Family & Relationships - 13 August 2006

2006-08-13 13:48:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im seventeen years old, and I have been dating the same boy for two years and a half. all of the friends that I had before we started dating are gone, they all stabbed me in the back. So all I have is pretty much just him. Then, I make friends, but I find something wrong with them, and in six months theyre gone. Its just, my mom keeps givng me a hard time saying I need friends blah blah blah, but my boyfriend is my best friend and honestly- he is the only one that I hang out with. My mom said something to me about me not having friends, and I said- "what about megan and alleia?" and she is like, how much do you want to bet, in six months, they wont be there?...and I know its me- I dont know why Im pushing them away, if its because Im evil and am getting bored or what- i dont know what my issues is..just, ack....help...please

2006-08-13 13:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by Aria 2 in Friends

ok my wife of 7 years cheated on me in march. our divorce was final in june, we have 2 kids together. my thing is that at first, she didnt care that she cheated on me cause she just kinda went crazy, but now she regrets it very much. and the problem is that i still love her but i will NEVER trust her again. how are you supposed to move on? we still spend time together sometimes, and she just stopped seeing the guy she cheated on me with, but i just cant get over her, and i dont wanna meet someone and drag them into this mess, its just not fair. i want to know how to either take her back, or get over her, and i dont know how to do either one. its like i dont want her but i dont want anyone else to have her either, and i know she still loves me but i have too much self respect to just jump back in with her, but then again i dont want to be alone from now on. any advice would be greatly appreciated!i need all i can get, because i dont know what the hell to do.

2006-08-13 13:45:48 · 39 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 13:45:40 · 18 answers · asked by April S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont believe that love takes a year. i was NEVER interested in boys, i needed a promdate & had met this unique guy & could think of no one else i'd go with, i wanted to feel it out. We had a night long date talked til 3am politics social concerns music, i slept in his arms under the stars It felt so right, 2 months like this,one night i said i love you and he was not surprised, he said, "give me a week" a week later he was over i told him "well youve seen me naked but i havent seen you," we were both virgins, we almost had sex I told him i couldnt do it,that i didnt know him at all, he didnt even look at me he just nodded. after he told friends, he broke up with me, he said things to hurt me,cause i hurt him he wouldnt say it, i apologized he acted unhurt, i tried explain it came out muddled. he mentions me w/sarcasm i know he cares but cant admit,ive called him he was happy to hear from me, but what can i say to bring him back? To trust that i wont hurt him? is it possible?

2006-08-13 13:44:50 · 5 answers · asked by old_soul_945 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 21 now when i was 11 i was raped by my own cousin....i cant seem to forget about it...what can i do? i didnt tell no one i was scared...

2006-08-13 13:44:20 · 8 answers · asked by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 in Family

Im in a realtionship with a young man he is 26 Im 35, We've had our minor disagreements. Mainly over his mom and his bro. His mom and bro. Still does not approve of our relationships for no reason at all. We've been really good to each otherb, but often feels I made another huge mistake. I notice one thing when his mom or bro calls, my boyfriend goes outside to talk to them. I have not ask him why he does this, Please help!! I just do not know how to understand this, especially when this bothers me..Do you think Im exaggerating. This is a weird relationship my family has excepted him with open arms but his mom and bro doesnt. Should I send this moma boy back home?

2006-08-13 13:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So here's my theory...I think if it's real you can't fall out of love with someone. You can not want to be with them or not like them etc but when you really loved someone there will always be a part of you that will never forget that no matter how hard you try. On the other hand, some people say that they fell of of love when things didn't go the way that was "planned" and when they became uncertain or insecure. Anyway I want to know your take on the whole deal? Have you fallen out of love with someone and how did it feel?

2006-08-13 13:43:36 · 19 answers · asked by Layla 2 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I think I meet a nice guy he only dates me twice or three times! It makes me think there's something wrong with me and that I'm not pretty enough! Is There something wrong with me? What could I possibly be doing wrong?

2006-08-13 13:42:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you 'say' you love a person, why would you want someone else?

2006-08-13 13:42:40 · 23 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

My Man is all the way in Jamaica! I love him so much. I have major trust issues.

2006-08-13 13:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by nikki g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hard times

2006-08-13 13:42:05 · 7 answers · asked by AlfredG 2 in Friends

2006-08-13 13:41:58 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just wondering what is the normal time-frame for saying those three words. I don't plan on saying it myself, but I'm curious when my bf will say it. He treats me like a queen and we're really happy. I hope he'll eventually say it.

2006-08-13 13:41:52 · 21 answers · asked by CC 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 13:41:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He doesn't have a lot of self worth and doesn't mind what he's doing to his body. He is such a wonderful person. He’s very nice, sweet, loving, and calm. He's really smart and talented too. Everyone has his or her flaws and smoking seems to be the number one for him. He cares almost nothing about himself and everything about his family, friends, and girlfriend. He is 17 and pretty much like an older brother to me. I asked him to stop, and when that didn't work I did the only thing I could think of. I told him not to talk to me until he quit smoking. He was sad, he was upset and he was apologetic but he would have never talked to me again if I hadn't given in. He's so important to me I just want him to be healthy. I'm sick of watching him die and he knows how much I hate it... I need an idea, something to tell him to get him to quit. Any help is welcome.

2006-08-13 13:41:08 · 4 answers · asked by CommonSense 2 in Friends

Looking for wife in usa, where is good place to find wife to marry? Thank you.

2006-08-13 13:40:22 · 16 answers · asked by nice iran man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mother is confirmed drug addict and not interested in recovery. Father is recovering alcoholic since 04/06. Both were living with her drug addicted family. Father was only one working and took care of baby 100% when home from work. The law was called when grandma attempted suicide and taken to detox. CPS was also called and took the 4month old when house was found to be roach infested and had no water for 3 months. Father carried water in gallon jugs, bought baby needs, and groceries. Father also protected baby things and bottles from roaches by storing them in empty freezer. Father not an angel but since birth of son he has done a 180 degree turnaround. Mother's family only became possesive and agressive after father couldn't take anymore and planned to leave for the baby's health and safety.

2006-08-13 13:39:59 · 20 answers · asked by star10over 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, there's this guy whos ABSOLUTELY insanely in love with me, and its mostly the way i look. hes a yr younger, super immature but he just keeps acting stupid and awkward. how do i slowly get rid of him and not hurt his feelings.

2006-08-13 13:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by serena b 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean he talks to me by texting me cause he says he hates talkin on the phone and can't stand it. does he not like me or just too shy to call??

2006-08-13 13:39:06 · 14 answers · asked by JIGGY 2 in Singles & Dating

okay me and friend like the same exact boy...Im really into him but she is to but he only likes me..i dont wanna hurt her feelings if go out with him but i dont want to turn him down so he thinks i dont like him ...what do i do?

2006-08-13 13:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by aka_frankie2 1 in Friends

If you're really close to your best friend, and you know they care about you, but you get really upset when they tell you to shutup. What do you do? Imagine this person does this to the point where you can never get a word in because they say you are uninteresting and talk to much, and you tried to explain to them that friends listen to eachother and you're willing to always listen to them and you really don't like being told to shutup. but they don't listen.

2006-08-13 13:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by XD 1 in Friends

if they were, why does so many 'attached' people surf the net looking for someone else?

2006-08-13 13:38:25 · 8 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

there is this room down in the basement of my house but it's locked, and i really, really want to find out what's inside it. I have a feeling it's my mom's old stuff that my dad his when she died, and my dad has forbidden me to go inside...if it is her stuff i really think i have a right to see it so could anybody just tell me how to pick a lock?? i have absolutely no clue and no mean answers ok thank you so much

2006-08-13 13:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by julesrules714 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Listen girls i am 17 my gf is 15 the last 2 days was her birthday i made for her a surprise party and i give her a wonderful necklace i wanna know from you what could i do better to make her more happy coz really i am the only boy on earth who luv his gf this much and i dunno what can i do for her ... her sis has died before 2 years :( and i wanna draw the smile again on her face plz tell me what can i do i tried everythng roses words everythng i wanna more ideas plz :):) and 10x alot girls :) (K) mwahhh

2006-08-13 13:37:32 · 22 answers · asked by Official Helper 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay i have this friend shes me best friend and we are really close well except that were like in a group of 4 ppl including me and we are all really close but shes strating to slip away i think becuz she thinks she now wanted or needed and i really really don't want to lose her i mean were so different thats its so right to be good friends and if she drfits away and feels unwanted that kills me inside.... so what should i do or say to her to mean that i love her being around?? she thinks shes lonely but i and my other three friends love her to death... so plz help me here!

2006-08-13 13:36:59 · 4 answers · asked by OkieOk 3 in Friends

im 12 and my parents are fighting and my mom keeps saying that if he drinks again they are getting a divorce and id ont want them to because i dont know who ill live with and i love them both so please help me

2006-08-13 13:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having some issues with this, because I feel that just beacuse a girl/woman dresses sexy or likes to wear lingerie - this does not mean that she is easy!!! I don't dress slutty but I like to feel sexy and I hate that men automatically assume that I want to have sex with them! I also wrote a question about exotic girls - and some guy wrote that men only want exotic girls for sex - all you men who think that way are twisted and perverted. Well, I guess I'll get back to my original question now that I've gotten that off my chest - if a woman is sexy do you automatically assume that she is easy??

2006-08-13 13:35:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i go thru all the listings and cant seem to get a answer. am i the onley 70 year old around?????

2006-08-13 13:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by rosiesky224 1 in Friends

He lives like four hours away though but he is totally hott and hes smart and fun to be with

2006-08-13 13:35:44 · 4 answers · asked by ~Katie~ 2 in Singles & Dating