Is this an asset or liabilty?
Can falling in love ruin a perfectly good friendship?
Is there a middle ground?
2006-08-21 17:11:22 · 18 answers · asked by Type3Thinker 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-08-21 20:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by kabatas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I probably do. I think it is both and asset and liability, depending on the situation. Falling in love can ruin a perfectly good friendship but you an still care about them, although it depends on the situation. It's the speed of things lol. Yeah I think there is a middle ground I just haven't found it yet, but I'll let ya know what it is when/if I do lol.
2006-08-21 17:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've fallen in love only once, and I don't expect it to ever happen again. I guess I'm too picky.
No, if the other person doesn't feel the same way or if the relationship doesn't work out for some reason, then if the friendship is strong enough it will survive.
Middle ground? I don't understand...
2006-08-21 17:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I wish I wasn't such a caring person. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I get hurt really easily. Luckily I found a guy that I am very happy with!
Love can sometime hurt! And yes falling in love can ruin a friendship!
2006-08-21 17:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dana J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No to the first two questions.
yes and no also to ruining a friendship by falling in love.
sometimes there could be a middle ground it all depends on the people involved
2006-08-21 17:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by jewelzangel69taz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa. this is a big one. love is complicated only if the other person does not feel the same. if the two of you feel the same, it will be nothing but happiness. friendship is a big part of a relationship. id wait and see where the other person stands before jumping to anything. continue being friends, and the feelings may grow. dont rush into anything if you're not sure of what the other person is feeling, that rush may scare them away from the friendship the two of you have shared, altogether..
2006-08-21 17:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one because it hurts really bad when you fall in Love with someone and they don't feel the same way, but on the other hand if you never let yourself fall in Love with anyone they you aren't allowing yourself to feel and to be hurt and to grow. I always tell myself when i have a broken heart that whatever doesn't kill me only makes me stronger.
2006-08-21 17:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by sweetypie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes falling in love with a friend could ruin your friendship belive me been there done that. BIG MISTAKE.
2006-08-21 17:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Dana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a middle ground. if you love them tell tem but you could lose them. it can ruin a good friendship.try and be friends until you know how they feel. it is both an assest and liability.
2006-08-21 17:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by been there done that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i advise that u know the person well before u fall for someone. at first sight, it may be just admiration, but it's not really true love. being in love with someone means doing what's good for the person.
2006-08-21 17:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by vernz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋