Ok guys, would you rather be the chaser or the chasee and why? I am refering to "dating" or realtionships lol. Is being the chasee good for dating and being the chaser good for serious realtionships? I mean whats the deal AND WHY???? lol
2006-08-21 17:15:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously though, whats the difference, how does it change your perception of the girl depending on which one it is?
2006-08-21 17:32:53 · update #1
Everyone knows that the guy is "supposed" to be the chaser, and that is what I end up having to force to do. But to tell you the truth I would rather be chased. These days relationships are rarely traditional but women still want men to act traditional. I see things a little differently. I will cook and clean and do laundry, and I love to see a woman mow the lawn or work on a car. I guess everyone is different.
2006-08-21 17:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by True Rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree partially with the rocker guy. It has always been my fantasy to be chased by a woman, but it has never happened. I always end up doing the chasing. Who can say if one way is better than the other? I just know that if it is right, you will know it is right. And even if you get to enjoy 1, 2 or even 8 years of happiness and receive the gift of children or not, one would not trade the experience. All these things are important aspects of life we need to experience to feel fulfilled as a human. Of course, we can't BE happy unless we can define WHAThappiness for us is. Back to the question, chase me please.
2006-08-24 00:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Type3Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like being CHASED per se...if a woman wants to make her intentions clear then that's fine, but, I don't want to be hounded. If you make your feelings known and I don't folow up on it then leave it at that. I will pursue you from then on if in fact I am interested in you. and if we are in a relationship I don't want to feel like you are trying harder than me to further things along, if you know what I'm saying.
2006-08-22 00:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as my observation chasee is good for dating
2006-08-22 00:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by santhosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both
2006-08-22 00:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't bother me at all.
2006-08-22 00:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rusty Shackleford 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋