if you 'say' you love a person, why would you want someone else?
2006-08-13 13:42:40 · 23 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They don't really love.If you do ,you need no one and nothing else.
2006-08-13 14:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mac 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't have a reason for cheating they just do it not thinking they can get caught. They might just say they love you because they think that is what you want to hear. But most of the time they cheat because that's just a part of their personality and they can't change or haven't made an attempt to change their problem.
2006-08-13 20:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by M.Finest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no GOOD reason. Some do it by temptation....it's hard to resist cheating when someone is right in front of them and they can get away with it, so they think. That's probably the common reason actually. Some do it while under the influence of some mind altering substance and aren't usually aware of what exactly they're doing...but it does happen.
2006-08-13 20:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person rarely meets all our needs, especially the need for adventure and excitement. So a new one comes along and the thrill is on and the cheater follows after the thrill. The one who truly loves chooses to stay faithful, receives the "thrill" of security and deep relationship and turns away from the "need" for new thrills. The cheater will always go after a new thrill thinking it will feed the need, but even the new thrill will soon grow old and be tossed aside for another. "Saying" you love is always proved by your actions--or in the case of a cheater--disproved!
2006-08-13 20:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by CHos3n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people cheat because the feelings have changed but they don't want to hurt the other person by leaving them so they find other ways of doing it cheating being one of the ways
2006-08-13 20:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by loca mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a "good" reason? Not sure what you mean by that, but here are some:
-too curious about having sex with others, sex-crazed, sex-starved.
-they find an additional person they are in love with.
-drunk, inhibitions lowered
-feel stuck in their current relationship and can't find a way out
-in love with two (or more) people at the same time
-offered money to sleep with the other person (i dunno, I'm out of reasons)
2006-08-13 21:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't one. "Saying" and actually feeling love, are two different things. People lie all the time. It's just too bad they lie to the ones who truly love them.
2006-08-13 20:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There ARE no good reasons for cheating!
There are good reasons for DUMPING the other person, though!
2006-08-13 20:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jonnae L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno y becuz certain men and women cant control theirselves or mayb its just dat they r in luv wit u and they dont luv u they could have better feelings 4 the other person i kno wat u r goin through becuz i felt the same way @ 1 point but now im jus confused about certain females so all i have 2 say is just b careful becuz people do hurt other people
2006-08-13 20:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because maybe the person you love isn't giving you the attention you feel you deserve.
2006-08-13 21:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two aspects of man's basic nature.
1.) We are selfish.
2.) We are deluded.
Combine the two and the cheater sees something they want and then think they can get away with it.
2006-08-13 20:46:32 · answer #11 · answered by TheSlayor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋