I Can't Hold On To A Guy, What's Wrong With Me?

Question

Everytime I think I meet a nice guy he only dates me twice or three times! It makes me think there's something wrong with me and that I'm not pretty enough! Is There something wrong with me? What could I possibly be doing wrong?

Answer 1

Please don't worry. There's nothing wrong with you. It's perfectly normal at your age. And it has nothing to do with how you look. Remember, keep looking and you will find just the nicest guy. It just takes patience.

Answer 2

just because you only date a guy a few times doesn't mean he's not a nice guy and doesn't mean you aren't pretty enough. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. and even beautiful women , cover girls go through what you've experienced! What if the guys you've gone out with just didn't want to be in a long term, monogamous relationship. As, far what heard be turning these guys off only you and the guy could answer that. Are you willing to reflect on what actually happened on those dates and share the information with someone who could offer you some unbiased feedback?? Also, if you're friends with these guys consider asking them for feedback. They may be great Friends but not interested in you in a romantic way. Try not to trip on it. The answers are there ,you just have to be willing to receive them. And at the end of the day wouldn't you rather be alone than with someone who is just with you because he didn't want to be alone?? I'm sure there are lots of people who enjoy your company. hang out with them and when the right one comes along you'll forget all the turkeys who didn't call you for a 4th or 5th date!.

Answer 3

It's not that you're not pretty enough because you look the same as you did when he asked you out. The problem must be what happens after. Mentally go over a couple of your dates from beginning to end and honestly critique them as though it were someone else on the date and not you. No do it again and make some changes.

The second food for thought here is that there's nothing wrong with you .....it could be them.

Answer 4

Maybe you are just annoying, or you have bad breath, you appear clingy or desperate, you are boring, etc. However: Even if you have all of the above that doesn't mean you're meant to be alone. There's a mate for every one, just look at those weird couples on the street. It's lovely how people find each other. The important thing is that you never lose hope, just keep doing your thing and you'll find the one. I went through 100 'one daters' before I found the man I now live with.

And he may also come when you're not looking, so just relax and have some fun!

Answer 5

Well if you were not pretty enough they probably wouldn't of ask you to go out with them in the first place. So that is not the problem. It could be that they see desperate written all over you face and get scared off. If you are giving in to easy most guys like the chase even though they want gratification. Try to take it slow mentally and physically. Try not to act like you are desperate for a boyfriend that you just want to get to know them and then see what happens. The time will come when you find that special someone there is someone for everyone.

Answer 6

Look for someone that you can be friends with and then let what ever happens happen. If these guys can't see how special you are that is there problem. Don't let it make you think for one moment that there is something wrong with you. Some guys are just blind to a good thing. Chin up your prince will come! MINE DID HAPPY HUNTING!!! (By the way we were friends first!)

Answer 7

Okay Am gonna let the secret out you want to keep a man. All you need to do is when you meet the guy you want and he's starting to slip away be firm and say. "Look you can be with me go to movies together, have sex, watch movies on the couch get oral sex, go to bed have sex before work to get rid of your morning wood." Or you can go hangout with your buddies. Dosent hurt to slap him when you say this. If he has any sort of a brain hell snap and realize your the one for him.And you'll live happily ever after. There i said it's hard but thats the truth about keeping a man.

Answer 8

There s nothing wrong with u, is just they havent know true self of you who is so pretty inside... Actually , u dun have to blame yourself, just said to yourself..."This is their lost, they dont love me because of i am not pretty enough..". Love is not about looks , its more about your spiritual and inner side of uu. If a guy falls in love with u because you are beautiful, that means he didnt love u. U dont have to change yourself to attract a guy, just be yourself and be a nice and caring person... They will fall for u although u were not so pretty.. Dont care about how u look like, just care about how u bring yourself, hows ur attitude? how ur behaviour... I am fully sure, they will not let u go the other time u date a guy.. Just be a bit more caring and understanding, be yourself, and express your feelings towards them... there s nothing you have to worry about, calm down , be yourself, and everything will be fine... Good luck and I am sure u will find a true love one day, be patient and All the best for u

Answer 9

Some one told me men are looking for a certain quality, men i dated 1-2 times have turned out to be control freaks, but we never got far because they found out i wasnt their next victim, so dont fret over the ones that go by, theres probably a good reason..

Answer 10

well it may be that you are going after the wrong guys try dating someone thats completly different and see how that works for you but i doubt you are an ugly person. if that doesnt work then get a nice makeover and do a transformation on your look something new and exciting that always worked for me

Answer 11

Its probably not you. Its most likely the guys. Just hang in there. You'll meet the right guy when the time comes.