband happy ...he shouldn't misinterpret Ur friendship with another guy which may happen. Take care of that and Friendship is friendship he cant be ur husband or lover u have to keep it very clear
2006-08-22 03:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by coolguy2695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true boys are rotten
What I say is work in a pet store
Mix all the dogs up
males and females see which ones just want to talk to the other dogs
and get a guy like the dog and if that dosn't work out get a dog!!!
2006-08-21 17:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer could be a bit different from others,
I have two girrl friends but we dont have any thing illegal between us,
I my self married
one is married and have a child still i call her over phone meet her we talk alone while her husband works in other room,
second is ready to get married, we go for dinners moivies and i has all the liberty in her home too even in the presence of her brothers.
Hence every thing is possible untill we spoil our brains
2006-08-21 18:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by raghu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-No dont overeact, just take it 4 what it is, u obviousely are a beautiful girl, so any guy would be attracted 2 u, but I also think that it is possible 4 someone to have friends of the opposite sex & not have any kind of sexual interest, that comes with maturity level, you know thinking with ur brain not ur genetals!!!
2006-08-21 17:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by Nay Nay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see i have only 3 friends who are girls and rest of them are all boys. they are all close to me and even some did showed interest in me. but it is on ur decision what u want to do. if u really have control on urself then it is not that u will go on to them for sex. and if they are really ur friends then they are not going to force u for anything and u must clear everything before getting into friendship.
2006-08-21 18:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not always like that.. but if you are a chick.. you are more prone to meet such circumtances.
if you are sexy, a very hot babe ... then wouldn't it be insult to you if some one say "i don't like to make out with you."
i agree, a lot of guys will come closer to you just to check out their chances, but there will be few frm them who will like your nature more then ur luks...and they might drop their plans to "make out with you" just to be wid you.
n hey ... they don't want to get into ur pants but panties... :P
just think of a "gay".. won't he like to make out wid every handsome guy he see.
"it doesn't mean that they are not good people, is it just human nature?"
well... trying to have s e x with every female is not a human nature, that's animal nature.. humans are social animal, and the first thing which helped humans to get "social" status was their control on their sexual desires... (just think.. why "marriges" exist in every place on earth where human lives.. they might follow any religion or might not follow any, they might be very rich or very poor... they may belong to queen of england or they might be red indians... they all marry.... why ??)
so wht i mean to say.. "wish to have s e x with you" is not human nature but to control that urge is the human nature.
we can't control not to have tht urge, but yeah we can control that urge.
n yeah.. their can be true friendship between the opposit sex..
if you think "sex" can distroy the friendship then its a myth... sex is just the another thing that they might try out.
love relationship kills the friendship.
2006-08-21 17:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by lsnfathesametime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋